Every were I go guys flirt with me. mostly like disgusting pigs. Im getting sick of it. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 08:08:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wear a "wedding ring" when you go out, or get a male friend to hang out with you. Sometimes they're still gonna flirt though. Who said being beautiful was easy?
2007-03-16 08:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how that goes. Here's what works for me:
1. I wear a ring all the time anyway, so if a guy hits on me I slip it onto my left ring finger when he's not looking, and then I make sure he sees it so he thinks I'm engaged.
2. If they're just being friendly but not gross, I give very short one-word answers so it's clear I don't want them talking to me.
3. If they are being too pushy or creeping me out, I'm MEAN. I don't like to have to do that, but their egos are sensitive, so if you really shut them down badly (especially in front of their friends) that usually does the trick.
2007-03-16 15:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by IQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up and just pretend they do not exist and when they are saying something act as if they are talking to someone else.. otherwise... It can be like a dog chasing a car... try stopping the car... the dog will stop chasing because since it has caught up with what it is chasing after it is dumfounded because the dog has the attitude of "Uh...now that I got to it, what do I do now?"....the dog will just walk away. Some guys are just curious, (like dogs)... Talk to them a minute, let them know who you are, ask them what they are up to, etc.. be a friend to them and they will quit treating you like a sexual "symbol"...
2007-03-16 15:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by millstone7201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them to stop.
When you think they are flirting with you say, "I get the impression your flirting with me. If you are, I'm really flattered, but stop it. I'm not interested and it makes me uncomfortable. Okay?" Always end with the question in order to get them to agree. If they verbalize "okay" then odds are it will sink in.
Then proceed on and treat them cordially and friendly.
Being direct, but polite, is always best. You don't have to be mean about it.
2007-03-16 15:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a male friend to cockblock for you. Basically, if a jerk comes around, you signal him to either put an arm around you, or make the guy look like a dork. Arguing with him yourself could backfire, but getting a guy to do it might keep them away. (Then you only have your friend to worry about.)
2007-03-16 15:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit wearing makeup, doing your hair, shaving your legs, wear baggy clothes. Your doing something or wearing something that is making them act like pigs! majority of men dont oink unless you give them a reason.
2007-03-16 15:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by michele_zanella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being hot? that's the best i got, sorry. generally we're ok, but when we see a real hottie walk by we turn into dogs...it's genetic. just remember next time they start whistling at you and stuff, just think to yourself "just a dog, just a dog" and you'll be happier. lol. or just start walking around with a big male friend and they'll back down.
2007-03-16 15:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this question when your looks have faded with age and guys stop giving you the time of day.
2007-03-16 15:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them. they are worthless pigs. lol. if you egg them on they will flirt with you more. dont even stare at them. jsut walk by em. are u putting urself out there? like dressing skankiesh? if are stop it!
2007-03-16 15:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by ~CarterRose~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't pay attention to them - walk away - depending on the situation or just tell them you're sorry, but you're not interested. Eventually, they'll get the hint.
2007-03-16 15:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋