Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

me and my husband have been having word's about the meaning of marriage, and what is expected, ( so is it ok by law to have a private life as well as a maried 1,) my husband wants it like that

2007-03-15 14:48:03 · 8 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you put a big sign saying "FREE HUGS" at your school or work.
I sure would :]
it would be sweet

2007-03-15 14:47:57 · 5 answers · asked by Thrills 5 in Friends

I told a lady that a girl made fun of her on the internet in a bad way. She got furious and had the boss speak to her co-worker. I don't think it was wrong of me but someone else told me I shouldn't have said anything. Do you think it was wrong? I only told the lady because I felt it was disrespectful.

2007-03-15 14:47:51 · 4 answers · asked by * 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

feminists are always saying that, but why so? if it's because girls can't do anything about it, then that's false. girls do have limited control over the way they look. and lets assume that girls aren't attracted to good looks. they attracted to smart, funny, and popular guys. guys have little or no control over those things. some guys just don't have high iqs or didn't get a good education. and some guys, like me, just aren't funny. i have a sense of humor and try to be funny, but people never think of me as the funny guy. and if you think it's just not right to make girls change their appearances and worry about their looks so guys will like them, then is it really right to make boys try to be something they're not just so that girls will like them? so feminists, is it not shallow for guys to be attracted to pretty girls? or is it also shallow for girls to be attracted to smart, funny, and popular guys? or are you just a bunch of hypocrites?

2007-03-15 14:47:33 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Getting right 2 it. My ex g/f is like very upset with her self right now I dunno why tho. she thinks shes ugly and shes not I keep telling her that and she keeps saying no. I kept saying how beautfuil she is and how she has very nice eyes and a nice smile and most of all she has very nice nice hair..But still shes upset with her looks and how she acts..I told her shes smart and nice..But she said "no im not" I told her its the truth and that if somthing is wrong I am here for her and will listen and I still care for her to..But I dont want her to hurt her self..Because she is a vitcom of rape and I keep on thinking that somtimes that can be whats wrong..I love her still to death she knows that to..Why wont she belive me that she is beauiful and all the other things? she said she didnt deserve all these sayings from me..But I was telling her the truth and it is the truth and I am here for her...But how can I save her from doing somthing dumb n show her I care and that she not ugly

2007-03-15 14:47:05 · 5 answers · asked by Jeff N 1 in Singles & Dating

it wasn't for another girl. i was with him for three years. he said we fought alot but i never iniated the fights. it was him all the time. he cusses and yells and i try to leave the room because i don't want to say mean things to him in retaliation. he wants me to yell at him too but when i do he gets even angrier. he constantly have a list of bad things about me he wants to change. like i don't talk enough but when i do i don;t think he listens.he says i don't listen enough but i usually stop what i do if he is talking to me (though i don't do that all the time because i'm busy too). i cooked for him and cleaned and he complained that he didn;t need that. i tried to take care of him when he's sick but he said that he resented it because he can take care of himself. he got mad at me for overflowing the toilet when he was the last person who used it. he called me stupid. he wants me to tell him how i feel but gets defensive about it. he naggs too much like a girl. what was it?

2007-03-15 14:46:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a very good male friend that has been married to his wife for about 15 years, they only new each other for 6 months prior to getting married. They have 3 kids together. The wife has chosen her career as a lawyer and soon to be a judge over her husband. The husband is extremely unhappy and is only in this relationship because of his kids. The wife lives in one country and the husband in another. The kids have only been told that he is working and that is why he is gone. He doesn't want his children to be affected by any decision that is made (divorce) because they attend a school for the extremely gifted (they are smart as can be). I know that he loves another woman and she loves him. What should he do?

2007-03-15 14:46:24 · 33 answers · asked by My_ina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this is sort of pathetic, but I love it whenever a guy compliments me on my smile :)

2007-03-15 14:46:22 · 17 answers · asked by qtpie16707 3 in Singles & Dating

do you think it is weird for a girl to have mainly guys numbers on her cell phone? and only a few girls?

2007-03-15 14:46:20 · 17 answers · asked by vixen63_babygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 14:45:52 · 2 answers · asked by morgan h 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to a month long camp lasting from late June to middle July. I have a boyfriend and if we are still dating when I leave for New York (we live in NC) I don't want him to get lonely. I mean, yeah I'm going to call him, but I don't want him to feel alone.

I completely trust him. I just know he won't cheat on me. I can just tell. Anyways, yeah, thanks for all of your help.

Love ya

2007-03-15 14:45:21 · 5 answers · asked by Lior 3 in Singles & Dating

First of all, let me start off by saying that I am a 26 year old Black woman, that loves Black men. But, I do have a question. Why do y'all lie and cheat? I mean, what makes y'all stray and lie, when you don't have to. I am nowhere near perfect but I am a good person, I am no pushover, I work, I am independent but also not afraid to let a man be a man. And, please, don't give me that LAME excuse about having to have game or whatever. I want mature Black men to answer this one. Whether its something that you used to do or still do or whatever. I just want honesty. Why are y'all afraid to commit? Talk to me, Man to Woman.

2007-03-15 14:44:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend. Shes my best friend and she likes me. Or at least I thought she did. She tried to ask me out twice but said that shes afraid if we broke up we would't be friends. What should I do?

2007-03-15 14:44:27 · 12 answers · asked by 54jknb5487dfg46 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 14:44:22 · 11 answers · asked by lazy_n_spoiled 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 14:44:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Something that is fool proof cause chicks dont seem to like me?

2007-03-15 14:44:01 · 10 answers · asked by sphwaterboy 2 in Singles & Dating

Would someone tell me whats the difference between Best Friends and a Boyfriend or girlfriend?

2007-03-15 14:43:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-15 14:43:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or were you too busy humping a large variety of people that you forgot to plan for the future?

If you still live in an apartment, then you probably fall in the "failed to plan" category.

If you actually busted your butt like me, then you're living the dream with a hottie wife, 2kids, and a big house.

(by busting your butt, I don't mean mudd butt)

2007-03-15 14:43:21 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my husband-to-be just got a new job and he will be gone from 9am until about 10pm every night and I just don't know if I like it. We have two kids and I would like him to be able to spend a little more time with them. He is going to make a lot better money than what he is now but family time to me is more important. Anyone else been in this kind of situation and what did you do to make sure that there was enough family time?

2007-03-15 14:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by Kristin R 3 in Family

2007-03-15 14:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by dass d 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently started dating a new lady. Med student to be exact, age 32. Petite, attractive, very educated and well spoken. She looks like the office librarian. Anyhow, on our first date she performed oral on me and seemed to get off on it unusually more then would be expected. I aksed her about it and the wheels fell off. She told me she loves sex and can't get enough. Went into GREAT detail about graphic stuff. She is also into some minor pain with sex and some VERY extreme stuff. She use to be a spa owner, but gave it up as she always hired guys and it turned messy sexually. So now here I am. Second date, naturally we had sex and must say it was the best I've ever had. All I can say is this lady knows what she wants and gets there many times if you get my point. Kinky beyond anything I've seen even in a movie However, is she worth dating? Any chance a woman like this can actually be fathful? How often is it found that a woman is this highly sexual. It really blew me away.

2007-03-15 14:42:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They will bend over backwards to stay with someone who treats them like garbage, cheats, is physically/verbally/mentally abusive, controls their every movement, and runs their lives. On the other hand they will take advantage of someone who treats them better than they have ever imagined.

Don't you realize that there are guys out there who would treat you like a princess instead of a pauper? Do you understand that there are men in the world who believe in the sanctity of marriage, fatherhood, and a loving relationship?

I would love to just spend one day with each woman who gets treated badly and show them how a real man treats a woman but from what I am seeing here ono Yahoo! Answers that would take the rest of my life and almost all of my afterlife.

Why won't you get a friggin clue and dump the trash you are with and find yourself someone who will treat you with a soft hand and a warm heart? We all have flaws but not all of us are @$$holes to the women we love.

2007-03-15 14:41:57 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i got this guy friend our friendship went into something else,okay.then he lied to me so many times i cant count how many! okay well then i dumped him. then hes just keeps on talking to me when i dont want to talk! what do i do??

2007-03-15 14:41:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 14:41:53 · 16 answers · asked by alyonadempsey 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 14:41:52 · 3 answers · asked by hossainatiya 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 14:41:20 · 11 answers · asked by long_horn_2468 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy and he like me and he is playing hard to get like me

2007-03-15 14:41:01 · 2 answers · asked by laquanna g 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 14:40:44 · 1 answers · asked by beans 1 in Singles & Dating

I like him alot!!

2007-03-15 14:40:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating