My girlfriend dumped me- i want her back... HELP pls... i messed up, I need your advice..........?

Question

I messed up big time. Been with a girl 3 years, Totally in love. Moved away... and had a year of me... new job, new country & getting over sum stress i had b4 her... NOT HER. Whilst away, i flirted.. on & off for months, she begged & begged for me to come home. We were perfect for each other. She found out halve way into the yr I was away & we kept working ever since to make it wrk. Now, after seeing her recently, she got tired of begging for me to come home, & told me she had learnt to not miss me, hide her feelings to get on. We were supposed to move back in together this month, I give up everything as I know it's time & I'm wrong. I'm AN ***. Fact is, she changed her mind last week, Said she can't, she needs her fun, attention, loves & cares but can't be with me. She wants to be left alone, won't see me & is having 'fun with other people' I'm thousands of miles away living hell. Please help me, If there is anything I could do, I would do it. I know I'm wrong in this.. but shes the 1

Answer 1

She's told you how it is mate , you'v just gotta accept it and move on , good luck !!

Answer 2

well she has begged u when is was neccessary she probably dont really see a need anymore and now,its your turn females in general dont joke with dignity maybe she doesnt want it to seem like she is the only one trying hard,didnt u get that trick in high skool?see other people and make him/her jealous,that exactly what she is doing 3yrs is a long time for it to just dissolve just like that keeping try u only lose when u give up

Answer 3

If she not in love with u anymore then what ever u do she will not came back.
U should have thought of this before u make those stupid ans selfish things.
How knows maybe if u give her time and make her understand that u really know that u f***** , then maybe and i say maybe then she will want to came back, but u will have to prove her that u want mess again with her heart.