Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

Here's just what i think from my collective 18 years in America and 3 years in Japan. If I, a white guy, date an asian girl --no matter how good looking or intelligent she may be-- the general public who sees us together automatically assumes that I am socially sub-par and that I settled on an asian girl because it's easier to begin dating one than dating a white girl. What's up with that? Plus, you'll never hear the end of the "me love you long time" jokes. I really don't want to be "that guy," the guy who has a "thing" for asians, but living in Japan, its very frustrating knowing that such a stereotype exists in the first place. I hate the people who had to create it and ruin things for the rest of us. Personally I just like hot girls, I don't care what race they are, but... when in Rome, right? What are your thoughts? Agree? disagree? Is it just my imagination? Like to add anything I may have left out?

2007-03-14 20:25:36 · 3 answers · asked by mwells0629 1 in Singles & Dating

how long does it take?

2007-03-14 20:25:29 · 10 answers · asked by jiuderod 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 20:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by alxlosangel 2 in Friends

2007-03-14 20:24:41 · 6 answers · asked by Friendly 2 in Friends

then she got married has a girl

2007-03-14 20:24:34 · 4 answers · asked by ashok s 1 in Friends

Why do guys try to finger?
I was just wondering why do guys like to finger girls?
and also, does it hurt afterwards?
My boyfriend has tried it but I usually stop him
but he's persistant and he keeps trying so I'm just curious...
Thanks ashley-

2007-03-14 20:24:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 20:23:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If the woman is older than the man how much does it effect the relation, & is there any chance for this relation to succeed? & what may the community offere toward this kind of relations?.
If you agree or disagree i appreciate to hear ur reasons!
Thank you

2007-03-14 20:22:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and this girl were talking for a while but then we stopped. now im trying to talk back to her and she told me she only likes me as a frieend now. i still want her thou but i dont think she wants me should i just stop talking to her bcuz i cant do the friends thing i will just continue wanting her and i dont want that to happen

2007-03-14 20:22:15 · 3 answers · asked by getonmylevel 2 in Singles & Dating

my mom is the one.i failed my exam recently but my mom always keeping me happy.always said even u fdidnt achieved much but there is the chance overhad.my momsacrifice her food over me and my love to momcant be describe to the words.mom i love u but cant say it to my mo.i just treat her nicely.im too man to express my love to my mom

2007-03-14 20:19:50 · 9 answers · asked by Trex Boys 3 in Family

OK well this is responding to all the people that responded to my last post. p.s. thanks for everyones input. ..... ok to start out, its not that im not meetin girls in real life, i just dont know how to meet girls unless its through another girl you know. 2. its definitly not what im saying cause when i talk to them in person everything seems good im relaxed and keeping it light. 3. i tried not paying attention and that got me nowhere. 4. im really only calling or texting maybe once on weekdays if that? i may call once or twice on a weekend night if i didnt get an answer the first call or whatever. im not coming on strong but that may be my problem. i dont know if im trying hard enough on the weekends or if im just kinda getting wasted and not really trippin about these girls, when i should be caring A LITTLE....

2007-03-14 20:18:18 · 6 answers · asked by ben M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 20:18:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im talking about looks

2007-03-14 20:15:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she was with me in sarvodhya her parents then shifted to deradun

2007-03-14 20:15:34 · 3 answers · asked by ashok s 1 in Friends

my ex cheated on me.he thinks that i dont know tht he was cheating on me.he still calls me up.i tell him tht listen u are engaged. then why u calling me.he says no i dont have a girl and i am not getting married.he is still lying.even after his engagement.he is getting married in nov.but he says how can i get married when i dont have a girl.i hve read his mail with my own eyes where he wrote to his freind tht i am getting married.but he still calls me up and lies.wht should i do.i want to know the truth from his mouth.do u think these kind of people change after marriage.will he be true to his wife

2007-03-14 20:15:08 · 12 answers · asked by littlemermaid_2001 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 20:13:09 · 4 answers · asked by Gaurav T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 20:11:16 · 6 answers · asked by Yasmin001 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 20:10:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im also short on cash so i just wanna kknow how guys wanna be shown love and respect when sex and stuff in out of the question???

2007-03-14 20:10:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a crush on him for a year, now. He is a very friendly and outgoing type of guy. He is much older than I am 13 years older. I am around my 20s and he is around his 40s. He seems to flirt with everybody. He always makes compliments to everybody. He's just a outgoing person. But here is the catch, he has a gf for about, "I think two years." He has been flirting with me a lot, and sometimes seems to stop, and go on. And questions how I am doing, and if anything is going to happen over the weekend. Now for the last two months he has been teasing me and joking with me. This I have not seen done to other coworkers at the site, only with me, I think. I really like him a lot, and I know he is forbidden, and should forget about him. I am trying to do my best, and can't seem too. I am too a people person, but just can't figure out this friendly and great man. Is he just friendly, I have never met a guy this friendly and outgoing. I am confused? Advice is needed!

2007-03-14 20:09:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he likes me too...but has never asked me out...maybe he thinks i'll complain to his mother(my teacher),i don't know what to do as i see him only during my tuitons.

2007-03-14 20:09:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 29 and dont know if I think marriage is a good idea. I see too many people unhappy being married... most people. A lot people I know end up getting divorced. Having kids with someone scares me because I dont want to ever be a every other weekend dad like many divorced men. Also the court system is usually biased towards the mother in regards to children. Also I am starting to collect assets. I dont want to give half of my stuff away to someone later and dont know any girl wanting to do a prenup. Also, I dont like the idea that I have to ask someone if I can do something. If I want to buy something.. I want to buy it. If I want to go somewhere, I want to go! I dont like giving up the control. I'm thinking about staying single and adopting. What do you all have to say about this?

2007-03-14 20:09:23 · 8 answers · asked by CounselorDan 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Be honest. I just want to get the general consensus in what's going on in relationships nowadays. Thanks.

2007-03-14 20:06:43 · 22 answers · asked by Queen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are renewing our wedding vows in sept. of this year and we want to do something different then the everyday church wedding. We are have the cermony in a church and we have 4 bridemaids and 4 groommens. We are both still young and want to have fun. We will be married for 9yrs., and want to reclaim our love for each other. He also wants to walk down the aisle by himself (to show off)! Please offer any ideals that you may have that will make my wedding special, different, and fun! Thank you!

2007-03-14 20:04:52 · 5 answers · asked by spoiledby2many 1 in Weddings

2007-03-14 20:04:41 · 19 answers · asked by nikaramirez30 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-03-14 20:03:58 · 4 answers · asked by I LOVE BEING A NORTHERN YANK! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 20:01:11 · 1 answers · asked by LaPalma 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend has chaeted before but sometime he is late from school because he say he has group work. he still is nice but i dont know if he is!

2007-03-14 20:00:41 · 13 answers · asked by dimps 1 in Singles & Dating

im skinny like her

2007-03-14 20:00:08 · 5 answers · asked by riley s 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this one guy at school and he has a girlfriend. In my world he is considered out of my league but everytime i look at him he is looking back at me. I really want him but he has a girlfriend and other girls like him too. I dont know If he knows i like him or if he might like me??? He flirts a lot with other girls but i have never really talked to him. he is just so sexy and i dont know how to make him notice me.

2007-03-14 19:59:39 · 7 answers · asked by liarliar_91 1 in Singles & Dating