Is it ok for me to be jealous?

Question

I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half months. I am not a jealous person at all, if he wants to talk to an ex thats ok with me. I think it makes him mad though that I don't get jealous. The other day he was actually off of work and went to hangout with his friends all day. I didn't care until my mom pointed out that he never asks me to go with him. He has never asked me to go hangout with him and his friends. I was on the phone with him later on and he told me that he went and looked at this girls prom dress. I know that he used to like her and she used to like him. That made me a little suspicious. Well then last night I looked in his phone (I know its not right) and I saw that he had called her and he had received a call from her. Its just weird that they never really talked then they were hanging out. Is it ok for me to be jealous and should I talk to him about it?

He knows that was not the type of person that went out with every guy that was interested in me before I got with him. I just have friends that I hangout with. When I used to get texts from guys he would ask who it was and get really jealous. He still does it. He got really jealous because I said that the singer of my favorite band was cute. Like I would ever get with him. He really does seem to get jealous a lot though and then he does something like this. My mom wasn't trying to start anything she just asked where he was and why he didn't take me. She doesn't think its bad. I understand that he has friends and stuff but he does go hangout with them quite a bit.

Answer 1

i think jealously is a sign of showing that you really do care for him; if thats how you feel; u should talk to him about it,

Answer 2

*i thinks it ok to get jealous when you know your boyfriend has a good personality and nature and isnt a "player?"
* A little jealosy towards his secretive actions, is a sign you are worried about him and maybe even love him.
* If you dont care he is hanging out with his ex, he may think you only like him as a friend, or you are not commited.
* dont be a secret.
*talk to him. use a little reverse phycology. tell him how you feel. express yourself.
* be friendly and ask if you can hang out with his friends and be part of a social cirlcle once in a while.
* introduce him to your friends.
*"When the core of the earth sprouts lava, you can here the heart beat of a volcano. ( tell him your feelings, concerns.)
* if he isnt ready for that,
"when darkness turns to light, it ends tonight"

Answer 3

There are old sayings, if you look, you shall find. Then the other is a womans intuition is always right. So I would ask him why he didnt invite you to hang with him and his friends if girls where there. Give him the benefit of doubt and if this pattern continues then it is possible he is interested in her

Answer 4

Girl yes you should. You said he be getting mad when you dont be getting jealous about what he be doing, Good luck and you need to confront him about it. He may be trying to cheat on the sly. (side)

Answer 5

jealously will drive you mad just tell him how you feel if he thinks you are crazy then tell him to stay away from her. if he doesn't agree then maybe you should talk to the girl if you know her tell her that you don't like the fact that they talk on a regualar basis

Answer 6

No. Jealousy is a fruitless emotion.
Your mother is paranoid. Maybe he just wanted some time to himself with his friends.

Answer 7

You have every right to be jealous. I would talk to him about it

Answer 8

Yes totally. talk to him ASAP. The problem with boys is they think it is alright to do stuff with previous crushes but GOD FORBID we do it. I say talk to him about it.