my might boyf ask me to have a 3sum with him and his girlf. WHAT CAN I DO?

Question

i told him that i can but i don't want to see him again. he ask me y but i can'tt reay tell him how and what i fill. i hard but WHAT do i need to do?
thank u 4 all the anwser u give me

what i mean is my friend boy friend ask me to have a 3s with him

Answer 1

what the heck is a might boyf???????

Answer 2

Well, the obvious answer to the question, as you asked it, is that you don't have to do anything you don't want to.

But if I read between the lines, I wonder if the reason you're asking is that some aspect of this interests you, maybe just a little. So, which aspect might it be?

o Do you maybe fancy the guy, and this would give you an opportunity to be with him?

o Or do you perhaps fancy the girlfriend, or are curious about what it might be like to be with a girl?

o Or does some part of you find the whole thing interestingly naughty or exciting? Maybe you're just fascinated by the idea of seeing what *they* do.

I don't think there's anything wrong with any of these responses, but it would help a lot if you worked out what your feelings really are, and what you actually want, and whether this proposal is the way to get it.

One warning: from the little information you've given I reckon there's a good chance that your female friend doesn't know anything about this whole idea yet. This is probably just a dream scenario on the guy's part: almost all guys love the *idea* of getting two girls into their bed - especially their lover + a cute friend of hers.

If the dream ever comes true, it usually turns out to be a lot more complicated than they'd anticipated, and sometimes the fallout can be a disaster. On the other hand, sometimes it really is a dream come true, and results in very close long-term friends or even a happy triple relationship. You never know.

At any rate, it's possible that she doesn't know about it yet. So if you're primarily interested in her, be careful about taking this proposal as any indication of her feelings. You can take his feelings for granted, I think, but if you're after anything long-term with him, note that you're currently in the No 2 position. That may not change.

If you're more interested in the threesome than either of them specifically, just be aware that this could mess up any existing friendship you have with these two; or it could make you all much closer. You may have to consider how badly this could hurt you if things go wrong: if she, for instance, becomes jealous of you afterwards and tries to hassle you. It happens. Or, if the guy is a w*nker, *he* may become jealous of how well you two girls get on together: after all, he's quite likely to be out of the action before you two even get started, and women know more about pleasing each other than guys will ever learn.

Good luck.

CD

Answer 3

Three-somes are not cracked to be most of the time they cause hard feelings between friends and lovers , if that is your bag ok but I sense its not so tell him that its not your thing and spend your energy on finding a healthy relationship that has no sexual inuendos, they are out there, it just takes a bit more work and a positive frame of mind

lose the boy and go out with some friends that treat you like a friend, not an object of desire

Answer 4

the typing is hard to understand so if u mean boyfriend you're in a relationship with, tell him how you feel about it if u want to or not, don't be afraid of being honest- and if you mean he's a friend and wants to include you and his girlfriend same thing, consider how it will affect your relationship afterwards- either way if he is a true friend you should be able to tell him what u feel and he'll understand, if he gets upset or makes u feel bad for saying no then u really don't need him as a friend

Answer 5

i dont get it is this guy your boyfriend or the other girls boyfriend.
well i am all for the idea of group sex as an idea a fantasty i think it is ment to at the most stay that way most often .
certainly in this case it is not ment to happen when you are unsure about something as big as this then dont do it .
as for what to tell him tell him no your not into that and that he may as well move on . tell him you wish him luck . you will stay polite to one another and you wont mind hearing how it turns out if he ever does find himself in a 3 some.
oh i would promise him you wont mention this to others as well out of respect for your friendship. big stress on the friendship part .

Answer 6

Your friends boyfriend asked you to have a 3some with them? Say no and run as fast as possible in the opposite direction. Its not a good idea to do something like that with people you are close to. Someone always gets jealous and it causes loads of unnecessary bad feeling

Answer 7

If u want to, then do it, but your friendship with your friend and with him will never be the same again and also I dont think u should do it unless u are over 21, because its a huge thing and u need to be able to mature enough to handle it all afterwards.

Answer 8

Go for it ! but treat it as fun & only fun. Its an experience that everybody should try once because if you dont, you mightr wonder for the rest of your life what it might have been like. then, if you do enjoy it - go for it again. It an enjoyable experience as long as you keep it fun & not take it too seriously. (& if you cant get a 3rd,then I'd happily help you out ha ha ! )

Answer 9

If you are uncomfortable then just tell him you don't want to. A lot of people like the idea or the fantsy of a threesome but the reality can be very sordid and not at all like the fantasy. Most people regret it afterwards.

Answer 10

confident i do care very lots yet that doesnt recommend i dont have confidence my boyfriend totally. I basically think of that flirting and being intimate would desire to be between 2 people not you, your boyfriend and actual all of us else interior the bar or besides the fact that. Theres no rationalization why he cant be friendly with different women regardless of the indisputable fact that, basically no flirting and im specific hed sense the comparable way approximately me

Answer 11

If i were you id get urself some new friends as this is gonna turn nasty sweetheart, i dont care what anyone says but love is sacred and if you really love ur partner you shouldnt want to be intimate with anyone else, this could backfire on you if you go ahead with it and ur friend could turn against you with jealousy over a bloke it aint worth it please dont go there xxx