After marriage no bleeding and pain after first time sex?

Question

After marriage during our first nights sex my wife had no bleeding at all and no pain though my penis is 8" long and quite thick, I always doubt if she had a relation before because even without any bleeding atleast the pain should be there and also I always enter her quite easily, but she always deny it and we enter into a confrontation. So is it possible that she is truthfull ? though I dont want to spoil our married life because of it, and hope that what she says is truth and I am the first person in her life.

Answer 1

Contrary to what you may think, virgins don't always bleed and scream when they have sex for the first time. The hymen can be broken previously to having sex for any number of reasons. As for your 8" schlong, yeah right.....

Answer 2

Men and women - most of the time learn about sex from videos, books and movies and it is such an overrated issue

The best way is to make love and just enjoy and relax. Is sex some form of exercise? Are you testing each other and judging... it is a time to just to be with each other, move the way the body feels, and just let go... then you will realise that even if there was a past it doesnt matter
And the best way to make love is to build the mood. it is not necessary to make love every night. Enjoy touching your spouse. Hold hands for a long time. Talk about dreams and goals. Lie naked next to each other... And then if need be do the act. The act is not the real thing, it is just an end. There is so much more..

So get on with life.....Even if she did earlier so what? When she trusts you in due course she may tell... but does it really matter???

Answer 3

1> Her past shouldn't matter much. What you need to care for is her present and the future of your married life.
2> It's not necessary that a lady bears pain while having sex. Probably she's wet enough down there.
3> Rupture of hymen causes bleeding. It happens during sex. It may happen due to heavy menstural cycles, sproting activities, etc.

Al lthe best...

:-)

Answer 4

Your P....length and size does not matter, at maturity of age female vegina develops in to way that size doesnt matter. During cource the first one inch itself has all the stimulation for getting orgasam.
It sounds really odd of you that there was no bleeding, once she is matured, do you think that its only your fu......Pen...that will develop in to length and size?
She is telling the truth, have faith in her or she will select the 6" fellow and you will keep sucking your extra 2" for the rest of the life.

Answer 5

i had this problem..the guy who took my virginity didnt believe i was a virgin for the same reasons you dont believe your wife ..but he truely was my first and no matter what he thinks i know the truth ..if you trust your wife trust her when she says u are her first ...i didnt bleed or scream or cry during or after my 1st time ..dont let it disrupt your marriage cause even if she wasnt a virgin that means nothing she apparently loves you enough to marry you ..i wasnt a virign when i married my hubby neither was he but that has no bearing on our love for one another ...i hope this helps you ..just remember shes probably telling you the truth...

Answer 6

just because she didn't hurt or bleed doesn't mean shes lied definition of a virgin is never having intercourse right. ok now for my point in this a tampon can for the first time be like the first time you have sex now that doesnt mean they are not virgins but they will not hurt or bleed if they experience that the first time they used a tampon.

Answer 7

Sounds like an ego thing, wat because she didnt scream u think she is lying to you, did it ever occur to you it might have hurt like crazy but she didnt want to spoil the moment and your first time making love as husband and wife complaining that it hurts, dont start your married life with doubts

Answer 8

Stop suspecting your wife and get over. If she enjoys sex with you than there will be no pain and bleeding.

Answer 9

Believe and tell all that virginity can be lost and hymen be ruptured even by watching sexy serials, reading sexy books, imagining, thinking and dreaming of sexual intercourse, mental and physical exercises, diseases, etc. Humiliate whose wives such bleed and feel utmost pain on first night.

All unwed sexual activities (pre/post/extra marital), perverted & homosexual acts are specifically forbidden in Islam in clearly written unambiguous words as great sin & heinous crime punishable with publicly lashing / death by pelting stones.


In India there is minimum age restriction for marriage (not for unwed sexual activities), 18+ for girls and 21+ for boys.
Premarital, extramarital or unwed sexual activities are not barred or prohibited hence no offence punishable in any Indian law. Wife’s sexual intercourse with other/s is also no offence, hence no prosecution or punishment to her. Pre marital sexual experiences (intercourse / coitus) with other/s cannot be a ground to seek divorce under Hindu/Special Marriage Act. Thus a female’s physical sexual relations with persons/s of her choice (with their consent) is not an offence or prohibited / barred in any Indian law and she is at liberty to enjoy SEX freely and fearlessly. A male’s physical sexual relations with any 16+ female (with her consent) is no offence or barred / prohibited in any Indian Law, unless she is in the wedlock of somebody else and is done knowing her wedlock or without her husband’s consent or connivance. Prostitution (commercial sex trade, offering sex for monetary gain) alone is an offence punishable in Indian laws. Yet no Station House Officer, Officer In Charge or Inspector of Police can arrest, enter, search or seize. Husbands & in-laws subjecting wife to mental or physical cruelty or demanding dowry are liable to be punished up to 3 years jail+fine for this non bail able offence.

Answer 10

I definitely have "love" and next you record "sex soreness confusion" (with out any comas) and that i'm no longer particular what "sex soreness confusion" is???? in case your having confusion and soreness for the period of sex then your no longer doing it proper! ! ! As for suffering??? have not had that yet! ! !