Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

if you fell in love with somebody then after a couple years realised that you werent having fun any more and actually enjoyed other peoples company more, would you try and make it work or cut your losses

2007-03-14 21:11:36 · 11 answers · asked by maraesa1000 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy colleague which same company with me. At first, i don't use to be so close with him. I ever know he have gf for 5 yr & plan to marry before maybe as time past we started to chat to one another so as getting more close than last time.

Around middle of the dec 2006 his gf went back to china for holiday only left him alone that y he's free to fetch me home n work because we staying near to one another.

We find we fell in love with each other ever have sex n been together n use to be quite happy until his gf come back thing change.

He decide to tell his gf about all this thing n the girl cry. When he tell me his gf cry n say she don't know how to life without him so i decide to ask the guy to go back to his gf.

Although, he go back to his gf we stil together now he just keep the secret from his gf. He say he love me more than his gf because of his gf cry until so badly he really not dare to leave him ever don't know what to do.

Can u tell me what should i do??

2007-03-14 21:08:43 · 4 answers · asked by JoaN 1 in Singles & Dating

of course i am very confused and sad. he said that i am a boring kind of person. but i love him very much and i treat him very good since we were together. and now suddenly he just wanna broke up with me. I could not really get over it and it is really hard for me. any suggestions to make me feel better? Plz~~~

2007-03-14 21:07:13 · 16 answers · asked by nihsedaj 1 in Singles & Dating

I keep it real for the most part, I wouldnt like to do this but is it an ok thing to do? They say you should protect your identity on the net, what should you do?

2007-03-14 21:06:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 21:06:25 · 9 answers · asked by dpp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband ( former garderner) x wife
and please excuse my english because i hate shakespeare
i never liked him at school, i always used to fail at Macbeth and plus he is ugly and unreasonable, i mean if i had a time machine, my first mission will be to asassinate him
like cut him into pieces, and maybe have him for lunch
hmm i want to eat now, i am hungry anyways my husband says "hiiiii" hmmmm byeeee plz answer me question

2007-03-14 21:06:08 · 10 answers · asked by Princess Penguin 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 21:04:23 · 19 answers · asked by djkboogie04 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there something that reminds you of a great time in your childhood? Example. I am 14 but through my whole life, the glamour of it was going to Argentina to visit my mom's family (which includes my cousins, which were sooo special to me.) My twin sister has the same feelings and the memories of the Argentinian family are triggered by smells such as newly cut grass, mate, or other smells that come out of nowhere but remind so well of our time(s) in Argentina with the family.

Anyone here have such a memory? If so, write down what things trigger the memory of it and exactly of what it reminds you of...

Thanks,
Chau!

2007-03-14 21:04:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Like any girl i have insecurities. But mine are depressing. Sometimes I wake up and think i look beautiful, but then someone will make a comment and It brings me down. To be honest with you, Im not that beautiful. I really try and maybe to hard but my appearance is important to me and i think that guys dont go up to me because imnot pretty. I know its stupid but I need self esteem help. Where can i get it.

2007-03-14 21:03:19 · 10 answers · asked by liarliar_91 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi first off all I want to say hello to everyone’s who can answer my hurts feeling for someone I love. Here my story long long time ago me and my bf so sweet. He buys anything I want as long as he can. But my problem now one week from now I call him many times I send million message he never answer me but last time we meet we are not fighting no argument. And also last time we talk we say each other I like you a lots baby. And talk to you tomorrow. Please help to find out why my bf is gone I never knows what mistake I did? We stay in some country but its hard to find why he really upset with me? Is there a change he talks to me again? Do you think he just want to relax after that he come back again and talk to me? Is right to wait for him until he come back? I really want to know from him why he don’t like talk to me anymore. And if he don’t like me anymore I Want he send me message and say don’t disturb me but he never send message to me what should I do? Please help please help!!!!
I know my letter is hard to understand but please help me help please

2007-03-14 21:03:16 · 11 answers · asked by carla 1 in Singles & Dating

can anyone please tell me what the real meaning of love is.... im so confused and i dont know what to do.. when i tell a guy that i love him in some cases he'l think i'm crazy or with others they'l take it too seriously or just won't undastand..... ive been emontionally abused a few times and i wanna know what real love is..... HELP?

2007-03-14 21:02:52 · 4 answers · asked by assy baby 1 in Singles & Dating

of brother & sister are loosing their values no body want to be
a brother of a girl but want to be a boyfriend.give views

2007-03-14 21:01:07 · 7 answers · asked by sanjay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

of brother & sister are loosing their values no body want to be
a brother of a girl but want to be a boyfriend.give views

2007-03-14 21:00:37 · 5 answers · asked by sanjay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean i am a lady dating a man that is seven years younger than me and he is insinuating on marriage and i truly love him. What do you have to say about this.

2007-03-14 21:00:12 · 12 answers · asked by OmyEmy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 20:59:52 · 13 answers · asked by darren p 2 in Singles & Dating

I pamper him like a baby, treat him like a king.... I run around in circles to please him, cook for him, I make it a point that he looks neat, clean, well groomed; all the time. I understand him like not even his mother would... I found out he's cheating too many times and forgave him. Isn't that enough? He swears and promises he wouldn't do it again, but agin it happened. I know him more than he knows himself... that's why it's really difficult for me to just turn my back and walk away coz i know he needs me. but... what about me? We have been on for 4 years and a few months... I guess I am afraid to let go... I guess I feel humiliated and embarrased of myself that I did not succeed this relationship... what do you think? what do you think I should do? Maybe it will help you answer this question if I tell you things about myself: I am a very sweet natured person. I don't nag, I don't even know how to yell or scream or shout.I am past 40 and he's 7 yrs younger. should i give up? HELP!!

2007-03-14 20:58:06 · 21 answers · asked by gemovaperson 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

waiting until you turn 21 to make your BIG MOVES?
This guy had been dropping a ton of hints since Feburary. More flirting, more hugging, wanting to see me on our days off.
Mentioned "if I was in your bed..."
Give three hugs in one conversation.


Older woman is 41, but she looks and acts 22.

2007-03-14 20:58:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 20:58:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

According to my husband, my brother in law hates me. He hates me because I left my husband a while back, took the kids and packed my things and walked out the door. I warned my husband that I was not going to be spoken to the way he has and I would leave him if he continued. So I did. I put an order of protection against him because he threatened to hit me and I wasn't going to deal with it. I didn't know that the order would put my husband out of the house and allow me to come back to it. His brother hates me because of it. He only knows his brothers side of it so in a way he has reason to. Should I write him to let him see my side to let him judge for himself on who to believe, or let it go? Its hard to let it go and have him around when he comes and sees the kids or at family functions. Hes nice to me yet I was told by others its just an act of kindness. I can't live with the fact of someone hating me and faking niceness to be near my kids. My husband and I are back together and...

2007-03-14 20:57:33 · 6 answers · asked by Koozie 5 in Family

I,ve Been Going out with this girl for almost three years now. she is also my age. despite several problems between us we managed to keep up with our friendship. last month about a week after my b'day ( we did not meet during that period) she wished me and asked me what she could get for me......

I simply replied nothing but friendship whould be great and i would love a kiss from her too....

all she did was to make a tight smile and say "that'll never happen" say what should I do?

2007-03-14 20:57:21 · 5 answers · asked by techiplaner 2 in Friends

2007-03-14 20:57:00 · 31 answers · asked by Joe Guy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 20:56:25 · 1 answers · asked by Shashiz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 20:52:46 · 9 answers · asked by Ipoh_boy 2 in Singles & Dating

Previously I was married for 18 yrs, then my husband molested our oldest daughter. For 9 yrs I remained single. I finally met a gentleman that seemed so honest, simple, and down to earth,. We married a yr after we met. But now , I am so very unhappy. He came across as someone different than he portrayed himself. Now I sleep on the couch, and he in my bedroom that I found solice in for many years. He claims to want to work things out, but he never initiates anything. We have talked and it's not that he isn't aware of my needs, he just doesn't do anything about them. We aren't kids, I am 54 and he will be 56. I find a pattern in his past , though he denies that they are similar to the present, but he has always been the dumped, not the dumpee. He's fantastic at fixing things around the house, but as a husband, he sucks. I feel so "trapped" as I do believe the only reason to divorce is adultry, and I',m not willing to sacrifice my soul. How do I live with this?

2007-03-14 20:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by iamjaycee 2 in Singles & Dating

differently meaning like she trys NOT to talk to me with the same humor and relationship we had before i told her a secret i had held from her in 3 months. that secret was i feel in love with the wrong woman 9 months ago which was my brother seperated wife. it was a huge mistake. its been 3 months since i meet my friend which i can get to be my girlfriend and its been 4 monthes since i left my brothers wife help me please i love my friend i try to be honest to her by telling her this so i can open up our relationship more by not keeping secrets should i have keep this a secret or was i right to tell her my dark past?

2007-03-14 20:50:25 · 4 answers · asked by red_gemini_85 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 20:49:11 · 36 answers · asked by -?- 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can never find some1 that can give to me what i give to them. Is it that hard to find that? I dont get it, im not a Dik...or perverted....im not ugly and yet i cant get what i want. Any suggestions? Other then..."just wait it will happen she will come" lol. This sux man i just lost the first girl i ever truely loved

2007-03-14 20:47:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a whole lot more guy friends than girl friends, but like when i ask them out or when someone thats not my friend that is cute does, my guy friends come over and are like, 'hey dude, you hurt my little sis and we're gonna hurt you more than how you hurt her.' and it scares the guys off... i want one of my guy friends to like me but he thinks i'm a little sister... what do i do!? i've tried before but its not working anymore...

2007-03-14 20:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by SmilE 3 in Singles & Dating

is it the view or the smell

2007-03-14 20:43:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am i crazy? Because I just know. I dont know why but I just know first minute I saw them. Hit me like a ton of bricks. You can tell when you look into their eyes. Ive never been wrong about love before, usually- maybe one or two times ive been off before but ive never felt so intensely for a person. Im not attracted to a lot of people either and to really get my heart something needs to be there. Im willing to do anything for the one I love and go to great lengths to make things work. But is this unreasonable? Long distance relationship.. Yet I have this deep feeling inside , deep longing to be next to this person. I dont know why, its not just lust , is it infatuation? Love? craziness to think this or want to pursue it?

2007-03-14 20:43:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating