Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

Ok I've come to the end of an emotional rollercoaster that started 3 months ago. We were highschool sweethearts and together for 15 years with 2 small kids. She left me 3 months ago. My last question is this- When I would ask her on the phone what I did wrong or bring up all the memorys of us and our kids together she would say this-"Don't you see that you are pushing me farther away" For some reason I'm not fully understanding what she is saying,you would think that going down memory lane might make her realize what she is doing and leave her new lover. What does she mean when she said that??? And thank you everybody over the last 3 months I have learned soooo much about love and relationships that if I could go back I bet that I would be holding my love right now. good night and again thank you..

2007-03-14 19:19:03 · 11 answers · asked by jack d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've heard that sometimes people (straight) get drunk and they kind of accidentally make out with the same sex, (or maybe they're just experimenting). But anyways, just wondering if it has happened to anyone in here whether it's a girl or guy.

PLEASE- do not give me discriminate or accusing answers.

2007-03-14 19:18:56 · 8 answers · asked by masterpoopthrower 2 in Singles & Dating

The topic is: "How important is Virginity to you?"



The question is put forth to girls and boys both, and you can ask various interlinking quetsions like:



" Why do you think there is so much hype around virginity?



"Does it hurt a man's ego to know that the girl he is marrying is not a virgin?"

"In foreign countries, and these days even here at India, virginity is termed as abnormal after a certain age. Do you confirm to this notion?"



"Would you go for replacement surgery if you have doubts about the reaction of your partner?"



* Please insist on honesty. We don't want politically correct answers. Forum is basically about airing views regarding various issues and it must be what the person really thinks, not what he/she should say. It is up to you guys how you extract the truthful and straight from heart answers.

2007-03-14 19:18:05 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known her for a year thru college
had bf for 3 years

2007-03-14 19:18:04 · 6 answers · asked by Litigous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

KKK, I have liked this goy 4 a long time now, a couple months. I am too nervous 2 talk to him and theres another problem. I think he may think I have a boyfriend. I don't, my friend's boyfriend is like my older brother and so I talk 2 him a lot, but he has seen me with him and I don't wnat him 2 think that I have a boyfriend, how do I send the message?

2007-03-14 19:18:00 · 7 answers · asked by ♥•♥Melody♥•♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. IOn the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.

2007-03-14 19:17:42 · 11 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 19:16:28 · 11 answers · asked by robert 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with my ex for about 2 1/2 years. We where even engaged. We got engaged in 2005 and the wedding was not to be until Sept 2008. We came from 2 very differnet backgrounds but this to us did not matter. His mom and dad did not like me because of this. They would say mean stuff about me all the time and I knew he would not always stick up for me. When I was with him I always felt like I was last.

Him and I broke up last Aug. I thought it best that him and I dont talk anymore because of the fact of trying to move on. All we would do after we broke up was make each other feel bad and we would do this too the last few months we where together.

I'm finding it so hard to move on from him. I feel like things are never really going to get better. Its been months now.

Can someone please give me some advice. One thing that bugs me is, that I will never meet someone and feel that away about anyone else other then my ex.

Advice would be good.

2007-03-14 19:16:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://www.avolites.org.uk/jokes/highschool.htm


how did their faces changed so much??

2007-03-14 19:14:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how come some guys will say a girl has nice lips for giving head....doesnt a girl just suck and her lips stick out its not like the outside of her lips touch (maybe a little) but its mostly using the inside of her mouth. can anyone explain that

2007-03-14 19:14:52 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Singles & Dating

Drinking>? 17
Sex>? 16
Drivers license>? 16
Marrage>? 17
Tobbaco>? 17

I live in australia and im pretty sure thats our ages...whats yours?

Fellow aussies correct me if im wrong

2007-03-14 19:14:18 · 12 answers · asked by Blitzkrieg 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked a guy this question and he didn't respond, then I asked him again and he said he was over 6 feet tall. I emailed him once more and he never got back to me.

Do you think he was offended?

2007-03-14 19:14:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems that girls dont want to date a nice guy or a sensitive guy. They claim to though. "Why are all the good ones gay ?"
When they have a "nice" guy right in front of them they will turn him down. "I dont want to hurt you." Yes, but you will. Its the attitude of a "bad boy" that has them hooked. "My last boyfriend was such a jerk! But my new boyfriend is just like him, isin't it great !"
I believe that girls think they cant do any better then they guy who treats them badly. And when a guy comes along who has charm and grace and is sensitive and caring, he scares them off becasue they feel they dont deserve to be with him. So they both lose out.
Please can someone tell me if I am wrong or right ? I would prefer to be wrong. I am a nice guy.

2007-03-14 19:13:54 · 12 answers · asked by broc_lyrain 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this girl in my class and I want to talk to her but I don't want to come on too strong by using some cheesy pick-up line, but I want to say more than just "hello" or "hey I think you're hot". So what's a good way to start a conversation with somebody who doesn't even know you??

2007-03-14 19:13:51 · 4 answers · asked by sammy22 1 in Singles & Dating

My Mom and Dad seperated when I was 10 (now 28) and since then I've had a long distance relationship with him. I love him with all my heart and still look up to him. I only get to see him maybe once a year and his girlfriend is usually there during our visit. The girlfriend and I dont get along very well, due to the fact that I cant even have a beer with him and just enjoy some time together. She always comes up with some reason to take him away from our time together, like she doesnt feel good or something stupid like that. These kinds of things are bringing my dad and I apart. How do I tell my Dad that this really hurting and affecting me in an awful way?

2007-03-14 19:13:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

See her exhusband always hits on her, I know this from her own statements, and because I've also spyed on her emails and cell phone texts.
No worry, I trust her.
But recently, they have decided to still do last years tax return together, as theywere married legally 6 months of the year, and he has offered her to keep the whole thing (this is at least 1,600 maybe more) for "one more time" but I think I can trust her, and if I tell her 'm worried, she'll know I have been looking at her texts...but that's a lot of money.
And when she said no to sex, he said what about oral, and she said 1,500 for that?
I don't know if she meant, no way mister, or like, for that, no problem...I trust her, I've been with her 4 months, and she seems trustworthy.
Early on, she was still a little flirty with some guys online, but that had been going on before I met her, and she abruptly stopped that, and hadn't been an "online person" before this
It's how we mat...what should I do?

2007-03-14 19:11:53 · 8 answers · asked by steve v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my bf have a year together n hes very demandin.. he always tells me oo where u at who uwit??etc. but when iask him he b like oo dont worry y u tryna b a detective nstuff..today we had a big argument but i feel as if i cant b witout him..he told me ill call u whenever i feel like talkin...i dont kno wat to do..i tried talkin to him n he starts sayin oo i dont wanna talk about it...wat shud i do?

2007-03-14 19:11:44 · 4 answers · asked by Stranger07 2 in Singles & Dating

Would he just ask you out if he was interested, or would asking him break the ice? Does it usually scare them away? What do guys think of girls that ask guys out? What if it was an unofficial date? A group activity? What if you asked guys and girls? And feel free to tell me anything else you think I need to know. (on this subject and if it's appropriate, of course) Thanks!

2007-03-14 19:10:58 · 31 answers · asked by Jessthemess 4 in Singles & Dating

says she has like him for longer, and so she isnt sure what she would do.... I also believe the other guy is my best friend... bad i know.. so should i ask her out or not? however Ive freely told her that I like her alot, and she told me the same, it wasnt until tonight that i realized how much she likes me and now i want her even more! but i dont want to ask her out and have her say "no" because she thinks she will "miss out" on things she could have done with the other person. He does not know that she likes him and i dont believe that he likes her, but you never know maybe hes a good friend and doesnt want to tell me and make me sad!?
really confused!!!

2007-03-14 19:10:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My baby father calls me stupid ***** and dumb and treats me like a piece of **** since i have had a baby by him. I can no longer take this anymore. Alot of times in the past we have broken up and gotten back together but I just think I am worth alot more. I know now since I have a baby no man really will be interested in me but I am trying to get it together education wise because I have a son to take care of. How can break lose from him I've been with him for 2 years. How can I move on. And can I stop feeling like I need to go back. Help. It's becoming abusive.

2007-03-14 19:10:09 · 2 answers · asked by LILY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this girl who likes me, we both are 17. She has started flirting with me in the past few weeks almost everyday. However i have found out from her that she has a boyfriend who she has been going out with for 15 months, however she has told me that I am the most attractive guy she knows, how should i interprate this? does this mean she wants to go out with me and dump her other bf or what? or does she want me to make out with her or something? I also like her, but not too seriously. I'm pretty new to these types of things, not having ever had a gf before. its so confusing.

Please give me advice

2007-03-14 19:07:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 19:06:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, wait wait

Read what am going to say and then reply..
I like this one guy who comes frequently to fix stuff in my house. He is 28 years old, and am 21. He is very polite; he doesn’t even look at my eyes when he talks to me and so HOT. I’ve never seen a guy with beautiful eyes like him. OMG !!

I recently started to get his attention with expensive gifts and ask him for dinner, and he looks like neutral. I mean I don’t know what’s going on ??????

Does guys hate it when a girl act like that? Is being poor limit the gap between two couples?

I need help I like him to DEATH, and want him to love me even though he have a tons of girls, even if he was player. sounds stupid but I just can’t imagine my life without him.

What should I do? I can’t sleep and my appetite is Zero.

I need a solution

2007-03-14 19:05:00 · 6 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is your situaition
you have been friends with this person for a few months
they like you and you like them and they are going to ask you out
but you know their history with drugs, law an stuff like that. and you yourself is someone who doesn't an would never do any of that stuff but you really like them..
What would you do?

2007-03-14 19:04:54 · 19 answers · asked by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 in Singles & Dating

how old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity? and when did you lose yours? i was 15 nearly 16 and i didnt feel it was too soon just with the wrong guy.

2007-03-14 19:04:21 · 45 answers · asked by Blitzkrieg 4 in Singles & Dating

it could be anything.

2007-03-14 19:03:04 · 8 answers · asked by sunshine 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive heard this from a couple guys, also on yahoo answers they act like a woman is only interested in money and it makes me mad cause i think the real reason is the woman dosent like the man as a person yet the man blames it all on 'money'. The ones who say it i notice dont even have that much money and have a hard time with women in general. Women like a man to have money but it dosent matter if she really loves him. Why do men blame it all on women wanting money? Why do they think women want them for their money?

2007-03-14 19:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by Hunter 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm drunk too but not that drunk, she threw up everywhere, tried to stand up and then hit her head on a ledge when she fell back down. She's breathing okay, I try to wake her up and take her to the bathroom but she can't move. Should I just let her stay on the floor or try to move her? I'm trying to wake her up but she just mumbles. Is alcohol poisoning really serious?

2007-03-14 19:01:05 · 30 answers · asked by jamie kat 6 in Singles & Dating

some people want to go out with desi who r light skin if someone is dark they dont look at the person so i think indians and pakistani r shallow...what r u shallow about come on admit it plz it'll be fun

2007-03-14 18:59:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love this guy he isnt at all like me but thats why opposites attrack rite? Well we went out and i was comepletely and utterly in love with him but then my family thought that he wasnt good for me so they started saying all this crap and stuff which got me sooo confused and i exploded and me and him got into a big argument and he broke up with me because i said some stuff i didnt mean . Well as you see my family HATES him no rewinds or getting use to they HATE him and dont think that he's good for me in their terms he isnt very classic
well but i think i love him but i heard from his cousin that he is going out with someone else and he lives 4 hours away and i havent made contact with him in i think bout 2 months well i still love him i dont think he feels the same way bout me though. i dont know if i should tell him or just stay friends but the thing is is that i loved him more than he loved me and i dont know what i sould do if i should tell him or not
details would be nice plze!

2007-03-14 18:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating