My real mother died a few years ago. Now i live with my step dad and just got married to a person who i dont really like. I get mad whenever i see her. what should i do to make myself feel better?
2007-03-15 15:14:06 · 9 answers · asked by Troubled 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Examine these feelings. Are you angry because you feel she's trying to take your mom's place? Or are you angry because you feel your step-dad "replaced" your mom? Or do you genuinely just not like this woman? Examine why you don't like her. Is she rude to you? You have to understand that she's probably just as uncomfortable around you. It's probably awkward for her - especially if she has never had kids of her own. Once you find the cause of your anger - write down everything that makes you angry. Then either take it the piece of paper outside and burn it (carefully of course) or rip it into shreds. Or, if this is something you can talk to her about, maybe you should sit down and talk to her and try to get to know her better. Or even talk to your step-dad and discuss your frustration. Sometimes getting things out in the open and clearing the air helps. But if that's not an option, I've found the writing exercise works wonders.
2007-03-15 15:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by swordarkeereon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a minor, what about your biological Dad? If he's not around maybe an aunt or uncle maybe. If this is your only option just avoid her as much as possible and just make the best of it until you're 18 then you can stop on you're way out the door and politely invite her to bite your a**!
2007-03-15 15:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by clayp72 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what a freaking jerk. needless to say he would not merits your interest or your love. only permit him pass, he will remorseful approximately leaving you and he will ought to bit his ........ whilst he sees which you're way way plenty happier with somebody else tha nwhat you have been by employing hi part. whether it in all probability hurts plenty and he took great thing approximately you final nighttime only forgive and forget approximately approximately it. that's his loss no longer yours. besides what the factor of staying indignant at him, that's only gonnamake you misserable. he's a stupid fool for letting you pass!
2016-10-01 00:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by schiraldi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with your feelings. write a letter to your mom about how much you miss her, and put it in a frame behind her picture. write a letter, an angry one to his new wife and never send it, get all the emotions out. there's a bigger issue here, you miss your mom and you feel like she's been replaced by someone who isn't up to snuff. deal with your feelings without explodin on people. to get rage out try exercising or punching a pillow or screamin into one. something that gives endorphines or gets out frustration without doing something painful like punchin a wall lol.
2007-03-19 13:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I do is run outside in the front or backyard and I run around and scream at the top of my lungs. Or I like get on I.m. with my friends.
2007-03-15 15:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Thinkpink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have any family on ur motherside? try talking to ur mom, even though shes not here anymore she can still hear u. good luck
2007-03-19 13:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by jai1603 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.
what do you like doing best?
i lock myself in my room and blare my music.
i just forget the world outside my room.
it helps me unwind.
2007-03-15 16:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i run alot. i mean i like my stepdad but sometimes he pisses meh off so i go running.
2007-03-15 15:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by xXxcaptainxplanetxXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of your real mom, i'm sure she is still with you.
2007-03-15 15:20:04 · answer #9 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋