He was nice about it, and let go, but i felt like i should get to know him better. Should i let it go, or give him a chance??
2007-03-17 04:33:47 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If ALL he wanted was sex and he had the nerve to let you know...Let him go...all he'll do is teat like a whore if you continue with him.
He can find someone else to be his play thing! Hopefully he won't have to pay for it...
2007-03-17 04:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by BadBill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look dudes ask for sex on the first date to see if they can get it. Not because they like you. They will certainly take it if you give it too them, but they wont think you are the type of woman they want a relationship with. Putting out on the first date is a sure way not to get another date. You did the correct thing.
2007-03-17 04:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how the conversation was, that wasn't about sex.
If he's interesting and you feel the same attraction as he obviously does, then sure, go out again. You should probably still opt for no sex until you've been going out for a reasonable length of time. That way you'll know for sure if he's just trying to smooze you for nookie, or not.
2007-03-17 04:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is have sex before the date, in fact as soon as you meet a guy. That way you get it all out of the way and you can actually go out and enjoy yourself without all that worrying about 'will I, won't I'?
2007-03-17 04:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by krak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats up to you . so long as prior to this next date if you go on one with him you explain again your stand regarding sex.
since he did let it go and accepted no as an answer at least he isnt or does not sound like a rapist so he has that much going for him .
maybe you just turn him on so much he just cant help the thoughts . some girls have that look just pure sexy hot gotta do her look.
again its up to you just be sure he understand your stance on sex at this point before you go off on a date with him .
2007-03-17 04:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have sex when YOU are ready & want to not before or to make a bad date better.
You should have more self respect than to sleep with someone on a first date
2007-03-17 04:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should give him another chance if he wanted sex on the first date then he isn't looking for anything serious
2007-03-17 04:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all he wanted was sex,he probably won't ask you out again. But he might have been testing you, to see if you were easy. Talk to him before accepting another date invitation and tell him you're not into having sex before marriage. At least I hope you're not.
2007-03-17 04:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by teacher sub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As it seems, all he wanted was sex, you said no, and he's over you. I personally would not go looking for people like that. Look for someone looking for friendship and love, not sex. It only brings up more problems when he asks you again.
2007-03-17 04:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the 1st date then he is history cause the 2nd date he'll still want sex he'll jus try to catch you off gaurd maybe even get you drunk watch out
2007-03-17 04:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by 1chance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋