Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

Some guy was going on about how he grabs the girl's head and shoulders during sex, so I have 5 questions:
1.Why?
2.would he be holding on or pulling?
3.What position would that likely be?
4.How? ( like how would he manuever his hands, where on head and shoulders, how hard would he be pulling you).
5.In what direction/where would he be pulling you?
Oh yeah, if he's grabbing ur head and shoulders, would he be thrusting into you, or thrusting you into him?Thanx

2007-03-16 07:31:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has someone ever kissed you really bad? and what was so bad about it? -- and also wht do you think makes someone a good kisser?

2007-03-16 07:30:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok. So here's the story. We had plans to move back to cali. After 6 years together. He never cheated before, but I went ahead of him to get our stuff together. Then he never called. Not even on our daughters and my birthday. My women's intuition said he cheated. After he got out here, it took him about 5 months to admit he did. But why? This girl is not pretty, smart, or anything I would find attractive in a human being. Not to mention, he cheated with his best friends girl! I am soo effin' mad. I really want to make the drive out there to kick her a$$. I kicked his already, bad behavior for a 30 year old woman, but MEN PLEASE ANSWER.....WHY HER???? He only says " I don't know" when I ask him. I don't know if I can get pass this but I don't want to throw away almost a decade of my life, and he is the father of my kids....WHY! That mother f.cker. That *****! How dare she!

2007-03-16 07:30:54 · 3 answers · asked by Heather m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this passive but interesting guy on the internet in april '05. we had an on-off, long distance (500 miles approx) relationship for 22 months. i struggled with his emotional distance. at times he would show his slightly vulnerable side, which i found appealing. we had debates and a few sulks/moodswings with eachother but nothing i found serious. i mainly initiated meeting up, phonecalls and holidays. he met my 2 kids once and seemed to get along well with them but was wary about getting too close too soon. he always said he wanted to remain friends if nothing else. but 3 weeks ago when we were last together, he ended our relationship in a cold, blunt way on the last day. he said it was because i gave mixed messages and didn't appear to be happy. maybe he's right. i was relaxed but not as initimate and close with him as usual. but he knows i made the effort to try and now the few words exchanged have been negative. guess at least he hasn't just ignored me. its something. sad i know

2007-03-16 07:30:52 · 5 answers · asked by serene_touch 2 in Singles & Dating

I like my girlfriend alot but she gets on my nerves sometimes. The problem is, she thinks i am suppose to hold a 2 hour conversation everytime she calls. Its not just her either. I have talked to a couple of females that wants to talk on the phone into the wee hours of the morning. Ladies y is this?

2007-03-16 07:30:45 · 9 answers · asked by hey dude 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 07:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by hersheysparkles 1 in Singles & Dating

i have be seriously talking to this REALLY hott gurl on my celly really often, and i just wanna know if its "appropriate" to have that kind of sex in a relationship for the firsr month. Let me know wot u think.

2007-03-16 07:30:28 · 2 answers · asked by lyrical.disaster 2 in Singles & Dating

thers this girl i whant to ask out she already said nice stuff to me like one time that i cut my hair shes like now i can chase you but we just laphed and ishould of said some thing but i dident girls pleas help

2007-03-16 07:30:20 · 2 answers · asked by Raul M 1 in Singles & Dating

I will tell mine. I guess one of the sneakest things I ever did was when I was dating my boss. He worked for Pizza Hut 18 years ago and I got hired as a waitress. He was the manager. If his boss found out he would have been fired along with myself. It was hard to keep our secret a secret especially when we moved in together. I finally quit working for him and we got married. We kept it a secret for almost 6 months.

This was just one of the sneaky things I did growing up.

2007-03-16 07:30:08 · 4 answers · asked by M.S. Mom 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont wanna be stupid and "make a hoe a housewife" but she's my first love and I honestly don't know what to do about it. Should i just drop her or keepgoing with it? I know that she was loose with it in her past but low pro about it, few of her friends know about it. I wanna know everything because i dont want to get caught up in something that will backfire on me. She's very honest in telling me everything bought her past. She really doesn't seem like she was or could be permiscuious but she was. All the guy's she was with were 18 to 25 between the ages ahe was 16 to18 and a half, 11 guy's i just can't get it out of my head. how do i get my conclusion?.......................I don't wanna sterotype but its so hard not to. What your honest opinion, i need all the feedback i can get.

2007-03-16 07:29:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend just got a bf and everyone is surprised not to be mean but she is kind of ugly i want to meet him so i said does he have an sn and she called me a stalker and in school she called me a F*U*C*KED up man whore i have never had a bf so no a whore and at her age she shouldnt ever be date i mean no many ppl are dating and she was like so hows it feel to be single or you will find some 1 special wut should i do wut should i say she is my friend

2007-03-16 07:28:57 · 8 answers · asked by peter c 1 in Friends

my best freind id oingout with my ex boyfriend
should i be ok with it ?

2007-03-16 07:28:51 · 4 answers · asked by hotlosernana 1 in Singles & Dating

when i do "it" i liek it to hurt.
i like it when a guy bites hard too.
is that normal or is everyone like that?

2007-03-16 07:28:44 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am so shy

2007-03-16 07:28:39 · 21 answers · asked by speedspread 1 in Friends

I have asked a similar question earlier but taking in all of the answers just posed more questions. He was the first to say I love you. He knew I had been hurt before and he said he would wait as long as I needed for me to feel comfortable. He suggested that we move in together. We were making plans for the future as far as trips we were going to go on.
I talked to a mutal friend of ours who has known my ex for some time. He told me to just be strong that my ex would come around he is just going through some tough times right now. I am not the type to think so irrationally but to live with my ex and see how we talked and got along I am puzzled as to why the sudden breakup and if it has nothing to do with another woman ( knowning his views on cheating) and everything to do with that he got scared since he was freshout of a divorce? I am open to any and all suggestions. I know that it is difficult to fully judge being that you have never met or seen us together but I am open. Thnx

2007-03-16 07:28:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am the bride. I didn't get to help choose the bridesmaids dresses at all! Style, length, color, nothing! My MOH took over and we argued in the store! She then told a friend that I was being a "Bridezilla" because I was upset with her actions! I let her have those dresses in that color and then revolved everything else in the wedding around HER choices & around that color scheme to shut her up but yet I'm a Bridezilla? I'm gonna SNAP!! If I'm bending to make her happy how am I a bridezilla????

2007-03-16 07:28:23 · 15 answers · asked by Debbie S 3 in Weddings

2007-03-16 07:27:58 · 5 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 07:27:36 · 5 answers · asked by eat me e 1 in Friends

I've been with my boyfriend for 7yrs, so far, our relationship is okay, but there is no sign of marriage on his part and recently has no desire for love making. He's only 42 years old, but acts older. I thought it was another woman in his life, but so far from my detective spying, found nothing. He claims his body is not up for it anymore and doesn't desire it.
He also says that sex is not an important part of a relationship, but I beg to differ. My body is craving it and I asked him to satisy me other ways and he requested I buy a toy. I'm uncomfortable with that and I prefer the real thing. I don't mean to be cold, but I don't think I can continue my relationship with this man, even though he claims to love me. Is it wrong for me to walk away because of this one set back or should I just look out for myself and leave. I feel very frustrated and undesirable because of his problem.

2007-03-16 07:27:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend's birthday is coming up and I want to give her the BEST gift ever because she is my BEST friend in the entire world and it is her 16th birthday and I just want something that really tells her how much I love and appreciate her. I am already making a huge photo album of all of our pics together, but I want something else to go with it.

My first idea was a sketch made of us too of our signature pose but I am not sure if she would like it or where she would put it. She does love artwork though so I don't know...at first I loved that idea but now I'm not so sure!

Thanks for all of your help :D

2007-03-16 07:27:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, I loved this guy w/all my heart we we're really great friends for over a year. I had liked him since I had first met him.when we finally started datin' it was great. Everything I thought it would be and so much more. Then one day I called him and he gave the phone to his friend. and he broke up w/me 4 him.recently I found out his new GF broke up w/her bf the same day he broke up w/me.It's a little obvious.me and him was 2gether for 'bout a week.now me and him aren't even friends.how and why would he do something like to me.after our long friendship.He still wanted to be friends but it was wierd for me when I would call his new girl would answer or be there.

2007-03-16 07:26:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When someone writes you an email when they are drunk, can you really take this as words of truth? Why do people do this?

2007-03-16 07:26:23 · 16 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

i have two kids with this guy that i was with for 10 years on and off he was my everything he left me over and over so finally i moved on well now i am with someone who does everything that i ever wanted the first guy to do and my babies lovehim and everything was going gooduntill the first guy came back into my life i started to push the second guy away now i regret it and i want to go back to the first guy the way it was but now he is having doubts about us because of all the pushing i did what should i do

2007-03-16 07:25:45 · 3 answers · asked by soconfused 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half months. I am not a jealous person at all, if he wants to talk to an ex thats ok with me. I think it makes him mad though that I don't get jealous. The other day he was actually off of work and went to hangout with his friends all day. I didn't care until my mom pointed out that he never asks me to go with him. He has never asked me to go hangout with him and his friends. I was on the phone with him later on and he told me that he went and looked at this girls prom dress. I know that he used to like her and she used to like him. That made me a little suspicious. Well then last night I looked in his phone (I know its not right) and I saw that he had called her and he had received a call from her. Its just weird that they never really talked then they were hanging out. Is it ok for me to be jealous and should I talk to him about it?

2007-03-16 07:25:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like he says he loves u and u do not
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2007-03-16 07:25:33 · 2 answers · asked by freakyflex 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 07:25:25 · 18 answers · asked by Kain 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok...I have a friend who has been with her b/f for more than a year now. Since they have met, he has, talked to women online(not just chit-chat either), signed up on dating sites using fake names, once even made arrangements to meet with one woman, but never went through with it, and quite a few other things along the same lines.
He lives with her and the most he has ever given her towards bills in one month was $300, it's normally between $100-200, more often, $100. He has also a few times, asked her to loan him money to buy large items. She hasn't yet, done that!
I know she loves him but it hurts me because I think he is using her BIG TIME.
If you agree, do you have any suggestions on how I can convince her of that, before something really bad happens??! She is one of the sweetest people I have ever met in my whole life and I would like to see her with someone that knows how to treat a Lady!

2007-03-16 07:25:10 · 6 answers · asked by Sandy 2 in Singles & Dating

well he started kissing me since 3/9 and since then i dont/cant close my eyes for some reason. i know its ''its rude to stare'' or whatever. is it normal or what, he was my first kiss.

2007-03-16 07:25:06 · 4 answers · asked by kathie 4 in Singles & Dating

I love him, but I am a freshman in college and have never dated around, I have always just had a boyfriend. I don't go out with my friends that much and act crazy anymore, and I feel like I'm losing my independence and trying to grow up too fast. He wants to marry me, but I am nowhere near ready for that. Like I said, I do love him, but sometimes I feel like I'm missing out on being young and crazy. Also, it is a long distance relationship.

2007-03-16 07:24:41 · 16 answers · asked by HelpMe 1 in Singles & Dating

help I am 39 years old and have a situation, theres a guy in my town, who when ever we pass each other he has a big grin and waves even though we don't know each other this has been going on for almost 2 years and now he has been coming in to my work place to eat{ i am a waitress} But when he comes in he is a little distant whith me and always comes in with his buddy! Then when i pass him out side of my work he waves and smiles again, help, Is he into me or not

2007-03-16 07:24:29 · 19 answers · asked by rosebud 1 in Singles & Dating