Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

my bf broke up with me 3 weeks ago (was together for 1.5 years) coz he said that he has lost the love feelings and that he has no motivation to go on.

he has never been with a girl for so long. he has some relationships before, but i was the first girl whom he wanted to spend the rest of his life with. he was very happy with me, he even has the greatest sex with me, i was perfect for him, he said.

few days before he broke up with me, he was confused, but he said that he's gonna regret so much if he breaks up, coz he knows that he can't find any girls who is so nice and who loves him so much.

but he still broke up with me finally. what are guys thinking? so he can just break this relationship up even he knew that we were a perfect couple? how can a guy get over these happy moments and me if i'm so perfect for him? will he miss me and regret??????????

2007-03-14 21:35:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 21:35:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well I'd just got back to school after being gone for a bit and I've been thinking of doing homeschooling but I don't think anyone though I would. I had came back and I asked people if they'd miss me if I did homeschooling, more people than I ever though said they would. But I was always feeling like all my friendships were not real, like everyone could care less if I was there or not. I also have had lots of troble with teachers as well as keeping up with school work, so with homeschooling I could move at my own speed, as well as not have the stress the teachers put on me. So I when with homeschooling with out really telling anyone. But now I'm having secont thoughs, my mom said I can't go back till next year, I though I knew what I wanted but now I think I made the wrong decision. Please help me, I need to know was what I did wrong? Or do you think I did what was best for myself?

2007-03-14 21:34:38 · 2 answers · asked by kitty41188123 2 in Friends

we'v bin datin 4 a mth now he's 2 yrs older dan me n v din even noe eachother bout 2 mthz ago ....im still not sure whether he lyks me or not ....guys plz help me out

2007-03-14 21:33:43 · 9 answers · asked by ~~*NiTuM*~~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 21:33:40 · 2 answers · asked by dana j 1 in Family

It is said that if a man says "I'm not ready to be in a relationship" it really means "I'm not interested in a relationship with you, but I'm letting you down easy."

I know a couple in their early 20s who have been together for over 3 years. She thinks he is the one, and he says she's "marriage material." However, he tells her that he's "not ready to get married yet or for a long time" whenever it comes up. She suspects that he's only staying in thier relationship because it is comfortable and convenient for him at this point in his life.

Guys - Does the same principle apply to marriage? If a guy says, "I'm not ready to get married" to a long-term girlfriend, does it really mean "I don't see myself marrying you"?

2007-03-14 21:32:55 · 10 answers · asked by Miss B 2 in Singles & Dating

i love this guy. we used to be in love. but recently ive been feeling that we just havent had as much fun. i brought it up and hes told me that he feels the same way. we really still care lots about eachother i just dont know what to do. i know it can work if i put more effort into it but im panicking at the moment

2007-03-14 21:31:49 · 12 answers · asked by maraesa1000 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 21:30:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

this girl knoes i had feelings for her...but now that its all said and done.. she ends up with another guy... what if i still think about her..and i still like her.. what do i do!?..realli...without being straight up with her...

2007-03-14 21:30:08 · 9 answers · asked by ivan h 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, I am in 7th grade and I like this girl named Macy, well anyway, lately she keeps on hanging out with me more than usual, and lately we have sent a lot of e-mails. The other day, we sent over 130 e-mails within 2 1/2 hours. And every day at lunch when there is an open seat on the other side of the table, she sits next to me. It's kind of cool, because now there's always a seat next to me, because everyone knows that Macy will sit there. I don't know if she like's me or she is being a really good friend. And if so, since we hang out a lot should I tell her how I feel about her?

2007-03-14 21:29:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 21:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by blueflower 2 in Weddings

My mum knows that my partner and I have some finacial problems but i still dont want her to go without on mothers day! I have bought her card but i dont have enough to get her a present! She is a very practical mum and likes things she can use again like clothes or she would love a spa treatment!!

Any ideas on what I can do??

2007-03-14 21:29:07 · 14 answers · asked by kirsty m 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I come so fast till my partner says she is not satisfied

2007-03-14 21:27:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i hve a trouble on how to overcome the pain of beaking up with my boyfriend and my bestfriend at the same time, he's very nice and he loved me so much, i decided to let go even though he doesn't what to end it,..because he is already married, the relationship is not planned, it just happened that we fall in love..i knew that everything is wrong..we don't have future to be together, i don't know what to do..

2007-03-14 21:27:52 · 6 answers · asked by angel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

For a girl to love a boy, is it always necessary for the boy to be good looking..

2007-03-14 21:27:07 · 10 answers · asked by prav19 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is leaving this city in august.his mom proposed a girl named priya.She loves him itseems.but he loves me.his mom is forcing.he is not even talking tto me correctly.

2007-03-14 21:27:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 21:24:03 · 6 answers · asked by i.a. h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So im sitting in the library, working with my group on a bio project. 2 of our members take off to use the computers for research. So its just me and this girl. Mind you she already has a BF(at least i think there still together). Her foot touched my legs like twice, then her foot touched my leg again, only she didnt move it away. Sign? Im confused XD

2007-03-14 21:23:39 · 10 answers · asked by random guy 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean if you go as a friend for a girl, she will just see you as a friend, later when you wanna make some moves?

2007-03-14 21:22:25 · 13 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 21:22:17 · 21 answers · asked by surfercali87 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is Muslim and I am non-Muslim.We love each other.We would like to get married and live together.But his parents have arranged a marriage for him in Bangladesh.He lives in the UK and I am European but living in the UK as well.I am studying.
Do you have any experience with this situation?I don't know what to do.If he gets married it will kill me.I love him a lot.I can't emagine my life without him.
He doesn't like his family but is worrying how far they can go.
Is it possible to change the name and the DOB?
Thank you for all your answers.

2007-03-14 21:21:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

listen,
i have a girlfriend and today at school we had sports teams and a person in my team was in all my sports in same team (girl).... i kinda REALLY like her but i dun wanna upset my gf....
WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLZ HELpP!!!

2007-03-14 21:20:42 · 9 answers · asked by ... 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 21:20:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does he resist having sex with me right now?..even though he says he wants it so bad..?
My ex broke up with me 2 1/2 years ago b/c i moved away for college and he wanted me to have fun and enjoy my college life. Now....he continues to text me and tell me he misses me, loves me etc. but refuses to have sex with me (says he has to be good). do you think he sees a future with me? im so confused b/c i still love him so much but just always act friendly with him. from these actions..if he is still saying this to

2007-03-14 21:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me on january 1st and we have been talking and he says he still loves me and that since we are apart the love is growing stronger.I miss him so much.but he has a girlfriend. Now hes talking about marrying her, but then after I told him that I still love him and that I'm still waiting he said he wasnt sure anymore about marrying her. But why am I still waiting,Hes the first boyfriend that I've truely ever fallen in love with.How do I get him back and why am I waiting?

2007-03-14 21:16:38 · 11 answers · asked by Heather.Feather 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm writing a list for something and I've got a lot (thes basics) but I need some more and just can't come up with any.. so let me know! Thanks in advance!

2007-03-14 21:15:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The are okay with her doing this...

2007-03-14 21:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-14 21:12:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The story is long but I was upset at work texted my bf about this girl making fun of me, he ends up asking if she's hot or nasty(?) I get upset and later he texts me to go to the movies. I would be late because I was working. The movie started at 10:30 I got there at 11. He said he would wave at me when I got there. He texted me the row he was sitting in. I get there look around, but the theater is packed and dark. I can't see him and he's not acknowledging me. he turned off his phone so I sit up front. 20min later he msgs me I said I'm sitting up front. He doesn't come to me at all so after the movie, I'm in tears and walk out. He's so upset he wants to break up over it. He can't get past it that I walked out and I hurt him so bad. I don't know how I can get him to forgive me for doing that or to get him to even reconsider. I need a ton of advice on how to get him back because I might have a chance to talk to him in person tomorrow. Please please help I have no idea what to do.

2007-03-14 21:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by Cheryl K 1 in Singles & Dating

my partner argues with me and it tring me up inside i have a 16 month old son and its hard for him seeing this but i would like some edvice also we are trying for another baby

2007-03-14 21:11:37 · 10 answers · asked by modiey_blue 1 in Friends