2007-03-15 15:15:11 · 10 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Put your arms around her and kiss her. Tell her you love her and that she's still has you. I've had a miscarriage and a still born. It's not easy at first, but you go on and hope for the best. I had the miscarriage first and then later had a son. Around 3 1/2 years later I had a stillborn daughter. Then a year later, I had another son. Eventually I had two more sons. Now I have those 4 and 3 step children, 2 boys and 1 girl. I love them as my own. I also have 6 grandchildren, 4 boys and 2 girls. God does bless us in mysterious ways. Your step-mom will be alright as long as she knows that you will be there to love her no matter what.
2007-03-15 16:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by nanny50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh.. sorry to hear this dear.. well.. Everyone in the house will be upset.. and ur stepmom especially will be very depressed.. So try to be there for her.. help out at the tiny things that u ppl can... At least she can shift her attention to u all other than onli thinking abt her lost kid..
k... Take care of her.. she needs more luv now.
2007-03-15 22:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts some people more when you don't talk about painful events.
Just hug her and tell her you are sorry. Tell her how sad you feel.
DO NOT tell her it's better this way or that you know how she is feeling- neither is true.
Try to do nice things for her- keep the house neat without being asked, make her tea, or sandwiches etc. Listen if she wants to talk, hold her if she wants to cry, and just be kind.
2007-03-15 23:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by CYP450 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I had a stillborn at 8 months I was so happy that people were thinking about me and were there for me if I needed them. Let her know how sorry you are and let her know how excited you were also.. share your pain with each other. Losing a baby is a horrible thing no matter how far along you are.. it is a baby lost and hopes and dreams gone. Sit with her, hold her hand... :)
2007-03-15 22:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down beside her and give her a Hug and tell her how Sorry you are about Losing the Baby, but hopefully she can have another some day.
2007-03-15 22:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage not to long ago. Just act the way you normally do around her. If she wants to talk about it, she will. If it gets to you when you are around her, just give her a hug.
2007-03-15 22:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Nooney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know you are sorry. Ask her if there is anything you can get her or do for her. Let her know you love her very much. Your dad too. I am sorry for your pain and loss.
2007-03-15 22:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry you lost the baby and then nothing else and do not ask her questions
2007-03-15 22:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Nora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her, nothing really you can say...
2007-03-15 22:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give her a hug
2007-03-15 22:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋