How do you make yourself feel better?

Question

I recently broke up with someone. We dated for almost two years, and we both still have feelings for each other, but I'm pretty sure he also has feelings for someone else. This whole situation is a pretty big mess. Normally after break ups, I just hang out with my best friends or do something productive, but I've been keeping busy and it hasn't help. He was/is my best friend. I've tried just not talking to him and avoiding him, but that only made matters worse for both of us. I believe maybe that if I give it time, we could end up together or at least be comfortable friends, but right now I'm so miserable I can't even focus on anything.
How else can I make myself feel better?

Answer 1

Have you ever heard of a little story about a pet bird that this young lady had ? She kept the bird in a cage and the bird was never happy or content, it always wanted to fly away from her.
It broke her heart because she loved the little bird so much and wanted it to love her back.
After months of trying she sadly decided to set the little bird free and she opened the window and the little bird flew to freedom.
The next morning she looked out the window and there was her precious little bird on the window seal. She opened the window and the bid flew in, lit on her shoulder singing happily.
The moral of the story is that something can someone can never be truly yours until you set them free and they come back to you on their own.

Answer 2

Well, first of all you need to still talk to him and hold on to your friend relationship. What ever you do, DO NOT LET HIM FADE AS A FRIEND!!! You will DEFINITELY regret not talking to him and staying friends later! OK the first thing you need to do to get over him and feel better is to think about and flirt with other guys. This will get that excitement and love feeling going but not for him, which is good. Make your schedule busier such as joining clubs, hanging out with friends, participating in some sports or activities, going seeing more movies, and spending time doing stuff you love! This will not only get your mind of Mr. Heartbreak but it will also open up some other opportunities at finding a new guy. And who knows? Maybe by participating in all those activities you may gain a caring, respecting, mature, and loving man enter your life who would never in a million years make you feel miserable and will make Mr. Lousy look like a pile of garbage!! So good luck and feel better! And if you every need anymore help or advice, I'm right here so ask me a question! Oh, and have fun!
~ <3 Morgan <3 ~

Answer 3

Go out and do sum shopping, Watch only positive movies no chick flicks. All those romance movies dont help. Also stay away from the slow jams especially the ones that remind u of him. If your plan is to get over him u got to completely cut him off from ur life. Affer ur completely emotionally over him talking to him wont matter becuz theres no feelings there anymore. Theres soo many single ppl out there and remember if ya were meant to be ya would be with each other already. Ya broke up for a reason so dont beat urself over the head. Embrace life, its his loss. Enjoy urself dont spent valuable time sulking.

Answer 4

Go running, runners get a natural high so to speak its a good alternative to anti depresents

Answer 5

Be good to yourself,.. go out and buy yourself something you have all ways ..........WANTED ....... I mean not just a
small item........o k.........and then the best of luck with things..
......................................................................................................... Go swimming or something like that, you will feel better.........
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