I talked to this guy for some time and liked him, so I got a friend to ask him if he likes me, and he said "only as a friend." We barely talk anymore now, but he still looks at me a lot in the hallways and in class. This week, he's starting to look at me less. Since a while ago, I've been ignoring him and trying to make it seem like I don't care about him by turning around when he's talking or something..I guess I don't want to seem like I was hurt by him saying that he didn't like me and act like I'm over him..but I'm not. What do I do? Should I talk to him again, or will he laugh at me and walk away or ignore me?
2007-03-16 07:44:09 · 11 answers · asked by Neesha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you got your answer and you did it in a safe way. you had a friend ask him if he likes you and he said only as a friend. sure that hurts but can you move on? well you need to. be his friend as b/f or dont now that he doesnt like you the way you want him too. you were looking for an answer and got it. what can you do? there's nothing to do. be his friend or dont. look, some other guy is bound to find you attractive and great enough to want to date you. this guy doesnt, so what.
2007-03-16 07:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by maximus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds complicated - how brave are you? If brave go for it and talk to him - better to have as a friend than not at all...if not brave then move on - you will soon find someone else who is equally fanciable. The amount of times I wish i'd been brave and asked the question - it would have saved so much messing around...Good luck...
2007-03-16 14:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might like you. the way i look at it, if a guy was approached by one of his friends and was asked about his feelings for a girl, he'd probably be embarassed and lie or make a crack about it. the fact that he doesnt look at you anymore probably means he's moving on after getting the impression that youre not interested and that you dont "care". the only way to find out is to be bold and ask him whats the deal (in a non confrontational way)
2007-03-16 14:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by meju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Own up to your feelings. Look him in the face and say "Look, I like you and I think I'd like to ask you out." Be blunt about it and catch him off guard but most importantly, be honest. If he says no, then you have the truth and you just need to deal with it. Rejection happens, be strong and deal with it. If he makes some joke or ignores you then you know he isn't mature enough for you and isn't worth your time. If he says yes, then go out with him!.
2007-03-16 14:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you didn't like his honest answer. He is probably trying to not lead you on and give you mixed messages. He is going to be a little wierd after he was asked if he likes you especially if he sees you all the time. Move on and find someone else.
2007-03-16 14:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by chazzz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Little do you know guys dont like to show feeling in public but in private they will. He might just be digging you now that he knows you like him. And maybe he didnt mean for you two to just be friends he could have just said that because you let someone else interfere and got them to ask him and not yourself. So you know you still like him so show it. If he wants to be friends... be friends. Then as he see's that you still like him he might just consider you.
2007-03-16 14:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mercaydes M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should like try talking it over with him because it sounds like you and this guy were kind of hittin it off but then he basically lied about not liking you and then you started fronten.
2007-03-16 14:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by astateson111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone gets hurt by rejection and shunning could make him think that u r stuck up or a baby. you need to treat him like u used to and try to be friends.
2007-03-16 14:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk, so I would not talk to him. Aren't there other (nicer) guys around? Try talking to them.
2007-03-16 14:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by longlonglong72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you sending ppl to talk to somebody you like? If you are dating, then do it like everybody else! Write him a letter asking him how he feels and then have him check a box! Friggin teenagers!
2007-03-16 14:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋