I'm only 14 and quite a number of boys told me they like me, it's weird. They are so brave to tell me but there is one boy (I like him and he likes me too) which is so shy to tell me how he likes me. One of his friend told me he likes me. It's very obvious 'cos he sometimes stares at me in class. He also sometimes play with other girls and then turn to see if I was looking. He is quite popular among girls 'cos he's funny, sweet and always tell jokes.
But I think one of my friend (I'm not very close to her) likes him too. He always talks to her but never talk to me. Should I fight with my friend to get him? Should I tell him I like him or wait for him to tell me? Because both of us are so shy, we have been waiting like almost 1 year (we like each other since 13).
Is it okay for me to like someone at this age? To me, I think it's ok 'cos it's not affecting my studies, we both are still in first class. But I just want advices. I can't tell my parents about this, they're kill me!!!
2007-03-17 04:49:01 · 9 answers · asked by blue sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make a move but dont get your friend involved cos then you'll have even worse competition. talk to him when he's with those other girls to show you notice him and want the attention on you!! it's ok, we're 14 also and go through these things all the time. literally. good luck!! <3
2007-03-17 04:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Smacks!~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal to have crushes at your age. and it's right that you're studies is not affected.
if that boy truly likes you then he would have tell you..you should not fight with your friend to get the boy because in the first place, you didnt have the right and probably the boy will just be discouraged because most of the guys don't like girls to make the first move. just wait for the boy to tell you his feelings, besides you're still young. you still have all the time to wait for the right one.
its not necessary that you'll tell you're parents Coz you're still not in a relationship. but if you want to share, there's nothing wrong with that.
2007-03-17 12:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by stupid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't fight with your friend,I think that the boy likes you but he wants to make you jealous,sometimes they do that I don't know why.
You should write him a note ,if you are shy.
And it's okey to like someone at that age.
2007-03-17 11:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he tell you he likes you when you already know?
You are rather conceited and want to be flattered by all guys all the time?
Go do your homework and worry about more important issues! You're soooo young yet, there's still time enough to worry about this nonsense.
2007-03-17 11:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Hanya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and wait. If he really likes you he will talk to you. He already talks to other girls so he might - might - like you so much that he is afraid you might reject him and so embarrass him.
Once he sees you like him, he will probably get up the courage to talk to you.
On the other hand, he may NOT like you and is being polite.
Best to wait until you are both sure you really like each other.
2007-03-17 11:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by auriform2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are not to young im 14 to. just tell him that u like him. and then maybe he will ask u out because he likes u to.
2007-03-17 12:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are forever, boys come and go. don't ruin a good friendship over a boy.
2007-03-17 11:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah! right! fight her. organize Friday afternoon fighting party... with pillows, food or something ... invite the guy too.
2007-03-17 12:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its perfectly fine if its not affectin u fight for him!! you go girl
2007-03-17 12:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋