I have been hurting so much. My world ended when I realized he's not coming back and every time the phone rings it's not him and it never will be again. I wish I could sleep all day and night. BUT I can't sleep at all. I want to just wake up months from now when I feel better. I know in my mind that he is gone but my heart keeps making plans for the next time I see him. I love him but he doesn't want my love. OK but how do I make my heart realize it. When the phone rings my heart jumps thinking it's him but I know it isn't. Why is half of me not accepting that it is over? There was no ending conversation, he just disappeared. BUT that speaks loudly. How come I know it's over but I am stuck in this mess. I just wonder around lost in my head. Thinking about what I could have said or done differently and how I will be so ready when he calls again. (except that he isn't calling again! even if he did it's too late) How do you start to get over someone when you dont want him to be gone?
2007-03-17 04:33:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it took me two yrs and a hundred questions on yahoo to get over the jerk i dated. if he is not calling that says he doesnt care. dont wonder why he left cuz if you did know it wont change a thing. just know he did you a favor by leaving. its hard i know but get your self esteem back and go pretty yourself up. so you will be ready when mister right comes along. my ex is no good and i missed him something terrible when he left but that was out of habit becuz we dated so long. i was just use to being around him. besides no one likes rejection. so let it go and keep a smile on your face cuz he was a whimp and did you a favor by walking out. find someone better who deserves your love cuz he didnt. dont waste anymore thoughts on him cuz it wont change anything thinking about it. ill pray for you and god will send you a good guy.
2007-03-17 04:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard because before you can heal you have to fully accept that he's gone and it's over. You have to grieve for what was and could have been. You have to think of something that will end it in your mind. Don't call him but maybe write a letter that you DON'T send. Tell him everything you wanted, could have done and how hurt you are. Tell him all the stuff trapped in your head. Then rip it up or burn it. When you want to call him or hear from him, write another one.
Then keep busy and push him out of your thoughts. Remember that he is gone. Painful but keep telling yourself that he isn't worth your time. He isn't thinking about you so don't waste time thinking about him.
Good luck.
I'll write more if I can think of some more advice.
2007-03-17 11:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, i feel sorry for you :(
lsn maybe he was a player, thats why he disappeared like that...he is actually a cowrd!
move on honey, and dnt cling to empty robes...you will find the ture love you desreve...he doesn't deserve your love anyway...
keep talking to yourself, that you are the best and u will find another guy who will respect you! he is not worth it, believe me, and DON'T be so daramtic...ppl will take you as a silly girl these days!
2007-03-17 11:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Farah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋