My wonderful boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. The first 3 months of our relationship were out of this world...I could not get enough of him (well, we still spend every spare minute together) and I could see our future stretching into the distance. What I am saying is I pretty much "knew he was the one"
When we 1st got together 6 months I had gotten out of an emotionally abusive relationship with a cop that lost his job because of it. it was a very dramatic break-up and very hard on me, so after that relationship I moved out of town for about 6 months to give myself a rest from all th drama I was going through. Court cases etc....
So now my caring, generous, trustworthy, attractive, caring, supportive boyfriend and I are currently living together but I feel as though "I dont know if he is the one?" Does that mean that he is not?
Nothing has changed from what I can see. This is my 1st relationship where I actually trust the person and I have never expected that.
For some reason I am either REALLY SCARED that I am falling out of love with him or that it was just infatuation. It makes me shiver when I think about it. I just want to be able to be with him for the rest of my life but since I dont know anymore I am doubting MYSELF constantly. I know he can make this work but for some reason I am doubtful about me...WHY? I know I could live the most care-free, and happy life with him....Will I appreciate him more as I mature and get older (Im 24) or is he just not the one? :(
I dont even think I will be able to come to terms if I have to let him go :(
2007-03-17
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