OK well this is responding to all the people that responded to my last post. p.s. thanks for everyones input. ..... ok to start out, its not that im not meetin girls in real life, i just dont know how to meet girls unless its through another girl you know. 2. its definitly not what im saying cause when i talk to them in person everything seems good im relaxed and keeping it light. 3. i tried not paying attention and that got me nowhere. 4. im really only calling or texting maybe once on weekdays if that? i may call once or twice on a weekend night if i didnt get an answer the first call or whatever. im not coming on strong but that may be my problem. i dont know if im trying hard enough on the weekends or if im just kinda getting wasted and not really trippin about these girls, when i should be caring A LITTLE....
2007-03-14 20:18:18 · 6 answers · asked by ben M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have an idea for you...go out on a date...with a female friend of yours...(only a friend...) and tell this person, "let's pretend you and I are on a real date....I will go thru all of what and how I would treat you, if you were with me...and at the end of say the week...tell me things that you did like or didn't like about our dates."or something to that effect....you could even make it a three day dating "week" with this person..and have the person critique you, either during the dating or after....then you could see what you might need to know more about! From her point of view!
2007-03-14 20:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read your whole question, but I will say that the only way to meet people in general is to have a friend. Two people are a crowd, and so a crowd more easily gets accepted into a bigger crowd.
If you watch "The Tonight Show" at all, I know that they had one segment where this supposed "mac" was helping a guy get girls, as it were, but he freakin' dressed him up in a suit and had him stand in public and ask random girls for their phone number. Of course someone would fail that! I mean, there's a practical setting for it, and impractical settings for it.
I guess the clubs and bars are meant for meeting people.
2007-03-14 20:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well see to anita, i wouldnt act any different on a date with a good girl friend compared to a girl im tryin to hook up with. i guess i dont really go on dates but im me. i dont act different i mean if sh** were to get more in depth and serious then id act different but i clown around keep most everything light cause thats how i always am. should i not be?
2007-03-14 20:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This my good buddy is what I call becoming toooo much of a friend.....First lettem know your interested then be a friend. if you come off as a friend first then thats all your gonna be buddy thats all your gonna be.......a friend
2007-03-14 20:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Knalu M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls sometime just wanna play hard to get..
believe they are watching u...
get them man!!!!!!
good luck.
= )
2007-03-14 20:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by hate the sand ~ love the castle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you question part one and part two.
you can do what you can.
good luck
2007-03-14 20:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by gadgetki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋