Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

my friend of mine loves his girlfriend soo much but the problem that his girlfriend is his bestfriend's girlfriend as well.She loves both of them and she doesnt know what to do.....his bestfriend introduced his gurl to my friend and he fell in love with her ....and she is soo confused and he needs help.....what shall he do ....or what should she do?

2007-03-14 19:58:53 · 5 answers · asked by Natasha 1 in Singles & Dating

Where would you rate it out of all the criteria that a guy needs to have? Like what would be above it and what would be below it.

2007-03-14 19:58:51 · 12 answers · asked by Michael M 4 in Singles & Dating

ok well as i said im a good lookin guy. i get girls to become "interested" in me without really doing much a lot of the time. but for some reason i can never really seem to do anything about it and i dont know why. i try n talk to these girls a bit in person, then as bad as it sounds a bit on myspace or facebook or whatever. we always say stuff like "ya we'll kick it tonight for sure" stuff like that. and of course that usually doesnt end up happening. many times ill call and not get a call back til the next day and whatever. but it cant be my imagination that these girls are interested cause theyre the ones many times hitting on me at first ill say, theyre doing stuff that makes you think everythings 100%. and then ill send myspace messages or text messages or whatever and theyll read everything, n then never send anything back. and this usually goes on for a few weeks. i hate talkin on the phone and bein flirty over phone convos and whatnot but am i doing something wrong? is it me?

2007-03-14 19:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by ben M 2 in Singles & Dating

puppy love is like what??
can it be truth love?
thank you anywho.
= )

2007-03-14 19:56:22 · 3 answers · asked by hate the sand ~ love the castle 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey. How are you? Ever since we stopped talking, (me and her haven't talked for ten months) I had been going over everything in my head, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. You know, I still remember what you said to me the last time we talked, the things you were mad at me about. I remember the first thing you said was that I harassed you. It's strange, that was the last thing I ever wanted to do to you but I guess I did anyway. If you said that because I called you almost every weeknight, it was only because when we were at school we'd only talk for two minutes. I never really got to talk to you when it'd be just me and you. Even when I called, someone else would always call. I was always afraid that I was doing something wrong to make you not like me. I also remember that you told me I obsessed over you. I guess I did and I'm sorry, but what boy wouldn't obsess over an amazing, wonderful, smart, talented, funny, beautiful girl like you? Especially if he didn't want to lose

2007-03-14 19:55:59 · 9 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

A man i dont like and dont have any interest in brought a campaign online to get revenge on me and play stupid games. He hired another guy to give me a hard time and they both try to give me problems in every which way imaginable when im online. I would never consider being involved with either of them and am above them lookswise, financially, every area yet they seem to try to insult me every chance they get. I asked why, one of them said 'I like to make you feel bad'..Why are they wasting their time doing this? I dont care about these people yet they always try to get my attention and wont leave me be. What would cause a man to try to set up the object of his affection after being rejected and to be so juvenile as to name call and gang up on a person? Ive never known someone so pathetic before. Whats the motive in this?

2007-03-14 19:52:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you believe in pity sex and have you ever done it or would you ever do it??

2007-03-14 19:52:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-14 19:50:50 · 3 answers · asked by I LOVE BEING A NORTHERN YANK! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 19:49:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 19:49:37 · 35 answers · asked by carine 1 in Family

I got an offensive email from my brother-in-law pretending to be my sister. I haven't hinted to him or her that I have already read it but have passed it on to a few people already. I want classy revenge, any suggestions???

2007-03-14 19:49:23 · 10 answers · asked by LoulieB 2 in Family

...Do you really want to have a meaningful relationship with one woman? Are there still monogamous males in existance? You know, considering that this is a relationship forum...

2007-03-14 19:49:17 · 13 answers · asked by Teoshe 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-14 19:49:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-14 19:47:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My now ex bf broke up with me last year. The thing was when we were together, he showed so much love and admiration. But something happened and another girl who has his child came into the picture. She was a one night stand before we met, I know for sure she had admitted it herself. Anyhow, he was ashamed and I helped him some to terms with having a child. But as he went to spend time w/ his child he developed feelings for the mother and left me to be with her. I was devestated. But whats worst was he lied to me about it and when I found out the truth, he was so cold and hurtful to me. Anyhow, he is no longer with her, I suppose he found out her true colors and what she was all about. But he never really apologized to me, and the more I tried to talk to him, he treated me like he never knew me and he still does. We were together for 2 yrs. He broke up with me last summer. He has told me he does not want me in his life anymore, because I said hurtful things. But he has said & done some

2007-03-14 19:47:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so i have the hots for my sisters boss. He's been comming over a lot, everytime i've asked him to come over and hang out or whatever. He had asked my sister if i had the hots for him, we partied that night, he called my sis the next day to see how i was feeling, then we went to his party that weekend. I like completely froze and didnt really talk to him that much, a shy smile and a hi and that was about it. He knows I like him now. He's comming to my birthday party this weekend as well. He broke up with his ex a few months ago, they were together for 4 years...and she screwed him over big time, numerous times, and in the end a big finale of a screw over pretty much. He's not exactly as forward as myself am, im trying to figure out how to watch for signs or signals if he's interested, i wanna play it cool.

2007-03-14 19:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by pinkblondie0314 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 19:46:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 19:45:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2007-03-14 19:45:42 · 7 answers · asked by I LOVE BEING A NORTHERN YANK! 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have different styles arguing: He tends to shut down and leave and I tend to want to duke things out, kiss, and make-up on the spot. When he leaves, I take it personally, like he's walking out on me and not simply an overwhelming situation.

Driving him crazy drives me crazy and I don't know how to stop. It's been a tough year and a half for my body, and he's been around for a year. I've been at odds with my immune system and bad eczema. I've been to the doctor more this year than the past...I don't know...5+ years of my life.

This has had a tremendous negative effect on my self-image. And my boyfriend tries to assure me I'm beautiful, but sometimes I still feel awful, which makes him feel bad/useless, which makes me feel worse...it's a cycle. Usually after a good night's sleep and some cool-down we're fine, but I'm so insecure nowadays I'm afraid I'm slowly making him hate me. How can I improve my self-image and not make him always feel like his words are wasted?

2007-03-14 19:44:23 · 6 answers · asked by auroratitania 2 in Singles & Dating

ME AND MY CUZIN WILL BE GOING TO THE SAME HIGH SCHOOL NEST YEAR WE ARE BOTH BLACK AND PREETY YOUNG,15 AND HAVE BANGIN BODIES I MITE ADD. WHAT COULD BE A GROUP NAME FOR US MAYBE 3 4 5 WORDZ PLEASE HELP ME OUT.

2007-03-14 19:43:56 · 2 answers · asked by B3B3 1 in Family

2007-03-14 19:43:40 · 8 answers · asked by dng p 1 in Friends

make him come over to you everytime instead of
being an eager little puppy.

Tonight, he was on his cell phone in front of the store. I was getting into my truck. He threw up his arm to wave. I waved back, but just got in the truck! Then he turned left and walked in front of the store...away from me.


Did I do right? I don't interrupt ppl on the phone, but I also don't like to be the only one who makes the effort.

He acts like he likes me, but he doesn't make enough effort that way in my opinion!

2007-03-14 19:43:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 19:40:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I feel like a stranger eventhough I'm surrounded by many friends and close relatives. I never find myself between them. And by that I mean, I kinda lost in the middle of their crowds. My mind was never there and sometimes they can feel it too.
When I was with them, I never take this seriously. But after I graduates from my high school, I lost my will to hang out with them anymore. My friends are good people and nice friends. But I can't help this feeling to keep on wondering "will I ever find the place that I will no longer feel so lonely and strange?".
So I ask you people to share your thought about this. Have you ever feel this way, or is it just me?

2007-03-14 19:39:03 · 5 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Friends

So I'm 15 and on my schools Formal Dance my girlfriend said she was tired and wanted to go home, so she went home and a went to one of my friends parties. My friend lives on my street but goes to a private school, so I don't know her friends. Anyways, at the party, me and one of her friends hit it off and decided to go back to my house cause my parents leave the last weekend of everyone month for two days.

So all alone at my house, we ended up having sex. It was random and i wasn't expecting it, but we both wanted to so we did. Wow, she just completely blows my gf out of the water. It was so good that I hardly even want to have sex with my gf anymore. Now I'm torn between my relationship, and having sex with the new girl, who comes over to my neighbor's house a lot and wants to hang out with me. help!

Well as far as being in a relationship goes, I really have no interest in the new girl. It's completely sexual. As for my gf, i want to stay with her and SHE DOESNT KNOW I CHEATED

2007-03-14 19:38:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated a girl for a year who I honestly thought was my "one". We were very close friends for a long while before we started dating, and were both very comfortable with each other during the relationship. After a year, she decided she felt I wasn't the "one" for her. Totally wrecked me.

About four months after this, as I'm still bumming, but coming out the other side of those feelings, my best friend asks me if I mind if he and the ex (Who I maintained a friendship with) go out. I love him, and I love the girl, but what an absolutely hellish situation to be put in!

I personally feel that he should have known better than to even ask, he should have presumed from the start that she was off limits. Barring that, she should have known better (remember, we stayed good friends) than to let this become a possibility. I gave him my blessing, but I've never totally gotten over his audacity in that moment. I feel I should have told him to jump off a cliff.

What would you have done?

2007-03-14 19:36:47 · 15 answers · asked by Robert 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay my "best friend"(not anymore) has been acting different lately. Weve been friends for 7 yrs and now hes starting to talk behind my back and turing people against me. Like lemmings sorta he makes them follow him of the cliff and into the rocks witch = betray me understand the metaphore(i think its called a metaphore) how can i stop this he turned a few of my good friends and now they start acting like him to me and stuff

2007-03-14 19:36:37 · 8 answers · asked by rockinrocco33 2 in Friends

2007-03-14 19:36:13 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Such as honestly, thrusty and avoid quirrel

2007-03-14 19:36:06 · 10 answers · asked by Jenni L 1 in Marriage & Divorce