me and my husband have been having word's about the meaning of marriage, and what is expected, ( so is it ok by law to have a private life as well as a maried 1,) my husband wants it like that
2007-03-15 14:48:03 · 8 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he wants to go out, but not tell me where he is going
2007-03-15 15:01:25 · update #1
By "private" life - I assume you mean affairs on the side? Is that what you want?
I don't think there's any laws against it - although it's goes against God's law and what he intended for marriage. But, whatever you're religious beliefs, it's not the best plan for a happy marriage.
Edit: Don't put up with him not telling you where he's going. My EX-husband tried that with me and ended spending several nights at other womens houses! Big NO NO! Despite what he thinks, you are his wife and you deserve respect and that includes knowing where he's going and when he plans on returning.
2007-03-15 14:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle English mariage, from Anglo-French, from marier to marry
1 a (1) : the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law (2) : the state of being united to a person of the same sex in a relationship like that of a traditional marriage
2 : an act of marrying or the rite by which the married status is effected ; especially : the wedding ceremony and attendant festivities or formalities
3 : an intimate or close union
2007-03-15 22:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by private life? Quite frankly, the two of you can do anything you want behind closed doors and no one is going to care.
OR
Do you mean that your husband wants to mess around and then come home and play house? If that's the case, you found yourself quite the loser.
I'd start having more discussions having to do with divorce if I were you.
2007-03-15 21:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a game.....and if he wanted to play games, he should have stayed single.
U r married to him and have every right to know where he is and what hes doing.
I can see him taking "me" time. Thats fine, but if he is being defensive when u ask him where he is going, there is something going on.
There is no room for secrets in a marriage. Thats just trouble.
2007-03-15 22:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not okay at all! Don't even let him try to fool you like that its not right and your stupid if you let him. He is trying to be single and yet be married. It's like momma always said,"You can't have your cake and eat it too." Dear that is what he is trying to do so if he wants it that way get out before it gets bad and you walk in on him with another woman or even worse he tells you he wants a divorce cus he loves someone else. +
2007-03-15 21:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big no no, been there! and I wasn't wrong. When we divorced he ended up marrying who I suspected all along! Started just like your situation. Your not alone, good luck.
2007-03-16 05:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by sarah p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if its ok by law your opinion should matter more hes not married to the law
2007-03-15 21:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by i love mario !!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clarify things before committing yourself............
2007-03-15 21:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by no name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋