so i have this friend, but every time i say hi to her on yahoo messenger its like she hates me, she wants to get me back for something that had nothing to do with me! and i really need help with this! i try to ask her why shes mad at me, but she just says cuz she is! i want help, and i want to be her friend, so what should i do?
2007-03-17 04:44:31 · 12 answers · asked by anna needs help!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is not your only friend and trust me there are more to come. If she thinks you did something and you have tried talking to her and just will not listen LET IT GO!!! She is not worth the drama and she is not a friend to start off with if she can't talk things out with you. If you start to ignore her she might come running back to you and you have the option to clod shoulder her or talk it out. But if you do talk it out be sure you tell her she was wrong but don't make yourself to vulnerable because if she did it now it takes a lot to get trust back.
2007-03-17 05:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Magnolia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that does the same thing!!! Well, she dosen't do it any more but, I know how you feel. If you have other good friends, you can do this.... when she says she's mad at you just say I dont care and walk away.
If she dosen't say she's mad but, she's acting like it just act like your having fun with other people-even if your not. Even if you are mad at her, don't show it because that's probably what she is trying to make you be.
Just keep doing these things and hopefully it helps her stop and just be friends and not worry about getting mad. If this dosen't work try to find new friends that won't get mad and that you can trust..... I hope I halped you out. Good Luck!!
2007-03-17 11:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatecow28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be mad at you for no good reason, and if she is just taking out her anger on you, that's even worse. But you can't tell which one it is if she won't say. I wouldn't be her friend for either reason. Tell her that friends don't do that, and if there's a personal reason, friends tell other friends because real friends and keep secrets for you and help you.
2007-03-17 12:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ pandaheart ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing here hon.....if she thinks of not as a friend but an enemy....tell her straight up you don't know what's up with her attitude and that you had nothing to do with it....say your sorry(even if you did nothing)and let her feel like she won and then what everything is all said and done with you can cmoe back into the picture and ask her what was up.
2007-03-17 11:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by sarah h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her sorry for whatever happened even though u were not involved in it. if that doesnt work than dont worry about it and u can find better friends there is no reason in trying to be friends with a jerk.
2007-03-17 11:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 'm confused does she only not talk at school if that's the case then don't try to hard if you are breaking your neck to be her friend then don't waste your time
2007-03-17 12:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a spoiled brat. Why would you be friends with something like that?
2007-03-17 11:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by lovehateleavestay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a friend that treats you so poorly. Find a true one and leave her alone.
2007-03-17 11:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U REALLY WANT TO BE HER FRIEND AND U HAVE NO MORE FRIENDS I SAY HANG WITH IT BUT IF U CAN NOT STAND IT SAY WHATEVER AND AVOID HER!
2007-03-17 12:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by sassy_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't sweat it. It's time to kick her to the curb and move on.
2007-03-17 11:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋