well there are a lot of things i don' like about my boyfriend and we are together for 1 year now and we love each other sooooo much . but i wanna tell him all the things about him that are bothering me... what do i do...??? how do i tell him..? what if he takes it the wrong way...?? i cant imagine life without him... and we cant live without each other
2007-03-17 04:33:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on what you want to tell him. Sometimes love is learning to love someones flaws, even if it takes a long time. If you need to tell him something you don't like about him that is hurting his health or his overall well being, tell him. Be like honey I am really concerned with "......" and I only want to tell you for your well being. But if it is little things, try to tell him smoothly. But just be aware, you telling him things you don't like about him, may cause him to tell you things he doesn't like about you.....
2007-03-17 04:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
occasionally in a relationship, you just have that talk where you ask him what about you bothers him and then you get to tell him what bothers you. it really depends on what precedent you've set in your communications as to whether or not someone is going to take offence to what is said. never have this conversation when there's some kind of underlying animosity between you and never when you're fighting.
good luck.
2007-03-17 11:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him and he loves you, you should be open with each other about every thing, and if you don't tell him about it he will not know that these things is bothering you ,and he will keep doing it...tell him in a diplomatic way .... but the most important thing is to pick the right time.
2007-03-17 11:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by sky7th_7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the Boundries book and learn not to be so clingy.
http://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Marriage-Dr-Henry-Cloud/dp/031022151X
2007-03-17 11:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by H-Pappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its depends on what u wanna tell him , u cant keep stuff to ur self .. if u want the relationship 2 grow .........
2007-03-17 11:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by emmanuelz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, he will understand. Withhelding information, makes you limited in your relationship, why be limited?
2007-03-17 11:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋