everytime i fall for someone i get hurt?

Question

i have two kids with this guy that i was with for 10 years on and off he was my everything he left me over and over so finally i moved on well now i am with someone who does everything that i ever wanted the first guy to do and my babies lovehim and everything was going gooduntill the first guy came back into my life i started to push the second guy away now i regret it and i want to go back to the first guy the way it was but now he is having doubts about us because of all the pushing i did what should i do

Answer 1

This is how people get stuck in abusive relationships. He uses you and manipulates you and the second you find someone else you are happy with he notices you pulling away and gives a little so that you will keep coming back. Why would you let a man control you like this? You can either have one big hurt and get over him and move on and be happy or let him control you the rest of your life. YOU CONTROL YOUR FUTURE>

Answer 2

well you just have to say you sorry and show him that you are committed to him and not your ex so stop talking to your ex get rid of anything your ex gave you like shirts or things that were sentimental and tell your ex that you love this guy and you were confused that last time but now you aren't and you dont want anything do with him cus you love the new guy

tell your new man that you have done all this cus you were confused and didn't know what you wanted but now that you have opened your eyes he is all you ever wanted in a man and you want to make it work cus you love him and you want to have your family back again

and then you have to forget about this ex and never see him again cus he is trouble and will mess up your life and make you unhappy k

Answer 3

dont worry it always happens to me just move on to movie star.