A lot of men are clueless when it comes to women's thinking. When you think are being obvious, guys have no clue what you are doing.
You have two choices if you want this man.
1. Tell him.
2. Be friendly. Find out what kinds of things he likes and do some of them with him. Compliment him when you are together.
Men like the following compliments.
Intelligence. Telling him is is good at, or understands something very well. (Never say, "You're so smart." Unless he really is.)
Strength. Only if he is strong.
Body features. But some men won't understand why you have said, "You have a nice nose/ears/etc..."
If you really want him to understand without saying anything, then hold his hand or arm. Look into his eyes and smile. Or the winning move, put your head on his chest. The last one is the ultimate statement. The only woman who would do that is the one who is, or wants to be, your girlfriend.
2007-03-15 17:34:19
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answered by A dad & a teacher 5
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Befriend him. There is nothing like a good old fashioned greeting. I find it a major turn off,when someone you barely knows,is infatuated with you. Most likely,you may like his appearance,but if you know the real person,you're liking will have more depth.
2007-03-15 22:10:32
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answered by Ellie 4
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ha! i went throught this same exact thing a month ago...
so, just start talking to his friends...be friends with them. since they're guys, they can't keep secrets. eventually they'll probably say "you know, he likes you"...then tell the guy you like that you heard he likes you. then, tell him you like him...la la la, you're going out. if all else fails, just be friends with him.
2007-03-15 22:55:19
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answered by DeceptiConservative 4
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