Alright, I know everyone is going to say to move on, he is a jerk and a cheater/player, and "why would you want to be with him."
We dated 2 yrs almost engaged, broke up. He dated this other girl 5 months, still with her.
We didnt see eachother for 5 months and now, cause we had to settle money, we saw eachother a few times. He started kissing me etc, we made love.....He says he is confused and cares for me. Last night he called me to talk, and we hung out, had a great time. I asked him "what do you want?" and he says "Everything" - What the hell does that mean?
He says he misses me so much, sometimes he thinks he is happy with his current gf and at times, he isnt, he has doubts.
I know we belong together, even though it probably isnt worth all the pain he caused, but in the end, I do love him so much.
How do I get him back? I feel like he is already half way there. He says seeing me is hard cause it reminds him of how we were. What do I do?
2007-03-15 15:10:14 · 13 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about him, You will find someone that will treat you better.
2007-03-15 15:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by All Natural Honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, when you say, "I know everyone is going to call him a cheater" you already know that what is happening is not what is best for you. When he says he wants everything, it means he wants his cake and eats it too. He wants to play both fields and he isn't hurting anyone but the two women he is playing. You are giving him everything with no strings when he sleeps with you without a commitment. All you have from him are words and actions speak louder than words. And more to the point if he cheats on her than he WILL cheat on you.
Stand up for yourself, you are letting him walk all over you. You say you love him, what part of his lack of respect for you, (ie: she is good enough to sleep with but not to date?) do you love? What part of his pathetic, "I'm confused"?? do you love? He is obviously not so confused that he doesn't think it isn't a good idea to sleep with you....
This is a man who knows exactly what he is doing and you are letting him get away with it.
If nothing else, you really can't make up your mind and you really don't know what to do, you OWE IT to his girlfriend to tell her that he has cheated on her so she can at least make up her mind.
2007-03-15 22:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by meraphetamine 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
close to getting him back=the other girl still has him
he is confused=why should I choose when I can have both?
Everything=you and her.
Yes, I am cynical. He is unwilling to commit to you and you reward him by sleeping with him. (He is a lucky guy!) Meanwhile, his other girl is sleeping with him too. You are sharing him and any STD's she gave him. Nice.
Tell him that there will be no more nookie until he dumps her and makes a commitment to you. Don't fall for any promises. Walk away if he waffles. He is just using you.
Good luck!
2007-03-15 22:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Unlesss you are content with being the "chick on the side, sidepiece, jumpoff". Also, if he cheated on his gf with you, how great can he be? If you get him back, he will turn around and do the same to you and then be singing the same song to her or another girl.
2007-03-15 22:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by !!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK u shouldn't worry about it b/c it seems that he still loves u but just isn't really sure what he wants now at this moment. so u should just ask him a few times 2 see what he says and if he still doesn't know then just 4get about him he's not worth it
2007-03-15 22:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by babyloca10457 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lets see he is dipping his stick in two places. I would say this to him. If he is serious then he needs to break up with the other women. If you catch him with her after you start dating much like he is cheating on her with you then you should break up with him again.
2007-03-15 22:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by trichbopper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes a cheater and a lier nowu knohe doesnt want u back give upsry to sound harsh bit really the truth
2007-03-15 22:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by whitney b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he as alreardy cheated on you. If you give him that second chance, the same will happen. You're not meant for each other. He's a womanisor. .............Only DOGS can eat what is already wormited
2007-03-15 22:34:07 · answer #8 · answered by Beta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a used guy? Get a new, clean un used one.
2007-03-15 22:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
things are always more appealing when you can't have them, when you get what you want, it will be the same thing all over again.
2007-03-15 22:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋