Wrongfully accused?

Question

I'm having trouble with my girlfreind of a year. She's great but she's incredibly insecure at times. I have female freinds, some who I had history with, and it drives her crazy that I still communicate with any of them. We've actually broke up once over this before. She claims I don't show her enough effection and she gets jealous when I spend time with others (family, freinds).
Is there a way to get her to calm down? I'm no cheater- it's happened to me and it feels awful. But I can't keep dealing with being accused of things with freinds that have been around most of my life...

Answer 1

Maybe out of respect you could deal with your girlfriend.

Other than that do what my dude did, he siad straighten up and when you do ill talk to you again.
I dont say stupid insecure things anymore.

Answer 2

Well for a time you are going to have to choose. I would have a problem if my fiance was "friends" with women he had past history with (sexual or dating history). So you might want to move away from those women a bit if you want to keep your girlfriend happy (and trust me, if you keep her happy she'll keep you happy). If they are life friends and just friends (no sex or past dating history) that you had before you met her, then incorporate her into the friendship. Have the gals all hang out with you on an evening, either go out or have them over to your house for poker (invite some single guys too, that'll help take the pressure off and even everyone up). The bottom line is, think about how you would feel if she had past lovers hanging around calling them "friends" or if she was on the phone or hanging out with other guys without you...I am positive you wouldn't like that. So show her the same respect you'd want, and if your friends who are girls are truly just "Friends" they'll want you to be happy and will back off a bit to give your relationship the room it needs. Good luck.