i was at a camp this spring break......some of my other friends were talking and one of them wanted to have a party and pool party... my other friend said why so you can see(me) in a swimsuite?! i thought it was a joke and for all i know it might have been but now i just don't know cause other people think that she is bi....so i don't know if it was ment as a joke or not?
2007-03-17 04:47:38 · 11 answers · asked by sarah h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why should it even matter for you to post a question about it. i f your friend was gay would you not want to call them your friend anymore. I think that you have a problem if you can't look past it.
2007-03-17 04:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Magnolia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had the EXACT SAME EXPERIENCE last summer - Afterwards, I went up to my friend and asked- very friendly, very politely, very sweetly - are you gay? Except, you might want to be more tactful about it. Anyway, she laughed and told me she had been just joking, so maybe you should ask your friend like I did, and either she gets super mad at you and she's gay, or she laughs and she's a normal boy-crazy girl. Try it! Secrets can hurt our relationships with our friends! Keep it all out in the open, and friction is less likely to occur.
2007-03-17 04:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Evanescence16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should u worry about it, if she's gay then so be it, as long as she wasn't trying to hit on u kiddo. then leave it alone, because if u are a true friend then you'll still be her friend ever if it turns out that she is gay, could have very well been a joke so don't let this little thing change your mind about her, as good friends are hard to come by......
2007-03-17 05:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say your "friend" might be gay so then why is this an issue if your friends i came out to my friends a few months back and they were so supportive and happy for me if your mate is gay id doesnt change them. If your the only withthe problem against gay people maybe you shouldnt be firends BUT really it sounds to me like a joke you have taken out of hand but if they are gay there still your friend
2007-03-17 05:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by geordie_claire_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just stupid. You kids are being ridiculous over a dumb comment. Why do you have to label everyone? You could ruin her life with this gossip.
2007-03-17 04:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You kids over analyze things.
2007-03-17 04:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by lovehateleavestay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wanted to see you in a swim suit? maybe you have the issue?
2007-03-17 04:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a joke...calm down.
2007-03-17 04:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's no reason to think she's lesbian. or bi.
i think it was just a joke.
2007-03-17 05:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Nao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha of course she was jokin all girls nowadays are like that
2007-03-17 05:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋