I hardly gt a chance to get to talk to him, he is always busy (I understand that) He has said that he misses me, but when ever I see him he gets really shy and we can't come up with anything to say.
shoudl we go back to being friends (we were actually able to talk a lot then)
I am really confused about this, I know I love him but should I not and just be friends so we can talk more?
2007-03-16 08:10:07 · 11 answers · asked by squirrely 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, some guys are shy and some just don't know how to communicate well, it's a guy thing. You have to take the first step. Get him to a place where it is comfortable for him to talk. Find out what's on his mind without being pushy. If you guys do well on the phone then work it out on the phone. That's a good start.
If you don't "click" in person, well then maybe it wasn't meant to be. Be sure before you write him off.
2007-03-16 08:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by tammy_anderson68 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello~
If you were friends prior to being gf/bf then you must have had things in common. And when 2 people have things in common it's easy to have conversation. So before you change the status of your relationship try that out. Talk about things that you both are interested in or rather strike up a conversation with him about something you both like.
I am sure that once you do that you'll find that talking too this guy is easier than you think and same for him. It seems that someone needs to break the ice here in the relationship being as bf/gf so why not let it be you.
If all else fails then go back to being friends, sometimes that isn't so easy though.
Best of luck to you and have a wonderful safe weekend!!
2007-03-16 08:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay close to him and let him know what you're feeling. Then,
back off of a "relationship" for a while, and let friends be good
friends. Communication will resume and closeness will also
come back. Slowly (very slowly) move forward to the loving
relationship you desire.
I sense that both of you are feeling the pressures of being in a
love relationship---just slow down and take it one day at a time. You'll both be much happier for it.
2007-03-16 08:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to being friends. That's what happened to me and a friend now.
2007-03-16 08:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THE BOTH OF YOU ARE SHY AROUND EACH OTHER......IT'S A DEAD GIVE-AWAY. YOU TWO ARE BETTER OFF JUST BEING FRIENDS. MAYBE IT'S BEST THAT YOU ARE MERELY FRIENDS WITH HIM AND NOTHING MORE. IT'S GOOD THAT YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM.....BUT TO MAKE THINGS LESS AKWARD......YOU SHOULD PROBABLY JUST BE FRIENDS. GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-16 08:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by *BABY NENA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you both are feeling pressured because of the relationship. Try seeing him as your friend, maybe that will help in opening the doors of communication.
2007-03-16 08:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to being friends
2007-03-16 08:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by Tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel, ask him how he feels, tell him you need to know.
2007-03-16 08:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay friends
2007-03-16 08:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u make time for things that are important to u....
2007-03-16 08:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋