Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

What do 37% of women get from their husbands, and lie and say that they like it?

2007-03-16 08:14:16 · 8 answers · asked by derek-timm@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you rather have a girl that loves you, cooks, cleans, has a job, and takes care of you needs in everyway or a female that is always hanging out, has a dead end job, 2 kids with 2 different fathers, and smokes marijuana. Be honest! I just want to see the answers of who you would chose and why! Thanks a million!!

2007-03-16 08:13:57 · 3 answers · asked by $Bl@Ck BuTtAfLy$ 3 in Singles & Dating

With Her. I don't know why since I have a girlfriend. Once
my girlfriend found out she said that was it between us.
What can I say to her to get her back into the relationship.
Like I said, I didn't even mean to get with the woman.
Its just that she was really fine.

2007-03-16 08:13:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

problem one:
i have been dreaming of my wedding since i was 3 years old and my parents are telling me they dont have any money to give me. without their help, i cant afford the wedding i always dreamt of. i got engaged on wed and yesterday i was already in tears. i dont want this to be a sad occasion in my life. whats the right way of dealing with this issue?

problem 2. my brothers girlfriend ( my good friend and my bridesmaid) is the same age as me and has been married b4 ( to a looser) when i told her i was engaged she seemed exicted for me but when i showed her my ring she didnt say anything and just looked away. then my dad again told her to come take a look and she said, " i did, its nice" i think she might be jelous, but she is my bridesmaid and i dont want her jelousy to **** up my wedding. how would i deal with this issue?

2007-03-16 08:12:41 · 36 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

well i really like this boy and hes really cute and i think he likes me too because hes always flirting with me like he tickles me and slaps my a**and also he says alot of sexual things .but the problem is he has a girlfriend so what should i do?

2007-03-16 08:12:01 · 11 answers · asked by kathymazanet 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 08:11:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-16 08:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by kimevans70 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 08:11:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You dont have to answer as it is very personal but out of interest :) x

2007-03-16 08:10:43 · 62 answers · asked by Zalia 1 in Singles & Dating

I hardly gt a chance to get to talk to him, he is always busy (I understand that) He has said that he misses me, but when ever I see him he gets really shy and we can't come up with anything to say.
shoudl we go back to being friends (we were actually able to talk a lot then)
I am really confused about this, I know I love him but should I not and just be friends so we can talk more?

2007-03-16 08:10:07 · 11 answers · asked by squirrely 3 in Singles & Dating

Background: both our families live in the same town where we grew up. We now live 3 hours away, in a different state. My family is loud and quite different than his. In addition, I have a sister who is "married" to a woman and the two have a child together. Strange, perhaps, but all families are!

Problem: My mother-in-law has told my husband that she will not come to my son's birthday party (3 years old) if my sister and the baby are going to be there. We are willing to have the party anywhere--my family's house, his family's house, a neutral place, but it does not matter to her. (Might be important: she's not an "old" mom, she's only in her 50's!)

Husband wants me to plan and implement two separate parties (from 3 hours away). I say, she should attend the party I plan for both families, as this is her ONLY grandchild. (I won't even go into the glass house hypocracy that she is taking part in here!) I do NOT want to change her beliefs, but I do think they could be put asside

2007-03-16 08:09:18 · 8 answers · asked by Bookworm4224 2 in Family

Every were I go guys flirt with me. mostly like disgusting pigs. Im getting sick of it. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-03-16 08:08:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having trouble with my girlfreind of a year. She's great but she's incredibly insecure at times. I have female freinds, some who I had history with, and it drives her crazy that I still communicate with any of them. We've actually broke up once over this before. She claims I don't show her enough effection and she gets jealous when I spend time with others (family, freinds).
Is there a way to get her to calm down? I'm no cheater- it's happened to me and it feels awful. But I can't keep dealing with being accused of things with freinds that have been around most of my life...

2007-03-16 08:08:26 · 2 answers · asked by TooMuch 4 in Singles & Dating

Before you get mad, I'm not insulting I'm just saying; This guy wrote something to me that really made me think. Never in my life would I have thought that the possibility exists that girls probably want guys to "lose."
To see why I asked this and what I'm talking about, click the link below and read the answer from user "Q&A."

2007-03-16 08:07:50 · 4 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 08:07:33 · 13 answers · asked by dunleavyblows 2 in Weddings

dont want it to look too much like a date. thing is i asked him if he wanted to do something over easter (otherwise i wouldnt have seen him for a month or so) and he gave me his number. we work in the same company and about 2 or 3 times a week we are in the same meeting (but other than that i dont c him all week, big company, work in different buildings). the meeting is normally at the end of the day so we (all work people, bout 20) sometimes go to the pub so i have talked to him and we get on really well, and well im afraid if i ask him on a real date he might say no or it goes all wrong and then it will be weird everytime we c each other.
I really dont know what i could ask him out to. And if i find somethign than what do i talk to him about? Its so hard to get a conversation started because i cant ask those simple things like "what do u like doing?" or even "what do u do as a job?" or something like that because i already know those things.
Please help.

2007-03-16 08:07:33 · 3 answers · asked by Finn 3 in Singles & Dating

She is a waitress at this place me and some co-workers go to. I've always been shy, but I feel funny about asking her out or for her number while she is working. My buddy went and gave her my number without me knowing so know it feels even more awkward. I think she knows that I like her. She smiles at me when ever I see her but she's always so busy at work that we don't get to talk. It's been a couple weeks since my buddy gave her my number and she hasn't called. Should I just drop it and let it go or should I come right out and ask her if it'd be alright if I call her sometime?

2007-03-16 08:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by lowactionjackson3848 2 in Singles & Dating

to a different state this summer which means a different school...again...
I've always been pretty shy/reserved..and I absolutely hate it!
How can I not be shy by the time we move..I want to be able to make alot of new friends since I won't have any where we move to?
Being shy has also kept me from having a boyfriend..and I want to change that.

I'll be a junior next year.

2007-03-16 08:07:16 · 2 answers · asked by Addie [♦] 1 in Friends

2007-03-16 08:06:59 · 3 answers · asked by anita_talib 1 in Singles & Dating

but the problem is now if i go the person she wants to watch the house and take care of the dogs i dont trust how can i convince her its better that i stay home

2007-03-16 08:06:53 · 4 answers · asked by the gift 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he seems really sweet and i talk to him for multiple hours, i have seen him on webcam and know hes not like 40 or something and we seem to really connect well but i met him on the internet and he lives in england. how do i know hes not a compulsive liar, or what you would actually label this as?

2007-03-16 08:06:20 · 2 answers · asked by softballqueen 1 in Singles & Dating

"I love you I want to take it slow" To " I dont know what I want right now"
I am tired of it. We have been together 6 years. I think he jsut enjoys knowing that I love him and will always come back to him.
I think I may just start telling him the same things. "I want to take it slow, lets see, just do what you want right now."
Because I have toldh im I love him and would try to make it work but he is not trying, it hurts so bad, he doesnt do things with me or goes out with me.

2007-03-16 08:06:12 · 12 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing my boyfriend off and on for the past 41/2 years and I thought everything was going well, but I was asking about marriage and he said "I guess it's not in the cards for me" What does that mean?? Why are men so afraid of getting married???

2007-03-16 08:06:11 · 15 answers · asked by Melissa B 2 in Singles & Dating

close, but now she's got a new bf ,its seems if i am ignored and not part of her social circle. What's your take?

2007-03-16 08:06:02 · 3 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Singles & Dating

I've asked this before and many girls said eyes and lips? Can someone honestly tell me what makes ones guys eyes or lips more attractive than the other?

2007-03-16 08:05:31 · 8 answers · asked by Kasm 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I are really into eachother, its just that when we are on the phone I run out of things to say. Its weird because in person we can have a blast! But on the phone after we chat a bit, I get silent..... is this natural?

2007-03-16 08:05:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad has 13 children. My mom has 4 children of which I am her oldest. My dad's oldest children are the same age 32 years old. They are one month apart. One of them is a girl and one is a guy. There are 12 years between us. I was put up for adoption as a child due to my dad being put in prison and my mom never being around. In October of 2006 I found my biological family and moved in with my oldest brother in November which required me moving over 1000 miles. He is divorsed and has two children. He is everything I could ever have asked for in a man and so much more. I'm in love with him and vis versa. Things are getting a little heated in our relationship and so we are both backing off. I want to marry him. I want to spend the rest of my life loving him and taking care of him and all that jazz but I don't know if it is illegal and if we were to marry and have children what would be the chances of the kids having problems? What can I do?

2007-03-16 08:04:31 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well me and this girl have one class together, and lunch together.(in highschool) We are friends and we talk in class, one time I caught her kind of playing with her hair when she was talkin to me. We joke around alot, once when she was jokin around she started pokin me in the arm kiddin around at something (i don't know if this counts as the sign that she is tryin to touch me), she'll say hey in the halls to me usually, we keep good eyecontact when we are talkin, what else can I look for to tell if she likes me?
Does it sound like she likes me, what other info should I give?

She also (i don't know if this is joking) called me sexy once and tells me to call her that.

2007-03-16 08:04:10 · 3 answers · asked by Wolfpack 3 in Singles & Dating

My relationship of almost a year came to an end, with someone that days ago was telling me I already know the response if I ask to marry her, that was a yes. Because for what I think one of the first time, I didn't do what she wanted on a 100%, and I offered an alternative solution. She tried to convince me, I kept saying I can't (it was about going to another city over the weekend, on a weekend I was having to stay home to do some things for the classes I am taking). She said I can study in the hotel, I said I can't. At the end of the weekend, I saw my self single, since I took a break on Sunday to leave my house for some hours and see 2 guy friends I have. I just had to take a break from the books. It doesn't make sense to me, but she got REALLY mad, to the point she said we aren't compatible. I am a nice guy, but when I have to say no, I say no, and 1 time. Do woman really hate this characteristic on men?. She is now trying to date other people, I'm confused. I don't get it.

2007-03-16 08:03:45 · 10 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with someone. We dated for almost two years, and we both still have feelings for each other, but I'm pretty sure he also has feelings for someone else. This whole situation is a pretty big mess. Normally after break ups, I just hang out with my best friends or do something productive, but I've been keeping busy and it hasn't help. He was/is my best friend. I've tried just not talking to him and avoiding him, but that only made matters worse for both of us. I believe maybe that if I give it time, we could end up together or at least be comfortable friends, but right now I'm so miserable I can't even focus on anything.
How else can I make myself feel better?

2007-03-16 08:03:42 · 5 answers · asked by MsPacman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships