Ok I like my best guyfriend....he is sweet....and everything....but we are just friends....I've liked him forever....he is dating this girl....and he is always catching her doing things but yet he goes back to her....I know that if that was me....I wouldn't treat him like that....He claims that he doesn't really love her....we talk all the time...everynight....Im even talking to him right now.... should I tell him that I really like him...or should I just keep it to myself...cuz we are just friends and nothing else?
2007-03-15 14:50:30 · 12 answers · asked by luvaly_girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thanx for the answers everyone...I will wait for some more ....Im still listening to him talking about her....I liked her at first cuz he was happy, now it seems like im just watching him get hurt...and when I give advice sometimes im worried that my feelings will effect what I say to him...maybe im not a good friend...idk
2007-03-15 15:00:55 · update #1
ok nice..... i was going through the same thing ur going a week ago but im a guy (15 years old and colombian)....... well the results where that it is best to tell him what u fell........ i told her and she was like "i fell the same way for u" (those where the exact words.)s0o0o0o to get to the point tell him right now , i know its like, u think about it you set ur mind into doing it and then when your going to do it you say NO.... but beleive me as soon as u do that u really dont care how they react you just fell that u took a huge weight of ur back.
S0o0o0o0o0o0o DO IT
Tell me how it end off
Good Luck
2007-03-15 15:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're just friends then it would only mess it up if you tried to take it further. Especially if you've known him for a long time. The longer someone is a friend, the worse it gets trying to turn it into a romance (in my opinion).
2007-03-15 21:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Max Havelaar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that when I was younger. We never dated, both married other people and it was for the best all the way around.
Don't sweat it. Just focus on the friendship part.
2007-03-15 21:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you afraid that he wont' like you back and it will ruin what you have. I say tell him. Sounds like he is with a b*tch and you really care about him. He might feel the same way but some screwy reason never told you.
2007-03-15 21:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by trichbopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him and maybe he'll like you off in the end. Sometimes girls will do anything to get a guy to like them but some guys just see them as friends
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-03-15 22:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him tell you what I feels about you If you really like him he needs to tell you that he likes you and that he wants to be with youfor the rest of his life and then if he askes you that if you like him tell him to and adont wait for other guys to tell you that they like you because then other girls could take him with them ok
2007-03-15 21:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by lparacely l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start to flirt with him,but don't get to flirty.if this other chick is hurting him,he will need someone to talk to.and that person is you.tell him your true feelings for him.even if he doesn't think of you in that way,at least you let him know.good luck girl!
2007-03-15 22:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Us guys we hate not knowing information, LIKE THAT!!!!!!!!!! Think about it, say he ups and moves away one day or gets engage and then you come out and tell him, he is going to be pissed because you didnt say anything sooner.
2007-03-15 21:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u gonna have to waite intill he is single..but still its ur best freind..u guys are freinds n should only be freinds..sh!t this dont make sence
2007-03-15 21:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but wait for the right moment.
2007-03-15 21:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by dzebra11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋