I really like this girl at school and she used to like me too. The other day we were joking around all day and at then at the end of the day she writes me a letter. I though it was going to be a letter to ask me out but when I read it it says: "Craig, y are you so mean 2 me? U really hurt my feelings: All I do is try to get you 2 notice me. Gee kill a girl 4 trying! You dont even kno Im alive. Am I that ugly or what? U better not show anyone this either. Thanx. Jerk!" I really like this girl and had no idea she felt this way. I thought she knew that I liked her. Anyway, what do you make of this letter and what do you think I should do?
2007-03-15 15:15:14 · 11 answers · asked by kclvmw24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for the bait and ask her to lunch so you can talk about her letter.
2007-03-15 15:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her this: "I'm terribly sorry that you think I feel that way..but the truth is, I like you. Sometimes when you really like someone you do stupid things. That is waht I did. The only thing going through my mind was "Does she like me?" or "Gosh I like her so much!" that I lose track of things. The bottom line is, I apoligize for hurting your feelings, because seeing what I did to you hurt mine also. I like you a lot, and want to get to know you better. Will you let me?"
It's a fact that she likes you because she said "All I do is try to get you 2 notice me. Gee kill a girl 4 trying!" so don't worry about the I like you part. It'll be fine. If she had enough guts to write you that letter, you should have the guts to fight for what you know is right.
2007-03-15 22:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by sklinckyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a sarcastic sense of humor and your idea of joking is harrassing people, that MIGHT be why she wrote a letter feeling offended. What I wrote probably sounds weird actually... I have the type of sense of humor where, when a guy and I like each other, we harrass each other...it's pure jokes, but it's hillarious. Maybe she laughs and "acts" like she's diggin' them, but once you part, she's like "what the hell did just happened?" Best bet, write her a note back or go up and talk to her about it... tell her you didn't mean to offend her, b/c you obviously didn't and ask her what made her think you did offend her, so you can try adn not repeat it again.
2007-03-15 22:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were giving her a hard time about things, I can see her writing the letter. It could also be she wrote you the letter to judge your reaction. Be honest with her about how you feel, and show her. Do the little thoughtful things that show you care. If she reacted negatively to whatever you said that day, make it a point not to bring it up again.
2007-03-15 22:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well maybe when u joke around with her u say mean things to her just to make u guys laugh? idk my bf does that sumtimes like oh look at ur big nose or ugly face and we laugh about it because we know hes just kidding but sumtimes it gets to me, and i told him to stop being mean to me too, girls are too emotional sometimes so u have to be careful with what u say to her, tell her u didnt mean anything mean that uve done and that u had no idea she felt this way, tell her u LIKE HER!!! thatll make her really happy bc she still likes u or else she woundt waste her time writing u that letter.
good luck!
2007-03-15 22:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl wants even more attention than shes getting. and she is writing you to make you feel bad so you can console or comfort her which causes you to have to pay attention to her. tell her how you really feel and give her a hug if you like her. girls like hugs =)
2007-03-15 22:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by kristin p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone probably told her something. either way, this sounds really immature. you're probably better off without her if she's just going to assume things like this.
2007-03-15 22:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by KikkomanLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch her..
JK
you should just walk up to her and tell her straight foward
notes are gay its like 'ok, so you dont even have the courage to say it to my face?' so even though shes not brave that doesnt mean you arent. Tell her straight foward thats wat a lot of girls like
2007-03-15 22:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just tell her u don't hate her and that u r just kidding. u can also appoligize that usually works!!
2007-03-15 22:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIGHT FOR YOYR LOVE, I KNOW THAT SHE ALSO LOVES YOU. DO IT BOY
2007-03-15 22:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by Shawn M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋