If you and your ex broke up... And his mother wanted you to come visit her... would you go? keep in mind that you and his mother have a good relationship but you have never met her in person before but have spoken to her a few times over the Phone and she knows that you still have feelings for her son...
Would you go? And, would it recindle the relationship? are hurt it please answer
2007-03-17 04:35:12 · 19 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I honestly think you should go visit the woman. If she gave you no reason not to like or trust her then you should go. It is all about your relationship with her and has nothing to do with your ex. Think of it as if you were married to this man for several years and you were a part of the family and decided later on to get a divorce. Keep in mind that you may or may not have had step children in this relationship. The point is, would you stop loving or stop seeing the kids because of a split up? I know that the man's mom is different from kids but the feeling can be the same. If you really like the woman like i said before and respect her, you should go meet her and you may find out things about your ex that you didn't know wether good or bad. This may have an over all outlook on what your future holds with your ex. Good-Luck......
2007-03-17 04:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by fireman11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have a phone relationship, just give her a call. No need to see her now. Keep calling her until you feel like you can go visit her without worrying. She should understand if you explain it to her. Why put yourself in a position of getting hurt if you still have feeling for her son. Give it some time before you visit and in the meantime, call her.
2007-03-17 04:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go? Don't judge someone you have never met. And more importantly pick up the phone, call your ex and ask him if he minds if you meet his mother. Don't argue with him if he says no, just accept the decision and move on with your life. As far as rekindling the relationship, accept that its over no matter if you meet his mother or not. Don't let someone else minuplate you into doing something that could lead to more heartache for you.
2007-03-17 04:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by sassyliz32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he still feel the same way about you? It is quite sudden that his mother wants to meet you. Why would it be?
Not going would make you leave to wonder and even regret. I suggest you to go and figure it out instead. You might get hurt but it is better left to wonder the undiscovered. It might even help you to move on. Take things as they come. Dont worry ahead.
2007-03-17 04:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go,look,if you and his mother have never met,and when you broke up she asked you to go visit her,means she wanna recindle your relationship with her son,and probabely he asked her to..
Go for it,and I'm more than sure that would be a chance to renew your relationship..
If there's love,evrything is POSSIBLE.
Good luck :)
2007-03-17 04:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. He is your ex and there is a reason he is. ex= past. It's very difficult sometimes, but it's always the best if you completely cut any ties since it may hurt your future relationship with your new man.
2007-03-17 04:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, I wouldn't go to her house, for fear the lad may think your really just after him, and that is one thing a guy cannot stand is a woman chaser...( most guys anyway..lol)
I would meet her at a restaurant, and have a good Time eating out...but do not visit at her house!)
2007-03-17 04:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mama 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oohh, harsh. it depends if you want to get back together with your boyfriend. she could really help you. but it could make a bad situation worse if you go and see her and dont like her son. that would get a little weird. but if you really like him. go for it and strengthen the relationship. good luck!! <3
2007-03-17 04:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Smacks!~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. Personally I'd just tell her I don't feel comfortable with meeting her. Just keep putting her off and and eventually she will get the message that your not comfortable doing that. Hang it up girlfriend and start anew.
2007-03-17 04:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you still have feelings for him maybe it matters only how much you both care about eachother and his mother.
2007-03-17 04:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋