What should I say to her?

Question

there's this girl in my class and I want to talk to her but I don't want to come on too strong by using some cheesy pick-up line, but I want to say more than just "hello" or "hey I think you're hot". So what's a good way to start a conversation with somebody who doesn't even know you??

Answer 1

just laugh at one of their jokes or when they say something funny and then try to make them laugh. it always works better with laughter.

Answer 2

trying to find exactly what she is interested in, studying it, and just striking up a conversation with her about it is much easier said than done.

i would say whenever she makes a joke, laugh, and make a counter-joke or make a remark about it.
compliment her.
whenever she drops something, say "nice job" or "smooth" in a teasing way, but with a smile so she knows that you're just joking around.

be funny, make her smile, make her laugh.

i would say start first with small, quick remarks.
"hey, that was a nice speech you just presented in front of the class."

or questions, but questions about school and the class not about her life.
do NOT go "hey do you have a bf?"
go "hey, do you know how to solve this problem?"
or "man, this is so confusing, do you get any of this?"
and if you get lucky, she may know the answer, help you with it, and explain some things.

once you establish a conversation, or even a small "hey, how's it going?" you become a friend or an acquaintance, not just another stranger student in her class.

good luck

Answer 3

Find out something that you might have in common with her and strike up a conversation with that, something that you know will interest her. Or if you have a class with her, slip her a note - I had that happen from a guy in my english class - I thought it was cute, we are still together - a year now. Just remember be yourself. Good Luck!

Answer 4

start out by saying hello and go from there