it wasn't for another girl. i was with him for three years. he said we fought alot but i never iniated the fights. it was him all the time. he cusses and yells and i try to leave the room because i don't want to say mean things to him in retaliation. he wants me to yell at him too but when i do he gets even angrier. he constantly have a list of bad things about me he wants to change. like i don't talk enough but when i do i don;t think he listens.he says i don't listen enough but i usually stop what i do if he is talking to me (though i don't do that all the time because i'm busy too). i cooked for him and cleaned and he complained that he didn;t need that. i tried to take care of him when he's sick but he said that he resented it because he can take care of himself. he got mad at me for overflowing the toilet when he was the last person who used it. he called me stupid. he wants me to tell him how i feel but gets defensive about it. he naggs too much like a girl. what was it?
2007-03-15 14:46:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i was out of work for three months. but i'm paying him now for what i owe him. i got a new job and he's angry at me now for not getting it when we were together. but i thought all this time he was just being supportive at a lowest time in my life. now i found out he resented that i didn;t have a job. which he didn't really complain about at the time. etc... etc... why.. why... why
2007-03-15 14:49:33 · update #1
Wow; had the same thing. You know the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder"? Well, it's true. I left for a year and he has learned from his mistakes.
Sounds like he just has some growing up to do. It is not your fault. You could do everything right; but it would always be wrong to him.
Since he left, act like you don't care one bit. Have fun; do everything you never got to do. Show him that you could care less if he is gone. He most likely will come back. But don't call him, e-mail, etc....
2007-03-15 14:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two must be young, anyway it is not you he is being immature and acting like an idiot. You are probably better without him, unless he grows up soon and realizes what he has done. Men take longer to mature and make a lot of mistakes when it comes to relationships. So again it's not your fault, you sound like a wonderful person and just happen to have boyfriend that was a jerk. Good luck and God bless...
2007-03-15 22:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang com, and he don't apreac-ate what you do? Lifes is a highway. Your better off without him. He doesn't sound very posstive at all or like you. I mean from what your saying (dan, typing) he doesn't seam to care much about you. If he liked you, he'd apreac-ate what you had done and he would be fighting about. What are y'all fight or he's fighting about? I say find someone who'll apreac-ate you.
2007-03-15 21:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you need to grow some ba!!$ and kick his a$$ to curb. You gotta stand up to a man like that or they will have 0 respect for you.You have not let him know how you feel and only focused on what he wants needs and so on. that tends to make people feel a bit smothered.Most people want someone to stand with them and not behind them.
2007-03-15 21:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by rovelose1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a complete a$$hole. Be glad he is gone and find a decent man.
2007-03-15 21:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by trichbopper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a big jerk..and is not ready for a nice girl.
2007-03-15 21:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋