2007-03-16 07:25:25 · 18 answers · asked by Kain 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Fantasies are a normal human reaction. It's not cheating unless you act or plan to act on them.
2007-03-16 07:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. Everyone lets their mind wander occassionally. If you see a really good looking girl/guy on the sidewalk, you'll probably think certain things at that moment. You may even become infatuated with someone else. However, being faithful is determined by your actions, not your thoughts. As long as you deny these urges and remain loyal to your partner, you are completely faithful... maybe even more so than someone who has no sexual thoughts about another person, because it's much more difficult to resist urges than to remain loyal without any urges to wander. This is a test of your commitment, and if you pass it, you are a good person in that respect.
2007-03-16 14:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Wildernessguy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, yeah, I feel a little guilty, but I know in my head that it's totally normal. I'm just a furless monkey, and I'm a good little monkey as long as I don't actually act on these fantasies.
If you care about your current lover, beware of persistent fantasies about one specific person. This might be the kind of thing that destroys a relationship, if there's something behind it.
PS: To feel less guilty, fantasize about someone you don't know and will probably never meet, instead of someone you see all of the time.
2007-03-16 14:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by Tink 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, but you'll do well to keep those 'frequent fantasies' to yourself, unless of course you're talking about someone clearly unattainable. For example, I shouldn't think it unreasonable to fantasize about movie stars. But you get into trouble fast when you start fantasizing about the pool boy or the girl across the street - and you tell your partner.
2007-03-16 14:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sgt Pepper 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My partner and I share our fantasies and we make fun of each other.
None of us two feels unfaithful at all, we are so much in love and committed to each other..
2007-03-16 14:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by peachy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No! As long as the fantasies didnt come true. Like I was once told, everyone need a little eye candy. It doesnt mean you love your mate any less. So hey if we have fantasies thats all they are just fantasies
2007-03-16 14:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, it's natural everyone does. Being unfaithful would be to fulfill those fantasies
2007-03-16 14:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's lusting after another ... it's a mortal sin. It's wrong. And someday you are gonna die and stand before the Greatest Love You have Ever Had times 100. And you will be judged. That's the truth pal ... you can not serve -2- masters. I will be praying for you.
The Prayer of St.Francis says it best...
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy;
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
2007-03-16 14:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by divinity 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely. You are lusting for someone else and that is wrong. If you are married adultery is not only with the body it is with the mind as well. If you are just dating then I think this means that you don't want your partner anymore and you need to fiqure out what is wrong.
2007-03-16 14:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't. Unless you put those "fantasies" into action, then you're not being unfaithful.
2007-03-16 14:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋