2007-03-17 04:31:58 · 17 answers · asked by marie r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i knw how it feels just leave that sob and all... u deserve better and he doesnt deserve u
2007-03-17 04:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'm sure you must have told him that you want more communication, right? So he must know.
I would calmly and nicely break up with him - in divorce court, it would be called 'irreconcilable differences' causing the break-up. It's very hard to be in a relationship where the other person doesn't care to hear from you and doesn't care if you are hurt. Communication is where all of the issues come to the surface - maybe he thinks you are a 'drama queen', maybe he is too selfish to want anything but sex and a person to go places with when he needs a 'date'. This is not something that translates into a good marriage or a good family life.
You have to ask yourself how long you think you could stand being in such a closed-end relationship. 5 years? 10 years? If you think that is what you really want (you don't or you wouldn't be asking this question), live with isolation and loneliness. Otherwise break up with him now because you are simply using up time when you could be seeking someone new.
Life can be better than what you are experiencing how. You have feelings for him but when you break up with him, do it nicely and that will show that you care. Don't wait for something else to cause the break up in a much more painful hurtful way.
2007-03-17 11:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really that inconsiderate you need to tell him how you feel. Your feelings should not be ignored, nor your wants and needs either. If he is the source of your unhappiness, you need to reconsider your love for him. Sometimes it is hard to break it of with someone you care for, but think of how you relationship will progress (or lack there of).
2007-03-17 11:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time on a boy like that!
If he doesn't want u to ask him anything, maybe he is hiding something...
There's so much better guys out there! Believe me!!!
good luck :)
2007-03-17 11:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by carolina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him anything when he ask you something. when he complains tell him cheerfully that he treats you the same way. i wonder too if maybe you are a little dramatic and have something to constantly complain about. it gets old when you hear the same stuff over and over, eventually you tune some people out.
2007-03-17 11:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen carefully.............look him in the eye and say " I have one more important thing to say to you and if you listen or not i am going to say it" then tell him slowly......" I have to express my feeling to you and if I can't I am leaving". Done deal. He sounds like he has issues that HE needs to reslove and why should that be your issue to repair.
2007-03-17 11:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has no interest in you or your feelings he does not have your best interest at heart and should be kicked to the curb, find some one who realy likes YOU
2007-03-17 11:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by NAYNAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Piss him off Girl!!
when he asks you abt smth too, dnt answer,, and tell him that he has to answer your questions or you won't answer his, he is not your boss!!
2007-03-17 11:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Farah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend -- the only thing you should say to this guy is "Good Bye" and say it fast.
2007-03-17 11:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by JoAnn W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babe, I think its time 4 you to go find someone eles who will appreciate you....
2007-03-17 11:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by remi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋