Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

She is treats him like a child and organises every moment of his life. He had a nervous breakdown late last year and she is wanting all the attention focused on her.. as though she is the victim. I really feel for him. My husband and I try to support both them however we can but she is a b**** and everyone else can see it except her.
She asks what I think of the situation and I lie to her face.
Times that I have said what I thought have led us to argue.
Her family runs her house, marriage, life!
She has worn her hubby out (so to speak) and is starting to wear us out. I dont want to answer my phone etc incase its her whinging about her hubby.
Should I just say dont involve us?
Should I walk away?
Should I keep up the lying support?
Should be 100% truthful and say exactly what Ill feel?

2007-03-15 14:56:47 · 8 answers · asked by who_me? 3 in Friends

2007-03-15 14:56:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm in eighth grade and i know it's impossible to make this girl like me, but i'd like some tips because she's not way out of my leauge or anything, so can i get some tips please?

2007-03-15 14:56:38 · 6 answers · asked by boswell 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with this Arabic guy at my school for a couple of months now! And we talk on the phone, and we laugh together alot. In the beginning I wasn't attracted to him, but the more and more we talk and communicate... I think I'm actually starting to fall for him. Which I never thought would happen in a million years. Hes a really sweet guy... hes respectful, and he is a gentleman. But, I want to be friends with him for a while 1st so we can better understand each other as a whole. Hes been on my mind, and I have to be true to myself, cause I know deep down inside I like him. He reminds me everyday that he likes me... and its so cute. People under-estimate us cause I'm African American, but I don't care! WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ABOUT THIS? ANY ADVICE?? THANXXX

2007-03-15 14:56:23 · 14 answers · asked by CUTIE 4 in Singles & Dating

if someone tried to start a fight but u knew u would probaly kill this person if u fought him wat do u do? do u fight or jus hit him once real hard to show him to stop being a bad itch. ( this kid cant even bench 50 pounds and he is 15)

2007-03-15 14:55:34 · 10 answers · asked by ldg580 1 in Friends

Her name is Genie, and she's a real good friend to me, and we have a lot in common ,and she has made me feel real great about myself,
and trys always her best to cheer me up, and be by my side through everything, she's generous, and I want to give her something special for her sweet 16, but I don't exactly know what to get her at the mall,
i was gonna get her like a hallmark plaque that said like friendship with a poem but i didnt know if that's to blah,
so ideas would be great,
thanks

oh and i couldn't find the right categorie, so keep in mind i don't just want to by her music or a d.v.d

2007-03-15 14:55:31 · 3 answers · asked by All I need is you 2 in Friends

i dont mean like less than 5 year different i mean like more than that a lot!! like i went to the mall yesterday and there was this old good looking guy was like hitting on me but uhh i think he is like 40 something year old.. but im like eh only 18 so it was kinda weird though i didnt care about him cuz the age is way to different and my boyfriends was there to so yeah.. anyway i was only just wondering cuz like i see so many older ppl that liking the younger.. i mean what can they really want for this sucha way different age so so... why not find someone with their age more??

p.s i dont mean everyone is like this, someday i will turn old too so yeah.

2007-03-15 14:55:27 · 25 answers · asked by =]] 1 in Singles & Dating

i got jump n2 ypt and know i have 2 get jump out.

2007-03-15 14:55:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i luv him chingoz but when i'm with him i think of my ex boy dat'z in jail right now n i don't know what to do to keep on goin wit him or just break up wit him!!!!!

2007-03-15 14:54:40 · 7 answers · asked by chik@ seXy 1 in Singles & Dating

im not a very good lier and i just wanna know how to act when lieing..... good liers out there HELP!

2007-03-15 14:54:06 · 28 answers · asked by i luv u 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this boy i like but he doesn't know should i tell him even though were friends.i am sorrta fat and ugly lookin he is so cute but a bit short

2007-03-15 14:53:56 · 10 answers · asked by booshcawoodles 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont understand. What is wong with you guys! Please look at my previous questions regarding guys so you can ive me some more opinions becuase there have been more incidences where he seems like he is interested. But...i dunno! Please please help!
Phase one:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=A0WTcZEq.PlFWzIBNAcAAAAA?qid=20070303192549AAfyAX6
Phase two: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=A0WTcZEq.PlFWzIBJQcAAAAA?qid=20070309184152AAYKuER

and now we're here. I mean...I don't even know! Just HELP! :(

2007-03-15 14:53:50 · 6 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so like when i see guys who are "fat" i dont think they look that different..like i still think they are cute and stuff..so when guys see girls who are fat do they see someone who is cute or is it different? please explain! im really curious

2007-03-15 14:53:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am still in love with my ex. I kinda have a new boyfriend now. My mom hates my ex. I really want to stop calling him and talking to him. What are some ways to stop the "cravings" to call him?

2007-03-15 14:53:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was taking a picture of my hamster and i forgot to take off the flash!!!!! Its walking funny should i be worried? or is he just freak out? PLEASE HELP!! Hes a dwarf hamster!!!


PLEASE HELP!

I know this is in the wrong section but pleasee!!

2007-03-15 14:52:51 · 10 answers · asked by Kay-Bianca 1 in Singles & Dating

i like my guy friend alot and i wanna start dating him. i wanna start a convo with him and it will go like

me: hey who do u like?

him: idk who do u like?

me: i like you.

thats how i want it to go but theres a problem. i have alot of classes with him. and if he knows i like him, i dont wanna get embarressed in front of him!! so is it a bad idea to tell him i like him?

2007-03-15 14:52:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 38 and have had many friends my whole life, but none that i am still friends with except the current ones. People move and say they will keep in touch but never do. People your friends with in school say they will K.I.T. but never do. Then i have had some i thought would always be around, but then we have a falling out and never speak again. Its kinda sad.

2007-03-15 14:52:39 · 6 answers · asked by EAT! 3 in Friends

After marriage during our first nights sex my wife had no bleeding at all and no pain though my penis is 8" long and quite thick, I always doubt if she had a relation before because even without any bleeding atleast the pain should be there and also I always enter her quite easily, but she always deny it and we enter into a confrontation. So is it possible that she is truthfull ? though I dont want to spoil our married life because of it, and hope that what she says is truth and I am the first person in her life.

2007-03-15 14:52:02 · 12 answers · asked by user_bhati 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The manager where I work was talking to me about some business, While standing there with his wife in the room he tilted his head to the side and licked his tounge across his lips inside his mouth and just looked at me. I just looked at him.

2007-03-15 14:51:44 · 4 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

artist to our town and booking shows. I recently heard a band that was awsome. I exchanged info with acouple of the guys and girls in the band. Yesterday I playfully went in his pocket. It's kind of a game we play. I snatched a peice of paper out. He must of forgoten it was in there. When he realized what I had grabbed he tried to take it from me, but he was more serious than when we're just being playfull. I wasn't giving it back without a fight. He gave up and told me what it was. It was a contact number to one of the guys in the band that I had recently heard. He went my dresser, wrote down the info on another paper without telling me. I got the feeling he was being sneaky about it. I don't mind sharing info and contacts with him. In fact I love to talk to him about the people I meet on the raod and I like hearing about his experiences, I got the feeling he didn't want me to know he had it. He won't admit he did anything wrong , but I think he was being sneaky.

2007-03-15 14:51:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for almost five months. I compliment him on lots of things – I'll tell him I really like a shirt he's wearing, or how sexy I think he is, etc. I'm a really open person, so I just say whatever I'm thinking at the time, and when I'm with him I'm usually thinking of how I like something about him, so I say it out loud. But I've been noticing that he almost never compliments me back. In fact, I can think of only one time that he actually complimented me – it was on my outfit. Does anyone else think this is weird? What should I do?

2007-03-15 14:51:01 · 5 answers · asked by me oh my 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 14:50:56 · 4 answers · asked by cowgirlup_7899 1 in Weddings

I'M SOOO CONpuzzled!!!! :(
k....HE is always taking my stuff!!!!he's always like HI or WAT'S UP, he's like always sitting by me, like 2 days ago he WAS staring at me AND wouldn't STOP!!even though he saw that i saw, i looked at him and still would STOP staring!! and i was giving him a high five AND was trying to HOLD MY HAND!! Always Touching my hair!!!!does he like me???


BUT there's like a LOT of girls that like him!!should i back OFF?? what do i DO????

i DO like ♥ him!!!!

2007-03-15 14:50:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I like my best guyfriend....he is sweet....and everything....but we are just friends....I've liked him forever....he is dating this girl....and he is always catching her doing things but yet he goes back to her....I know that if that was me....I wouldn't treat him like that....He claims that he doesn't really love her....we talk all the time...everynight....Im even talking to him right now.... should I tell him that I really like him...or should I just keep it to myself...cuz we are just friends and nothing else?

2007-03-15 14:50:30 · 12 answers · asked by luvaly_girl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a hard time meeting people because almost everyone binge drinks or does drugs. Do you have the same problem?

2007-03-15 14:49:13 · 4 answers · asked by * 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think that I am starting to have feelings for my best friend that is a girl.

2007-03-15 14:49:00 · 2 answers · asked by Matthew 1 in Singles & Dating

See the thing is... my aunt's wedding is at the end of this month and I already bought a dress. I thought it was nice until my mom said she thought it was too fancy, (the wedding is being held during the afternoon, just to let you know). I was devastated, My grandma bought it on her credit card for like... $150, and I don't know what to do. I also began to realize as I was looking for shoes and a wrap to go over the dress that it would be impossible to find good colors to match the dress! My Grandma LOVES it , she thinks it's perfect. I just don't know what to say or do. Any advice?

2007-03-15 14:48:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Getting right 2 it. My ex g/f is like very upset with her self right now I dunno why tho. she thinks shes ugly and shes not I keep telling her that and she keeps saying no. I kept saying how beautfuil she is and how she has very nice eyes and a nice smile and most of all she has very nice nice hair..But still shes upset with her looks and how she acts..I told her shes smart and nice..But she said "no im not" I told her its the truth and that if somthing is wrong I am here for her and will listen and I still care for her to..But I dont want her to hurt her self..Because she is a vitcom of rape and I keep on thinking that somtimes that can be whats wrong..I love her still to death she knows that to..Why wont she belive me that she is beauiful and all the other things? she said she didnt deserve all these sayings from me..But I was telling her the truth and it is the truth and I am here for her...But how can I save her from doing somthing dumb n show her I care and that she not ugly

2007-03-15 14:48:42 · 1 answers · asked by Jeff N 1 in Singles & Dating

This scary guy will not stop bothering me. He's an 8th grader, and I'm a 7th grader. He keeps on sitting by me when I least expect it. Like, today for example, I was just slinking down in my seat, looking out the window glumly, and the girl who was sitting next to me switched places with him. He was like, "Hiiiiiii!!" I immediantly jerked my head around and he was just sitting there grinning like a nasty retard. He is really gross. He has a full mustache.. , wire rimmed glasses, freaky thick eyebrows.. and he was wearing shorts I thought he was a monkey or something.
- shudders - Well, he kept bumping his bump in my side and going, "Scootch over Shelly!! Make daddy some rooom!!"
:-P Well, I bumped him back going, "F#$% off!!" He was like, "Aren't you a frisky kitten!!" The kid in front of me almost died of laughter. He has been doing this for, like, several days, with situations similar to this. What should I do? I used to like him, but I got over it in a hurry way before this.

2007-03-15 14:48:34 · 9 answers · asked by Millie 3 in Singles & Dating

See the thing is... my aunt's wedding is at the end of this month and I already bought a dress. I thought it was nice until my mom said she thought it was too fancy, (the wedding is being held during the afternoon, just to let you know). I was devastated, My grandma bought it on her credit card for like... $150, and I don't know what to do. I also began to realize as I was looking for shoes and a wrap to go over the dress that it would be impossible to find good colors to match the dress! My Grandma LOVES it , she thinks it's perfect. I just don't know what to say or do. Any advice?

2007-03-15 14:48:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings