Everytime my boyfriend goes out with his friends, he acts so different when he calls me. He acts like he is so macho...his tone of voice changes, and he is a completely different person. I have asked him that if he is to call me, to step outside to a different room because I cannot stand it when he acts like that. I told him that I would rather not talk to him because it get so annoying. He still continues to do it...why are men so weird like that???? I want to understand!
2007-03-17 04:31:19 · 19 answers · asked by Lautrec 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Immature men are so terrified of being labled "whooped" by their friends that they go out of their way to prove that they have not lost their macho-ness when they are communicating or showing affection to their girlfriend's in front of their friends.
I think you can cut him a little slack, but if it is too much, you gotto tell him to grow up & to stop caring so much about what his friend's think.
2007-03-17 04:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Cinta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some men (the ones no so sure about if they are "men") have this Myth among themslves that if they are acting like you described are showing how in charge they are and not PW.
You can't change him ...but you can change your responce to his insecure behavior. Next time he calls/or you call and he does this ,
Tell your boyfriend, don't ask him , tell him that you will hang-up when his evil twin brother calls LOL and then do it.
Then tell him when he shows you respect on the phone(in this situation) and speaks to you like a true MAN you will take his call. You could also give him this to think about , a true man is a gentleman to women because he is so self assured about how Macho he is that he doesn't need to put on a show for his buddies. That you and every woman knows this and it's very sexy.
Don't forget, never mistake Kindness for weakness. It's actually the opposite
2007-03-17 04:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's psychological. If you were to stand up to a crow of people to say your belief, would you rather do it alone or with somebody? I'll say with somebody. Well it relates to your boyfriend. He acts different because he has a crowd with him. It makes him feel secure that he belongs because he is only human. I think you should just get used to it. He wouldn't change his humanly ways.
2007-03-17 04:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by princess12wannab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's adapting his habit to our surroundings he's in. he's in touch, the two consciously or subconsciously, approximately how he's perceived by the folk around him, and transformations his habit to examine the dominant team. If he had a pair of fellows around yet customarily women, it is probable he'd stay pleasing. Shift the scales any opposite direction, in spite of the shown fact that, and he will in all probability replace right into a "guy's guy." positioned him in a team of fellows who do no longer swear and shaggy dog tale and wrassle, and he won't do those issues then, the two.
2016-10-02 06:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason men act like that is because men think that their all good when they have girls. Their all nice around us bt when they get their boys they r so mean to their girl. Bt i know what ur going throw im going throw the some relationship to. Bt i think that men think when they get around their friends that they can treat us girls wrong.
2007-03-17 04:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Lau",
This is a normal "Guy-thing" that they DO! lol
I know IT so well! It's their way they "Uphold" their "image" around their buddies is all! Don't let it get to you too much, ok? All that matters is the way he IS around you when you are alone, like when he isn't around his friends.
Let him be SILLY the way he wants to be and cherish the time you both have alone!
2007-03-17 04:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl..mine does the same stupid thing...When i call him at work and he is with his friends he doesn't answer me like always with a tender greeting...That makes me sick...Interesting question...i will be back seeing if some MEN answer it...bye...
2007-03-17 04:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by *COSI* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me expain....sweet friend dont you feel happy that he has some difference wwhen he is with you only...
look men are not weird but reason is this wwhen men are with someone wwho they call their life or soul....they need to be humble and caring.
but wwhen they are in their friends... they need to show them ....yes , we do have someone with us ...who is more than every best thing in world...i mean about their love girl.
but well , men got to be serious to their girl..in real..
2007-03-17 04:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by greatmangentletrue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a macho thing. no guy wants to admit that he is wipped.
he also has to be the toughest in the group.
2007-03-17 04:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immaturity...hang up on him if can't talk to you in a respectful manner..he'll come around
2007-03-17 04:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋