I met this passive but interesting guy on the internet in april '05. we had an on-off, long distance (500 miles approx) relationship for 22 months. i struggled with his emotional distance. at times he would show his slightly vulnerable side, which i found appealing. we had debates and a few sulks/moodswings with eachother but nothing i found serious. i mainly initiated meeting up, phonecalls and holidays. he met my 2 kids once and seemed to get along well with them but was wary about getting too close too soon. he always said he wanted to remain friends if nothing else. but 3 weeks ago when we were last together, he ended our relationship in a cold, blunt way on the last day. he said it was because i gave mixed messages and didn't appear to be happy. maybe he's right. i was relaxed but not as initimate and close with him as usual. but he knows i made the effort to try and now the few words exchanged have been negative. guess at least he hasn't just ignored me. its something. sad i know
2007-03-16 07:30:52 · 5 answers · asked by serene_touch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its difficult to move on because you have sacrificed for so long and put a lot into this relationship emotionally. this guy gave you confidence and he was kind of like your rock. the one person you could count on no matter what. now, that person, that "security" if you will, is gone. you have to learn that God puts people in your life for a reason...to teach you something. what did you learn from your relationship with him? that is a question only you can answer.
2007-03-16 07:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by ambitious_highschooler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to forgive and forget mostly bcuz someone has hurt us. U can't expect sum1 to let go of pain easily now can u? When sum1 hurts u they take away a part of u that u think cannot be redeemed, The least that guy could of done was explain to you y he really broke up with you. no one should have to go tru something that awful not knowing why and having to ask themselves what they did to deserve it. The most that u can do is try Ur best to 4give him and drop all communication with him, u have 2 move on.
2007-03-16 07:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Crazilicous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will always turn the tables on us making it seem like he is doing it for you. For you to be happy. Right! He wants an excuse to break it off.
2007-03-16 07:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean how difficult could that be it's just an internet guy did you knew everything about him at least
2007-03-16 07:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I think it's because, it's hard to move on sometimes, because we have invested so much emotionally in that particular relationship ...!!
2007-03-16 09:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by bobby s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋