help I am 39 years old and have a situation, theres a guy in my town, who when ever we pass each other he has a big grin and waves even though we don't know each other this has been going on for almost 2 years and now he has been coming in to my work place to eat{ i am a waitress} But when he comes in he is a little distant whith me and always comes in with his buddy! Then when i pass him out side of my work he waves and smiles again, help, Is he into me or not
2007-03-16 07:24:29 · 19 answers · asked by rosebud 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-16 07:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by annaramsey1977 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It today's day and age this might not be a long shot....
Maybe the guy is bi and can't flirt with you infront of his boyfriend when he is in your restraunt. That and I would say he has to be interested either that or just extremely friendly or you are so fixated on him he waves and smiles to break your stare!! Stop acting the shy little school girl go up and talk to him.
You don't have anything to loose.
2007-03-16 07:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by The_Schwarz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well according to my research lol lemme stop.
But guys probably would do that just to be nice but the body language to tell you if he is into you would probably be flirting with you.
Waving and smiling is a little bit of flirting so take it as it is and if you like him then grab before someone else takes him.
2007-03-16 07:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by astateson111 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe you are 39! Your question sounds like you are 14!
Ok, look....if you are into him, why don't you ask him out??? Guys LOVE that. If he's not into you, he'll say no, or your date will suck.
Just go for it, I'm a 40 year old guy, and I'd be flattered if a girl said "Hey, my name's (whatever) and I think we should go out!" Simple, easy, quick, and decisive.
2007-03-16 07:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by tonevault 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it's been 2 years, and he hasn't said anything to you that would make you think he's in to you, I don't think he is.
I bet he's just one of those friendly people that like to smile and wave.
But obviously if you're asking this question, you must be in to him, so if it were me, I'd go talk to him about it.
2007-03-16 07:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jason The Great 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like it to me. He's probably very shy and doenst know how to approach you and strike up a conversation. Perhaps he's more hesitant because he doesn't want you to feel he's stalking you at work. So if you get the chance..wait on his table..when ya ask if you can get him anything else..say something like ...my number..lol..offer him ya number if you like him. good luck
2007-03-16 07:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bear 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hes interested.
2007-03-16 07:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be, he just has to act tough in front of his buddy. You know how men are.
2007-03-16 07:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are times when guys are not aggressive enough and tend to wait for your response or approval and some are to dumb to know when they have a green light help him out.
2007-03-16 07:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he is that bashful, he may not be worth the effort. next time he comes in, try chatting him up and see how that goes.
2007-03-16 07:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋