Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

2007-03-15 15:17:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whenever i talk to a guy lately i get nervous and blushing... hey guys out there... do you think its cute or creepy when a girl blushes and gets nervous around you? also, how can i be more comfortable? thanks for your input!

2007-03-15 15:17:18 · 8 answers · asked by kristin p 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok So im black, i just started going to this new school a month ago. And i like this girl in my class but im black and she's white. And that kind of adds to the reason of me being afraid to talk to her. Im a sophomore and she is a freshmen. And Im also kind of shy and im the only black person in this class. I want to talk to her sometimes but there is this mean kid that sits next to her. (i dont have any problems with him personally i just have a feeling he will make things worse if i try to talk to her). Well this kid loves to joke around alot and he loves to make fun of people. So what if i go to talk to her one day and he just looks at me and starts laughing and ruins it. And i dont want to come off too strong either. But all these things really make me nervous, and this class and lunch is the only time i see her. And that mean kid, he sits at her lunch table.

What do you guys think i should do? I cant go on like this.

2007-03-15 15:16:53 · 11 answers · asked by robinson_cj 2 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in October and want to express my thanks to everyone.The best way to do this is with a thank you note.I want to download some that are free

2007-03-15 15:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by Ethel Anne M 1 in Weddings

I really like this girl at school and she used to like me too. The other day we were joking around all day and at then at the end of the day she writes me a letter. I though it was going to be a letter to ask me out but when I read it it says: "Craig, y are you so mean 2 me? U really hurt my feelings: All I do is try to get you 2 notice me. Gee kill a girl 4 trying! You dont even kno Im alive. Am I that ugly or what? U better not show anyone this either. Thanx. Jerk!" I really like this girl and had no idea she felt this way. I thought she knew that I liked her. Anyway, what do you make of this letter and what do you think I should do?

2007-03-15 15:15:14 · 11 answers · asked by kclvmw24 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 15:15:11 · 10 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Family

a boy in school hangs out with me all the time from a guys point of view... do u hang out with girls that you would like all the time?

2007-03-15 15:14:24 · 4 answers · asked by madi s 1 in Singles & Dating

My real mother died a few years ago. Now i live with my step dad and just got married to a person who i dont really like. I get mad whenever i see her. what should i do to make myself feel better?

2007-03-15 15:14:06 · 9 answers · asked by Troubled 3 in Family

Okay...so I got a big problem. I am 14 and in 8th grade. And I am shy. I have a guy that I like so bad and we flirted with eachother for like 4 or 5 months then he was taken out of the one class I had with him. So we just kinda never talk any more. Well, I still like him alot and I see him at the libary every wednesday and neither one of us talk to eachother. But in this process I have had two other guys ask me out but I just sayed no cause I really like the first guy. I guess im just afrade that if we just stop talking then I will never be with him. He has my number and e-mail and myspace but we dont talk. Oh, and when I messaged him on myspace he didnt even reply...but seriously I dont care if you guys just tell me that I dont need to worry about him cause im still young but I cant sleep at night cause im up all night thinking about him! What should I really do about this cause I need some real help...and I dont wanna write him a note telling him I like him cause that isnt really me.

2007-03-15 15:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by Katie-bug 2 in Singles & Dating

Been separated for almost a year due to spouse being unfaithful. we have four kids. just recently i got into an argument with my soon ex's girlfriend about a situation with our son. anyway she wants to be cool with me but i think i can't she was the person my husband had an affair with. i just don't know what to do. I told her face to face that i would never be friends with her not in her life time. I know that she'll w/ my soon ex husband but should i forgive her and be friends.

2007-03-15 15:13:40 · 21 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am nervous, angry, worried, teriffied, upset, etc., etc....about the topic of ...SEX. It seems like the world is biologically unfair because girls experience pain at the first time they have sex while guys feel nothing but pleasure (unless they love you and care about your pain.) I am just so shaken up over what the people have told me on here. "oh it hurts soooo bad" or "it doesnt hurt at all" which is it??! Another thing that upsets me is the issue of virginity. In the 70s', girls were giving up their virginity left and right...but not for love...or money. They did it to feel LIBERATED. Girl on top...yeah. But on the other side...I feel as if if I have sex the "wrong way" I'm just going to feel awful afterwards and feel you know....DEGRADED. So that's how I feel....being a virgin is bad and not being a virgin is also bad. So I'm just asking, for further research, if I were to wait untill I was fully "grown" and old enough, would sex still hurt? What way could I do it so it wouldn't

2007-03-15 15:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by Jenn 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-15 15:13:01 · 1 answers · asked by maruguzman76 1 in Weddings

2007-03-15 15:12:55 · 3 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 15:12:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is it normal for a girl to always have a guy around her or to have all but like three or four guys numbers in her cell?

2007-03-15 15:12:33 · 3 answers · asked by vixen63_babygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

you + me = peas in a pod

she likes me i take it ?
right ?

2007-03-15 15:12:27 · 13 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl in my third hour that sits in front of me. i try to filrt with her but i dont think she is getting the sign.

2007-03-15 15:12:13 · 11 answers · asked by badgerboy 2 in Singles & Dating

OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. IOn the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.

2007-03-15 15:11:50 · 1 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 13 and I have a "friend" and I went to the youth center that friday night and I went to sit down because I had a head ache and i passed her up and she grabbed me and she said Go by me a coke and I said okay, so I went to the window to get the coke and I got distracted and She asked Where is my coke? all mad and I said I did not get it and she said well why not? and I said I do not feel good would you please go get it and she walked away and never talked to me since. what do I do?

2007-03-15 15:11:00 · 13 answers · asked by kimberly a 1 in Friends

Alright, I know everyone is going to say to move on, he is a jerk and a cheater/player, and "why would you want to be with him."

We dated 2 yrs almost engaged, broke up. He dated this other girl 5 months, still with her.

We didnt see eachother for 5 months and now, cause we had to settle money, we saw eachother a few times. He started kissing me etc, we made love.....He says he is confused and cares for me. Last night he called me to talk, and we hung out, had a great time. I asked him "what do you want?" and he says "Everything" - What the hell does that mean?

He says he misses me so much, sometimes he thinks he is happy with his current gf and at times, he isnt, he has doubts.

I know we belong together, even though it probably isnt worth all the pain he caused, but in the end, I do love him so much.

How do I get him back? I feel like he is already half way there. He says seeing me is hard cause it reminds him of how we were. What do I do?

2007-03-15 15:10:14 · 13 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I do love the person but don't feel in love with them. I feel more comfortable with them than anything. I don't feel that's fair to me or them. Is that enough for a person, or do you need to be in love?

2007-03-15 15:09:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of my is dating this teacher .................. which kind confuses me............. caused i have a crush on my teacher... but i know it is nothing serious.............and it is just me been a kid.... and the problem is that i think about him and i know its wrong......

2007-03-15 15:09:16 · 7 answers · asked by Mili 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean physicaly.

2007-03-15 15:08:41 · 23 answers · asked by Dancing Queen 1 in Singles & Dating

Imitation is NOT the sincerest form of flattery. I was friends with this girl for a few years, but in the past few months, she's become very clingy, and I don't want to be friends with her anymore. I've tried most of the "solutions" for clingy people, such as getting her to talk to my other friends, but none of them like her. Plus she doesn't seem interested in making new friends anyway--she wants only me. If somebody says hi to her, she'll reply in a nervous little-girl voice, "I don't talk to people I don't know," but she's NOT shy--just kind of weird. If I even mention another person in a conversation, she feels threatened that I will become friends with that person and forget all about her. I try to ignore her a lot of the time, but that doesn't work. I want to just tell her to stay away from me, but I've decided that is not such a good idea since she is in 4 of my classes (sits by me and stares at me in all of them too), so I have to put up with her nearly everyday. What do I say?

2007-03-15 15:08:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I messed up big time. Been with a girl 3 years, Totally in love. Moved away... and had a year of me... new job, new country & getting over sum stress i had b4 her... NOT HER. Whilst away, i flirted.. on & off for months, she begged & begged for me to come home. We were perfect for each other. She found out halve way into the yr I was away & we kept working ever since to make it wrk. Now, after seeing her recently, she got tired of begging for me to come home, & told me she had learnt to not miss me, hide her feelings to get on. We were supposed to move back in together this month, I give up everything as I know it's time & I'm wrong. I'm AN ***. Fact is, she changed her mind last week, Said she can't, she needs her fun, attention, loves & cares but can't be with me. She wants to be left alone, won't see me & is having 'fun with other people' I'm thousands of miles away living hell. Please help me, If there is anything I could do, I would do it. I know I'm wrong in this.. but shes the 1

2007-03-15 15:08:08 · 3 answers · asked by the_randomone 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out about a week ago that my brother's girlfriend (dating about 1 1/2 years now and live in apartment together across town) was pregnant... I don't really talk to either of them... In fact, I had to hear it from an ex-boyfriend (him and my brother were best friends in high school, we still see eachother once in a while).
Anyways, I came home from work the other night and found out she started bleeding and was rushed to the hospital and finally has miscarried the baby. She was only about 7 weeks or so along. Once again, I had to hear it from somebody else.

What do I say to her, better yet, my brother? We aren't that close, but I still feel so bad for them...They were so excited about it once they realized it was really happening. And now, it just disappeared...

I can't just pretend like nothing happened right? that could have been my neice or nephew, you know?

What should I say or do?

2007-03-15 15:07:49 · 19 answers · asked by KC_Meag42 5 in Family

okay i broke up with my bf and he went out with another girl rite away, then he told me he just went out with her to get me jealous so he broke up with her and tried to get me bak, now hes going out with the same girla again and idk if hes just doing it to get me jealous but idk im just not sure...i sorta wana tell her that he mite just be using her but i dont want her to get mad cuz me and her are sorta friends now?? any ideas??

2007-03-15 15:07:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i only see her once a week at church, and we don't go to the same school, but she seems to smile at me and stuff when i enter the room.

2007-03-15 15:07:26 · 11 answers · asked by eddiecobain 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad cheated on my mom, but my mom decided to tell all the kids about it (ages: 8, 8, 12, 13, 15), my dad beat my mom once, but my mom does the same thing to me everyday

from birth i've always favored my dad, it's almost like i'm programed to think everything my dad does is right and everything my mom does is wrong. and now i have to make all these decisions about something i shouldn't even know about.

my councelor won't pick for me, but she did tell me i'm stressing myself to much. should i just not worry about it? how can i just forget what i know? i've already forgiven my dad but for the first time in my life i've been doubting him. i don't know whether or not he's telling to truth, and it kills me to second guess him. i feel like i'm betraying him.

i don't want to have to chose between my parents, but they're FINALLY getting a divorce and my mom is pressuring me to take sides. now do you see what kind of a mother she is?

please help!

2007-03-15 15:07:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 15:07:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce