I find I am always attracted to stocky, knowledgable and skillful man, but my husband has neither of them. I married to him bcos I like him, and he is a very nice person, intelligent, considerate, loyal and he loves me, also bcos I didnt have enough time to get to know him bcos we were far apart when we started the relationship, I thought I would love him. But now, being in a marriage, I find him more like a trustful friend than my lover, I dont have much passion for him. Some people told me in a marriage, passion doesnt count much, the most important thing is he treats you good and he could share everything with you. But I was in love b4, and I miss that feeling. Now I have been married for 3 months, I constantly find I want more than just this, what should I do, how can I love him? or should I get a divorce?
2007-03-17
04:39:51
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jing j
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Marriage & Divorce