I was with this guy for a little over a year, and I LOVED HIM NO DOUBT! Then he cheated on me, so I left him. I then took him back after 6 months and everything seemed fine at first, but then we started arguing all the time. He started drinking and being a total jerk and after about another year of dating we broke up and I really miss him. Should I take him back again or is it not worth my time?
2007-03-16 07:48:43 · 12 answers · asked by Redneckgirl3030 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he cheated on you the first time around and was a complete moron the second time, do you honestly think that he will change. I'm sorry if this might offend you, but he obviously doesn't really care about you. If you have tried to talk him out of drinking and cheating and he hasn't changed, then he probably never will. Why go through the heartbreak all over again?
2007-03-16 07:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Florence N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would highly recommend that you consult an astrologer such as myself or someone in your area. You need to give them both of your birthdates. The astrologer will do a chart and analyze the planets to see if the relationship would had ever been a good one or not. There are some relationships that are just plain bad to get into no matter how much you love the person, it's just not ever going to work out for the good. You need to find a person who has the right astrological chart that matches up with you in order to be happy and also in Love. Love can be very painful if you have the wrong person that brings you bad luck too and bad health. You need the right person that will bring you wealth and good health too. Get a good astrologer to compare your charts side by side and they will tell you without even meeting you if the relationship will work out or not.
2007-03-16 08:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ted (Canton,OH) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer already. if not, let me re-iterate what you said "he started drinking and being a total jerk"
Why don't you find a man? leave this boy alone. Find the one that would swim through shark infested waters to bring you a lemonade. NOT the one that orders you to get him a beer.
He's out there honey and you're worth it. You aren't worth this piece of (#($... No one is.
Take some time and find out what you want in a guy and believe me, this guy ain't it. I don't care what people (parents, siblings, friends, yourself, or whoever) said was wrong with you. I don't care how much you think you aren't worth much.
You are. You're worth so much more than this. Don't take the loser back or he'll drag you down with him.
2007-03-16 07:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by cnith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hes a waste of time. Once a cheater always a cheater. He was most likely cheating on you even more when he was "being a jerk to you." You probably miss him for now but that wont last another month. You'll get over him. Get a new guy...make him jealous.
:)
2007-03-16 07:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted someone else, then he's just not worth it. Don't waste your time on people like that. That engulf the world, so be careful. You don't want to be hurt by who doesn't want you in the first place.
2007-03-16 07:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by makes_its_own_sauce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldnt take him back, you will feel really low at the minute but u'll get over it in time. his no good for you, and i dont think much will change if you wer to get back with him. i think you need a little time on your own, and im sure mr right will turn up soon!
good luck
2007-03-16 07:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by *mommy to 3 boys* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sent you a %of Mr. chuffed because of the fact he desires to have his cake and consume it too. in case you men broke up what the huge deal in him relationship returned? he doesnt belong to you anymore, Why dont you attempt moving on additionally??? I actually think of which you're extra annoyed on the shown fact which you're on my own and he's not, supply up torturing your self and irritating approximately what he's doing and get your self mutually
2016-10-02 05:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a waste of space and dont deserve you if he dont treat you right someone who really cares and loves you wouldnt cheat on you or be a total *****
2007-03-16 07:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it ain't worth your time. if you do, it's just gonna happen again all over. tell him piss off, and find a real man who won't cheat or become alcoholic.
2007-03-16 07:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not even worth yo time...u shouldnt of tok him bac cuz he dont deserve u....find someone thats gone appreciate u..then he go regret that yall aint together
2007-03-16 07:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by mesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋