I recently started dating a new lady. Med student to be exact, age 32. Petite, attractive, very educated and well spoken. She looks like the office librarian. Anyhow, on our first date she performed oral on me and seemed to get off on it unusually more then would be expected. I aksed her about it and the wheels fell off. She told me she loves sex and can't get enough. Went into GREAT detail about graphic stuff. She is also into some minor pain with sex and some VERY extreme stuff. She use to be a spa owner, but gave it up as she always hired guys and it turned messy sexually. So now here I am. Second date, naturally we had sex and must say it was the best I've ever had. All I can say is this lady knows what she wants and gets there many times if you get my point. Kinky beyond anything I've seen even in a movie However, is she worth dating? Any chance a woman like this can actually be fathful? How often is it found that a woman is this highly sexual. It really blew me away.
2007-03-15 14:42:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The moralists always answer first don't they? Guess what ******, someone right now is having sex and liking it. Oh so sorry if that bothers you! So sorry if sex is the most natural act we humans will ever engage in.
To the other lady, you should run around and ask that question to all people under 35. Why? Because they all have sex. Yes, been tested as was the lady.
2007-03-15 14:49:22 · update #1
Having a high sexual drive doesnt have to make you unfaithful. Or are you saying that men who have high sexual drive ARE unfaithful and so you extrapolate to women?
If you can keep up with her, then you 2 are a match. If you can't, then its the same as in any other relationship, if she loves you, she wont be nagging you about it. Guys always complain their girls dont want enough sex, and you are in the opposite situation and you seem scared.
You should be happy.
Why is it that when a woman has high sex drive it "isnt" normal? Usually women need to hide this as usually guys "loose face" if the woman is more sexual than they are. Its a society thing which says that men have to be more sexual. How come? My ex couldnt handle the fact I wanted more sex than him.
If you like her for her person, your conversations, her humour, whatever you look for in a woman, then the high sex should be an added bonus! Love her for who she is, this individual open woman, not just the sex.
2007-03-15 14:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Skyblue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to enjoy good sex - I say enjoy it. However, there is a very high likelyhood that she has some issues. Not because I don't believe in women being sexually free, but because that seems to be a very large part of the deal and you have only had two dates. How would that play out in the long run - seriously?
2007-03-15 14:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by BoogyBoo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I hope you are using condoms. Secondly, if you can handle an open relationship then by all means, date her. If not, chalk it up to a great sexual experience and move on. There are some women who are very comfortable with their sexuality and act on their impulses when the opportunity presents itself, however, being monogamous is not usually high on their list of priorities. Have a good time with her but don't take things too seriously.
2007-03-15 14:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a nympho to remain faithful you've got to satisfy her urges if it means having sex twice or thrice a day.. You are physically and emotionally attracted to each other, right? So it will all be a big blast!
2007-03-15 14:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by I_fell_in_love_with_a_Pussycat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
faithful i don't think so,but what the hey,life goes on and if you think you could change your lifestyle then stay with it.But if your looking for ms suzy homemaker ,find someone else (goodluck).We all want faithful to a point but down the road you may find yourself looking for other ways to enjoy sex also.You could try to see if you like her way first,then settle for suzy you know.
2007-03-15 14:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by bjec22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not a person to get involved with, she is not going to change. If you want someone for pure sex, go for it, but know what you are getting in to. But, if you really like her, know you are going to get your heart broken. She is not going to be faithful, she is going to be on the prowl for whatever new and fun game she can find. it's just who she is, you can't change her, and she doesn't want to be changed.
If you are the kind of man who can enjoy sex for just sex, go for it, but know the limits.
2007-03-15 14:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by lochmessy 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Come back again when you think up a new story a s s h o l e.
2007-03-15 14:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its highly unlikely she is faithful to you but if you like go for it.
2007-03-15 14:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy it as long as you can . where do you think the other guys went ?and why ?
2007-03-15 14:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Maka 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that another question from you frat guys?
2007-03-15 14:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋