Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

2007-03-16 07:53:22 · 4 answers · asked by morgan h 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok...I have a friend who has been with her b/f for more than a year now. Since they have met, he has, talked to women online(not just chit-chat either), signed up on dating sites using fake names, once even made arrangements to meet with one woman, but never went through with it, and quite a few other things along the same lines.
He lives with her and the most he has ever given her towards bills in one month was $300, it's normally between $100-200, more often, $100. He has also a few times, asked her to loan him money to buy large items. She hasn't yet, done that!
I know she loves him but it hurts me because I think he is using her BIG TIME.
If you agree, do you have any suggestions on how I can convince her of that, before something really bad happens??! She is one of the sweetest people I have ever met in my whole life and I would like to see her with someone that knows how to treat a Lady!

2007-03-16 07:52:49 · 16 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-16 07:52:48 · 23 answers · asked by CatCatherson 2 in Singles & Dating

i know what the answer is for me, but i wont say. ^_^
how about it girls, or even guys, does size really matter?

2007-03-16 07:52:30 · 18 answers · asked by SexySkirt 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok as simple as possible, one guy...two girlfriends. One he lasts a long time with on occasion, the other his sessions are short, irregardless of how many sessions a night, he just seems to come quickly. Now please explain, why is it like this , is he more attracted to one than the other? I would like to think the sessions that end quickly are the ones where he's turned on the most, but you guys are hard to figure out sometimes. Any help or insight is much appreciated~Cheers

2007-03-16 07:52:08 · 6 answers · asked by sunkissed 1 in Singles & Dating

he is going out with my bestfreind

2007-03-16 07:50:41 · 21 answers · asked by hotlosernana 1 in Singles & Dating

i have 2 best friends A and B.and i sort of have a crush on a guy. problem is he dated A.he didnt know B until i introduced.now he like B. A keeps telling me tht i like him but im denying it, though B knows.now B rejected him not only cus of me (her best friend) but cus she also doesnt like him at all.. i dont want ot make any moves cus i have a feeling A still likes him though she insists shes over him.help??there are occasionally random signs tht hes flirting and all my frnds think he likes me..including A

2007-03-16 07:50:15 · 20 answers · asked by chickz'o'the year 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy for a little over a year, and I LOVED HIM NO DOUBT! Then he cheated on me, so I left him. I then took him back after 6 months and everything seemed fine at first, but then we started arguing all the time. He started drinking and being a total jerk and after about another year of dating we broke up and I really miss him. Should I take him back again or is it not worth my time?

2007-03-16 07:48:43 · 12 answers · asked by Redneckgirl3030 1 in Singles & Dating

lately i've been feeling as though my fiance has been taking advantage of what i do for her, i want her to be happy, but it seems that i'm the only one who is putting forth the most effort...any advice?

2007-03-16 07:48:11 · 21 answers · asked by Chris P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents have been fighting for years, i has gotten really bad the past 4 or 5 months. This has happened before and they got over it, but not for long. My dad is being a complete jerk to me. Everytime i do one little thing wrong he yells at me although he has never hit me it still hurts. My mom wants to get a divorce and i want them to get a divorce also i think it would be better for the whole family. My dad doesnt want the divorce and he is doing everything he can to get us to stay. My mom wants to talk to him tonight about how he has been acting toward me and her but i dont know if i want to. i dont know what im going to say...i could speak from my heart but i find it really hard to talk to my dad. i used to consider him my best friend but now he yells at me daily and isnt home when he is in a good mood.
I really dont know what to do. things are horrible here, there are arguements daily and then my mom gets hurt (not phyisicly). I almost want them to get a divorce. what do i do?

2007-03-16 07:47:06 · 16 answers · asked by Rissa! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you live with in-laws and make life easy, I mean how can you help everyone get along. We gave up our life to help out in-law and now not sure we did the right thing help?.........

2007-03-16 07:46:53 · 7 answers · asked by lonley in olney 1 in Family

Help, My husband & I have 2 wedding invitations... 1 from he quotes "buddy" (groom) and 1 from my friend (bride)... We would to go to both but, can't.....To make a long story short we both decided were going to the bride's wedding, and the reasoning on that was personal,(don't think I always get what I want) but, anyway.... we sent the RSVP back to the groom & today my husand got a text message from groom saying... " thanks, you're a great friend" which hurts both of us, I told my husband to explain but, my husband says "well, it's not he's a real friend we don't even call each other, they haven't really talked in about 5 years... but, it bothers me I don't want the groom to be upset, my husband says to leave it alone but, I don't know????? any comments??? Thanks

2007-03-16 07:46:28 · 24 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Weddings

2007-03-16 07:45:50 · 2 answers · asked by Mariely S 1 in Singles & Dating

Please list as many flirty messages as you possibly can that i can send to my boyfriend that will get him talking and flirting back and fourth like crazy.

2007-03-16 07:45:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 07:44:59 · 5 answers · asked by cowgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so heres the deal, Ive known this girl my whole life, shes a friend of a family friend. I liked her for a long time, shes beautiful. I asked her out and she says yes... everything's cool. I asked her everyweekend if she would want to do something and now she says that she is busy with work and babysitting and its the truth. Now i tell her I like her alot and think that we should see each other more often, and get to know each other better. She thinks of me as a friend and doesnt feel the same way about me as I do about her. She says since the fact that we known each other for so long that she l thinks of me as a friend. I like this girl and cant let her go. Her father and family friends this is the right relationship, because they think its match made in heaven, I think so too, is there any way to get this gril to consider me a boyfriend??

2007-03-16 07:44:59 · 4 answers · asked by Jimmy 1 in Singles & Dating

If you don't have sex for 3 years or longer, how will it feel when you begin having sex again? I am living a celebate life until I get married, haven't done it in 3 years. Have I closed up? Will I have to start all over?

2007-03-16 07:44:54 · 2 answers · asked by curlygirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-16 07:44:50 · 8 answers · asked by coleen w 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong for a woman to pay for her own ring when you live together and share expences but the woman earns alot more ??

(No I haven't just bought my own ring!!)

2007-03-16 07:44:31 · 20 answers · asked by cavviecath 3 in Weddings

I talked to this guy for some time and liked him, so I got a friend to ask him if he likes me, and he said "only as a friend." We barely talk anymore now, but he still looks at me a lot in the hallways and in class. This week, he's starting to look at me less. Since a while ago, I've been ignoring him and trying to make it seem like I don't care about him by turning around when he's talking or something..I guess I don't want to seem like I was hurt by him saying that he didn't like me and act like I'm over him..but I'm not. What do I do? Should I talk to him again, or will he laugh at me and walk away or ignore me?

2007-03-16 07:44:09 · 11 answers · asked by Neesha 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl that I work with who I like. I am really shy with girls and I haven't talked to her or anything yet. I want to get to know her but I feel to afraid to even talk to her. I've noticed that she is kinda quiet herself and I've been told that she's really nice but I keep getting this feeling that she doesn't like me even though she doesn't know me.

How can I overcome my fear?? Whats the best way to get to know her??

2007-03-16 07:44:06 · 9 answers · asked by absolutebalderdash1 2 in Singles & Dating

this boy he goes 2 my school and i like him well he txt me all the time and at school we never talk what do i do

2007-03-16 07:43:40 · 2 answers · asked by bamber 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 07:43:16 · 23 answers · asked by squirt 1 in Weddings

Hello!, I´m looking for a life-long-mate, a wife and friend, a lover.
someone with whom I can share the best of life. I am 41 yo, 5.57ft. I´m latin, white but suntanned. darkhaired and browneyed I am in good shape and seem younger.like 33,I have no bad looks. some years ago the love of my life died and I have been faithful to that feeling all this time.
but my heart is eager to love again! to share again all the beautiful feelings I have inside with a beatiful woman. I like to be supportive with my woman in all aspects profesional and personal and help her in her selfimprovement. I like to talk to her, to hold hands. I love to hug and kiss.to lose myself into her eyes, I´m romantic, tender and passionate! after all I am latino! ;o) I like to spend as much time as possible with the woman I love.I am protective and gentle. as any human being I have my faults but I really feel my virtues are much greater, I like to travel and read, to go to the theater or the movies go out the weekends or stay home cuddling and watching good movies with my love! my likes about music, films and shows are varied but more to the side of the art than to the commercial. I am a very bad dancer so I prefer not to do it!! :o) ja ja ja that and the fact that I don´t watch soapoperas nor I listen to trash music nor am I fanatic of any sports are my main defects! I´m very commited to my relationships.I consider myself to be somewhat cultivated I speak 3 languages soon 4. my ideal woman is truthful, intelligent, tender,full of ideas, natural instead of artificial, I´d prefer her to be raw rather than to be sophisticated in the sense of artificial and false, I´d prefer her to be deep than to be shallow. more a woman than a child although a little touch of that would be cute! :o). a woman who likes to learn and improve herself, blond, redhead or brunette with blue or green eyes and harmonious body, cute face.about age my ideal is younger than 31, between 5.40 and 5.60ft. am I asking for much?? well that is my ideal and of course if there is chemistry she may end up being different, I like beautiful women! and after all I am a man! ;o)) ja ja ja. anyway I feel that what I have to offer is also very valuable. I am a free man of good feelings who is not only not afraid of commitment but eager to commit myself to a woman, to love her and make her happy. what I want is a woman with whom I can start a family in the near future. nowadays I live and work in the peninsula of baja california in Mexico. I am mexican. I can fly to visit and meet you anywhere, no problem. and if we both agree I can bring you with me from anywhere, be aware it doesn´t mean I am rich not even near that. what I am looking for is a woman who is willing to come to live in mexico with me near the sea. I only demand commitment and honesty, I´m only looking for a woman who has many of the features I want and that is ok with what I offer.who is willing to learn my mother language from me. I´m not looking to play games nor to be played in anyway.I am neither looking for penfriends nor jokers.I am abolutely serious in my search of love. if you are not whom I am looking for perhaps you know her. God bless all who read this message and good luck to everybody.

2007-03-16 07:43:09 · 4 answers · asked by buscadordeamoriwanttobelieve 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i act around skaters i mean i am like monster preppy at times and it seems to me that they are a whole nother type of human being all together and my brother skates and we dont get along at all cuz he dont understand me and i dont understand him plz help

2007-03-16 07:41:55 · 6 answers · asked by ~~Dani~~ 1 in Singles & Dating

*Looks
*Height
*Money
*Job
*Body
*Penis size
*Personality
*Family

2007-03-16 07:41:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 07:41:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy I've been dating for like 6 months does cheese (another term for Heroin) like bad. Once in the morning, at lunch (during school), after school, and later on in the day. I've told many times over that I don't like him doing it but I know I really can't tell him what to do because it's his life. It would be different if like we weren't as close as we are. We've been friend since we were in elementary so we're pretty much best friends/boyfriend and girlfriend. some of the stuff he's told me he's never even told his parents. Normally I would break up with a guy for that but I just cant do that to him, because not only am I his girlfriend but I'm pretty much his only life line. Uhhh i just don't know what to do!

2007-03-16 07:40:51 · 12 answers · asked by raverx4xlifee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my boyfriend more than anything in this entire world. We don't fight as much as we used to, but like every couple in the world we have our fights. We live together. Whenever we fight... my whole world falls apart... even if it is over something small. I don't know why, but he just has that strong of an impact on my life. I wouldn't trade him in for anything I just need to know someone else gets like that?? Is it normal to be that much in love with someone that you lose all sense of reality and slip off into another realm?? or should i see a shrink... lol

2007-03-16 07:40:50 · 13 answers · asked by lilmama1822 2 in Singles & Dating

What is something special and extraordinary to do and give my sister for her wedding??

2007-03-16 07:40:33 · 5 answers · asked by Vixen 1 in Weddings