i have 2 best friends A and B.and i sort of have a crush on a guy. problem is he dated A.he didnt know B until i introduced.now he like B. A keeps telling me tht i like him but im denying it, though B knows.now B rejected him not only cus of me (her best friend) but cus she also doesnt like him at all.. i dont want ot make any moves cus i have a feeling A still likes him though she insists shes over him.help??there are occasionally random signs tht hes flirting and all my frnds think he likes me..including A
2007-03-16 07:50:15 · 20 answers · asked by chickz'o'the year 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and these 2 A and B are like the closest to me ever.SO THAT MAKES IT HARD..THEY ARE NOT JUST anyone...oh and im sorta close to the guy too..actually, really close
2007-03-16 07:54:47 · update #1
advice.
bottle of wine, round at your place and get all that dirty washing sorted out.
good friends can be honest with eachother.
ps if youre under 18
bottle of pop.
2007-03-16 07:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by looby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People always want what they cannot have. Your friend A may in fact be over this guy, but she doesn't want to see her best friend with him either. That sort of juvenile thinking unfortunately never goes away.
The absolute best thing to do is forget about this guy. He doesn't know what he wants (also, never goes away with most men) and friendships are so much more valuable than anything with a crush could be at this point in your life.
I promise there will be plenty more guys for you to crush on who will like you back and not your friends. Just give it time. It will happen.
Good Luck!!
2007-03-16 14:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really miss the days when situations like this were the biggest problems in life lol
Rule #1. You never date your girlfriends ex
Learn this one early, it will save you much heartache! Girl A will have some slight resentment, even tho she says she won't. Girl B will wonder why she didn't go for him if you do.
Rule #2 Even if he seems like the hottest thing on the planet, remember rule #1
You need to go meet boy D and move on
2007-03-16 15:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. keep flirting with him and see how it developes. i wudnt really mind about A even though u think shes likes him shes claiming she dusnt. this sounds like a sign that shes ready for u to explore ur feelings from him. id advise first that u stop denying it to them so u can check how they really feel, afterall u dont want to ruin ur relationships with ur best friends which are far more important. good luck!x
2007-03-16 15:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by bella x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hint at a say something like so if ur ova him u dont mind if i go out with him then as see what her reaction is but seeing as ur all so close y wud u even bother all 3 of u leave him alone or isnt ur friendship worth that much
2007-03-16 15:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by kezz247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one. i think that you should follow your heart. 2. do you want to hurt your friend feeling and get with this dude and might hurt you in the long run. or put your feeling to the side and keep your really friend and find a cutier dude and live a happy stress feel life.
2007-03-16 15:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Nakkia P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends sound nice. Is this guy really worth messing up a good friendship? Why not all look for another guy to fancy?
2007-03-16 14:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always gone after the guy I definitely like. If you really like him flirt with him like crazy and he'll get the message. You have some great friends use it to your advantage!!
2007-03-16 14:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by looziegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too many problems forget a and b go for the guy. A is over him and B doesn't want him that leaves him fair game for you
2007-03-16 14:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rushed over here quickly because I heard you shouting it was urgent, but now I find that you have lied to me...
Which leg do want removed as punishment?
2007-03-16 14:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Oliver T4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋