relationship problems (girls only)?

Question

I love my boyfriend more than anything in this entire world. We don't fight as much as we used to, but like every couple in the world we have our fights. We live together. Whenever we fight... my whole world falls apart... even if it is over something small. I don't know why, but he just has that strong of an impact on my life. I wouldn't trade him in for anything I just need to know someone else gets like that?? Is it normal to be that much in love with someone that you lose all sense of reality and slip off into another realm?? or should i see a shrink... lol

I know for a fact that he loves me just as much so its not just me putting in all the effort and him none

Answer 1

I CAN TOTALLY RELATE TO YOU....I've BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 5YR. WHEN MY BOYFRIEND IS GETTING READY FOR WORK I STAR TO MISS HIM IF HE LEAVES THE HOUSE ON A SOUR NOTE THE REST OF THE NIGHT IS HORRIBLE ALL I THINK ABOUT IS HIM AND HOW COULD HE HURT ME LIKE THAT WHEN I LOVE HIM SO MUCH......THEN I GO ON AND ON IN SIDE MY OWN HEAD, HE'S NEVER HAD SOMEONE TO LOVE HIM THE WAY THAT I DO WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE HIM HAPPIER IT REALLY STINKS TO BE THAT CAUGHT UP IN A RELATIONSHIP...TRY THIS WHEN A SITUATION ARISES THAT MAKES YOU NUTS STEP BACK TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND SAY TO YOURSELF THIS TO SHALL PASS..GOOD LUCK..GLAD TO KNOW I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE.

Answer 2

just think a little bit dose this thing need a shrink? i feel like that some times, but only when it is a big fight not a small once even tho in a relationship u have to keep some distance that if u get away from him for a while u world do not fall a part i do that and its working.

Answer 3

Hi, Remember that you are a very special person, an unrepeatable gift of God. You sound young which is a great time to set goals. Your relationship can be swayed by your own attitude remembering that there are two people involved. He is not always right as you know. Neither are you. He must have great feelings for you having moved in with you. Try not to change him and do not let him change you. both of you have personalities. both of you have room to grow. both of you need to set goals that fit into your lives as a couple.
When you move in together you must realize that everything must be done for the good of the family. Keep on living and being yourself. You be the one who shows the positive attitude and in turn you will demand respect without any negative words or actions.
Believe in yourself, act with good intentions, harm no one else and see you future as a positive road to happiness.
You are a special woman. Let no one every take that from you!!!!

Answer 4

Definitely see a councilor! It's alright to love someone, but have the strength to love yourself too! You sound like maybe you have some esteem problems? A lot of women go through this, some just need to grow up and some have issues that need to be resolved with a therapist. If you are active in a faith, I would also get my minister involved. Working hand-in-hand with a minister and a therapist has worked for some people I have met! Good luck and remember God loves you!

Answer 5

Well i definitely get like that with my boyfriend. The reason why your world falls apart is because he is your world. And when you two are not bonding good you wont get happy quickly because he may be the only reason you are happy. So when he's upset you get upset, When he's sad you start to feel down. He just has an affect on you and its good because that mean you two can feel each others feelings and I'm sure his world falls apart also. Its all Love that's it. And its true love ONCE YOU START TO FEEL WHAT THEY FEEL.

Answer 6

I know how you feel by boyfriend use to be my everything... but then i read a quote from soem web site i forget were though.. im sorry... it say " Dont make someone your everything, because when they leave you will be left with nothing" that made me think.....i love my boyfriend so very much.. and would neevr want to be apart but the little figth use to tear me apart and tehy still do to a point, U really jsut need to realize that u love him but you really dotn need him!!!! u need food and water and air but you dont really need him in order for you to live!!! just make sure you never let him know that you can live without him!! lol

Answer 7

There is one guy who is able to do that for me. I haven't been with him for almost a year but I still love him. I feel like my life is not it's own. Being without him feels like a different realm I've slipped off from, where I am all alone.

Answer 8

Its normal for you to feel like that when you have a lack of self esteem, when you don't love yourself as much as you should. I know from experience that if he decided to leave you it would really drive you just insane, you would be very depressed.
My advice to you is to reconize what you are worth. read some inspirational books and self-help books.
I understand where you are coming from. I wish you all the luck in the world.

Answer 9

Well i love my boyfriend to death and not only when we fight but when i c him having fun with onother girl i feel really down, eniwaz my point is u love your boyfriend so much that you don't want to argue, that's ok just try not to let every little fight get to you, fighting does not mean that you'll break up unless it's something huge......Hope i helped :)

Answer 10

no. you hate fighting cuz u know u r going to feel like ur world will fall apart. dont take it too seriously. u will always have fights. so remember that ur life wont b over if u have a fight with him even if its a big one. life goes on girl!