Want to do somehting with the guy i like but ...?

Question

dont want it to look too much like a date. thing is i asked him if he wanted to do something over easter (otherwise i wouldnt have seen him for a month or so) and he gave me his number. we work in the same company and about 2 or 3 times a week we are in the same meeting (but other than that i dont c him all week, big company, work in different buildings). the meeting is normally at the end of the day so we (all work people, bout 20) sometimes go to the pub so i have talked to him and we get on really well, and well im afraid if i ask him on a real date he might say no or it goes all wrong and then it will be weird everytime we c each other.
I really dont know what i could ask him out to. And if i find somethign than what do i talk to him about? Its so hard to get a conversation started because i cant ask those simple things like "what do u like doing?" or even "what do u do as a job?" or something like that because i already know those things.
Please help.

Answer 1

Step 1: RELAX
Step 2: Be yourself

After you have accomplished those 2 steps, everything else is easy. If you like this guy, ask him if he wants to do lunch or catch a movie. Call him up & say that you were going to go see (insert movie name here) & wondered if he wanted to go. The only other thing you may try is to do the group thing. Other than that, you may have to bite the bullet & ask him out.

Answer 2

You must like this guy alot to be so nervous and insecure about the situation, but you'll never know what would happen until you ask him out. Just ask him to lunch or dinner that doesn't include wine. Make it fun so that the two of you are confortable in your surroundings. If he says no to you then you've got your answer, but if he says yes then you'll be fine. Be yourself and just have fun.

Answer 3

Ask him to help you do something. that should break the ice